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re: Hiding your alcoholism from a GF

Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:28 pm to
Posted by redfieldk717
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:28 pm to
Many people? Never heard that before and I’ve talked to many people
Posted by Tunasntigers92
The Boot
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:28 pm to
Put the vodka in a water bottle.
Posted by ole man
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:28 pm to
Don’t know what smart is. All I know is the big book has saved many lives including mine
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:28 pm to
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right or wrong, many people see alcoholics anonymous as simply substituting one co-dependence for another

but one makes you intolerable around your family and friends

the other makes you intolerable around everyone else
Posted by Sao
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:30 pm to

What town are you in
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:32 pm to
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AA has worked for millions of people around the world, why bash it? Saved my life and I’ve got 8.5 years.

I respect anything that helps someone else get sober...you should too




My original post was prior to this post going from OT bullshite to "shite just got real" hence my following post.

I agree with the above 100%, even if I am not a fan of AA. If it works, it works.
Posted by redfieldk717
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:33 pm to
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:33 pm to

That's not true, Owl. quite a broad brush you're painting.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:33 pm to
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Many people? Never heard that before and I’ve talked to many people


Probably because

quote:

Saved my life and I’ve got 8.5 years


Congrats to you on being one of the 5% that stays sober after one year of joining AA.

before you ask, those are internal numbers from AA. Those are just not coming out of thin air.
Posted by Winston Cup
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Member since May 2016
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:35 pm to
This is why you need to be drunk/high whatever the first time you meet a new person. They will use that as your baseline and will never suspect a thing
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:35 pm to
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That's not true, Owl. quite a broad brush you're painting.

I paint with a big paint brush baw
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:35 pm to
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Sucks if you a drunk you must have some skeletons in the coset



Not drunk anymore. Only previous skeletons are three deployments away from my wife and family. Alcohol served its purpose during those times when I came home.

Posted by boom roasted
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:37 pm to
Seems like you heard one number and believed the first thing you heard.

LINK
Posted by redfieldk717
Alec Box
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:37 pm to
I know the numbers. I’ve done plenty of research and papers on it. Still have never heard that.

I will admit that there is a percentage of people that transition co dependencies from drugs/alcohol/people over to AA/people in AA. But I wouldn’t say that’s a large portion and you saying that “many people” say that is an exaggeration.
Posted by vodka
Member since Sep 2018
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:38 pm to
I have been clean for years but I should be dead multiple times over


The sad part is, the fact that u still think being an alcoholic is funny tells me u have not even begun the descending on your roller coaster ride yet. Nothing anyone here is going to make u think u got a problem, at least if u a real mf ing addict like I was. Then when u admit u got a problem u will try to manage it, then when that doesn’t work u will accept that u have a problem and instead of hitting bottom u will replace the people and things in your life that remind u that u need to get well and that are okay with ur issues, because they got issues


AA. NA. shite I was the secretary for my NA group for two years and did two speaker meetings. Celebrate recovery. Smart. Rehab. Don’t none of that shite work, until u r ready for it to work. I did it all, multiple times, but I was never done . I liked dope whores too much lol I’ll just keep it 100. I would go to rehab and shite and the second a hot dope whore would hit me up I was off . I ain’t been to a meeting or anything in at least two years, though I’m heavily involved in church. And I want it now I know I can’t use and live. But anything will work when u are ready for it to work. No problem can make u ready


There is nothing I can say that will keep u from eventually going through what I went through. From the health problems that I have to live with for the rest of my life, to the emotional scars that I have from being hurt and hurting those close to me, you’ll go through it all. I can only pray to god to watch over u and protect u so that when u realize u want to live more than u want to use, and u can’t successfully do both, that it’s not too late


God bless my friend
This post was edited on 4/30/19 at 8:41 pm
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:39 pm to

Sorry. Just have a hard time w this topic. By page 5 I'll really be beet red when someone starts to argue choice vs disease/chemistry without knowing anything about it.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176139 posts
Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:39 pm to
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Sorry. Just have a hard time w this topic. By page 5 I'll really be beet red when someone starts to argue choice vs disease/chemistry without knowing anything about it.

I support people getting well however thats accomplished


I heal by making fun of others
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
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Member since Aug 2004
45196 posts
Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:40 pm to
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AA has worked for millions of people around the world, why bash it? Saved my life and I’ve got 8.5 years. I respect anything that helps someone else get sober...you should too
. Congrats on your success story. At the same time I know many ppl who failed. Imo AA does it wrong. I have heard everyone of the ppl that go to them meetings say that they will always be a drunk. That they cannot have one sip of alcohol and they are ruined. I think that is the wrong approach. They approach it from the view that once a drunk always a drunk. That is a failing mentality. You will never beat alcoholism with that thought process. You should say I beat it, I am cured and be proud of it. AA teaches failure and that is wrong imo
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136842 posts
Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:40 pm to
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and you saying that “many people” say that is an exaggeration.


Weird flex, but ok

I really wouldn't have a problem with AA if it was not often a court-ordered decision, especially since it is well documented that AA has no better success rate than quitting cold turkey
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
43386 posts
Posted on 4/30/19 at 8:41 pm to
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The sad part is, the fact that u still think being an alcoholic is funny tells me u have not even begun the descending on your roller coaster ride yet.


I hope you didn't actually mean to direct this post at me.

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