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re: How do you get a 4 and 2 year old to sleep in same room?

Posted on 7/23/23 at 10:35 pm to
Posted by domesticengineer
Member since Oct 2017
252 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 10:35 pm to
Manipulate them into thinking it’s fun and their idea
Posted by ghost2most
Member since Mar 2012
7490 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 10:58 pm to
Because it would just make bedtime routine easier if we kid do both at the same time and it would clear up the guest room.

Four bedroom house but one is my office.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137767 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:00 pm to
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Those of you with kids sharing rooms how do you do it? Any tips?


It is a battle of wills, and you are letting a 2 YO win.
Posted by CrimsonTideMD
Member since Dec 2010
6997 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:18 pm to
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Why do you want them in safe room?


I think it will be good for them in the long run in several critical ways:

-bonding with their siblings
-built in learning/practice in sharing and consideration for others
-feeling safe when they sleep
-getting quality sleep



I shared a room with my brothers my entire childhood, sometimes all 3 of us in one room at the same time. Decades later, 100s of miles apart, busy families and careers, we’re still close as can be. I want that for my kids too, and I think it started way back with shared big wheels and shared bedrooms.


I’ll admit, there are some selfish reasons:
-less disruption of sleep/sex for me
-the memories I’m harvesting out of this setup, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. The little conversations I overhear. Their interactions especially with the older siblings embracing responsibility and protecting/encouraging their siblings.

The mornings I go in to wake them for school and find them scattered and cuddled up together, man, I don’t even need a sip of coffee.


Posted by sabanisarustedspoke
Member since Jan 2007
5439 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:24 pm to
Your 2 year old is freaking out because your 4 year old isn't doing her job. For some reason your youngest doesn't want to be just with her sister. She's probably picking on her.
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
16305 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:25 pm to
Put a clock in the kennel with them.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144507 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:27 pm to
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she wouldn’t stfu.

quote:

just kept chattering
XX Chromosomes checks out
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53328 posts
Posted on 7/23/23 at 11:48 pm to
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Those of you with kids sharing rooms how do you do it? Any tips?
they don’t have a choice and have been sharing a room so long they don’t even know
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 7/24/23 at 12:03 am to
Kids sharing a room is trashy
Posted by rickyh
Positiger Nation
Member since Dec 2003
12693 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:04 am to
Make sure they have a special blanket and stuffed animal. Make sure a small night light is in the room. Every night read them a short story and say prayers with them. After a routine is established they will be fine. We only kept our babies in our room while they were small infants. We didn't sleep with them because it is something hard to break them of. Things will get better. Establish a routine, make it fun and stick with it.
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1054 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:16 am to
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Put scary mannequins and clown dolls in all the other rooms.


That was some funny shite right there.
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1054 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:17 am to
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Been wanting to move my girls into same bedroom for a long time but each time we tried, 2 year old freaked out.


Just curious as to why you want them to share a room versus each having their own.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:19 am to
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
46771 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:27 am to
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Just curious as to why you want them to share a room versus each having their own.


We get it you have a three bedroom home
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
46771 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:30 am to
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Kids sharing a room is trashy


You call that living?



Pics?
This post was edited on 7/24/23 at 2:31 am
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1054 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 2:47 am to
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We get it you have a three bedroom home


Ok I get that is probably the reason but OP didn’t say that specifically. I was genuinely curious if there were some other reason. It was an honest question with no hidden motive behind but I can always count on the O-T to be full of pricks ready with some smart ads comments. Thank you for not disappointing you arse.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
46771 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 3:08 am to
No problem man
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13079 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 6:31 am to
I put my two in a queen size bed. No problem.
Posted by Deek
Member since Sep 2013
1085 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 6:52 am to
little Ether goes a long way
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
11104 posts
Posted on 7/24/23 at 7:34 am to
I came from a big family in a small house, I didn't sleep alone until I got married.
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