re: How do you make yourself stop texting a girl or thinking about it?

Posted by SlowFlowPro

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:14 pm to Paige

house is empty tonight if you want to come watch a romantic comedy and then go to sleep in the spare room

Posted by Paige

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:14 pm to SlowFlowPro

no. I know you can still make me see what a stupid bitch I'm being while managing a thread

It was my excuse for not getting serious about it

Posted by Paige

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:15 pm to mattz1122

that really got me

Posted by yurintroubl

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:15 pm to Paige

Erase the number off the phone. There are ways to retrieve the number if you really REALLY need to... but not having it at your fingertips cuts down on impulse texting.

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Posted by Monk

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:15 pm to Paige

I think about what I want to happen and then play it out logically to conclude that my text will not put me where I want to be.

Plain ole boring and brutal logic over emotion.

And then it finally happens.

Posted by Paige

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:16 pm to SteveLSU35

I just told him he's a beta. But he's old and "doesn't do social media". So it was lost on him I'm sure

Posted by SEClint

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:16 pm to Paige

Restraining order

Posted by Paige

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:17 pm to Black n Gold

You know how getting off makes you have feelings (different for men I know). But doesn't it make you want to frick them more?

Posted by boosiebadazz

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:17 pm to SlowFlowPro

tsk tsk

Posted by J Murdah

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:18 pm to yurintroubl

Like they say, if you find yourself wanting to text him/her. Type it out then set the phone down, walk away for a whileand think then when you come back see if you really need to send it

Posted by Paige

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:18 pm to Hangit

Oh no. He texted me the other day. He likes to keep me hanging on

Posted by Bama and Beer

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:18 pm to Paige

Let's get the stats and info out there:

1. you're 35 and your biological clock is ticking
2. you have an early teenage son that is growing up without a father
3. you've been on numerous dates and had sex with god knows how many guys and some with a significant amount of wealth
4. they never went as you wanted them to and the guy is always at fault
5. you're lonely
6. probably horny
7. STOP TRYING SO frickING HARD

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Posted by stout

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Posted on 3/20/15 at 5:19 pm to Paige

quote:
This is a legitimate problem I'm having at the moment

You seem to obsess over everyone that treats you like shite. The car BJ dude (at first), the doc, this chick, and I am sure there are many...many...many...many others.