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re: Hey Divorced People.

Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:10 pm to
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148189 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:10 pm to
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Wife dropped it on me right before the holidays.
stuff like this cant just come out of nowhere unless you had your head in the sand or up your arse. Or both
Posted by LsuNav
Sacramento
Member since Mar 2008
1929 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:10 pm to
1. Seven years
2. She did
3. I might be a jerk
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37542 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:11 pm to
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don’t know if the “most” is as much as you think. Divorce rate wouldn’t be so high if we had more great parents in the world. An awful lot of selfish people having kids it seems.

I gotta tell you, even through some dark times, couldn’t bear to see my kids hurt by it if I can avoid it, within reason.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148189 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:11 pm to
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1. 8 years 2. Ex wife 3. I went to jail
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37542 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:13 pm to
Don’t be a dick, I’m asking honestly.
Does it depend on how it breaks by by husband/wife, huge difference, or near equal earners?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11592 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:15 pm to
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I've never been divorced but my parents were. It was certainly difficult for the kids. Thankfully, I'd say that's pretty unlikely in our marriage.


My dad was an underemployed alcoholic (boy, did I follow every stereotypical daddy issues thing with my marriage choice), and my mom was the breadwinner. She toughed it out for 45 years. I’m not sure how sometimes, looking back.

I never want to go through divorce again, especially now that there are kids. Here’s to hoping we can keep our shite together. At least #2 works hard and doesn’t have a drinking problem.
This post was edited on 1/31/25 at 10:17 pm
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37542 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:16 pm to
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Probably why you’re melting in a incel divorce thread on a Friday night

You are retarded.
For one, you’re doing the same thing
For another, family dinner and sexy time with wife earlier. Now winding down.
You?
Posted by SmoothBox
Member since May 2023
2407 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:18 pm to
Got busted with some pain pills that weren’t prescribed to me in the North Dakota. They sent me to the big house for 7 1/2 months. Was the straw that broke the camel’s back with my ex wife.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53076 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:21 pm to
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My dad was an underemployed alcoholic (boy, did I follow every stereotypical daddy issues thing with my marriage choice), and my mom was the breadwinner. She toughed it out for 45 years. I’m not sure how sometimes, looking back.

I never want to go through divorce again, especially now that there are kids. Here’s to hoping we can keep our shite together. At least #2 doesn’t have a drinking problem.

Oddly enough, we had times where we had marriage issues that I thought were potentially fatal. We'll be married 20 years in July and we don't really even fight anymore. I think most couples get to this point. She's my best friend, cheesy I know.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14612 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:22 pm to
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What’s with all the incel threads lately?



Biggest incel here is you
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78038 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:23 pm to
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Don’t be a dick, I’m asking honestly.
Does it depend on how it breaks by by husband/wife, huge difference, or near equal earners?
Sorry to seem like a dick. Ive had a dick responding to me out of his arse in the thread. At 200k and higher the rate drops to 30%, possibly even less to 600k. There are numbers that suggest with higher income disparity the rate is even lower. Regardless what I said earlier stands....higher incomes divorce less.
Posted by Bayou_Tiger_225
Third Earth
Member since Mar 2016
12451 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:30 pm to
I didn’t expect women cheating to be that common of a response
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
36688 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:35 pm to
quote:

stuff like this cant just come out of nowhere unless you had your head in the sand or up your arse. Or both


These are the people that post in these threads. They’re either so stupid or narcissistic that they’ll just blame their ex wife without ever looking in the mirror. It’s so painfully obvious and pathetic
Posted by Cregg
Orange Beach
Member since Jul 2017
2378 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:35 pm to
1. 9 months
2. She did
3. I was 19 years old and a raging alcoholic and coke head.

Hard to believe it's been almost 15 years. Went to rehab back in 2020 and she caught wind of it through the grapevine. Sent me a very kind text message that I'll keep forever.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14612 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:36 pm to
Keep white knighting bro.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
49867 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:39 pm to
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Do you not understand after this has been pointed out numerous times?

Pretty sure there’s a whole bunch this alter doesn’t understand
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53076 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:40 pm to
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These are the people that post in these threads. They’re either so stupid or narcissistic that they’ll just blame their ex wife without ever looking in the mirror. It’s so painfully obvious and pathetic

How long have you been married? I'm just curious. Because sometimes it goes from great to questionable pretty quickly. Especially when you get married pretty young. I'd agree if you've been divorced multiple times that's it's probably a you issue.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
49867 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:41 pm to
Mingo married?
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37542 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:43 pm to
Hmm. Yeah higher disparity suggests one more depends on the other, but equal earners/wealth also gives a sense of teamwork and confidence. Although the trust fund wife and moderate/poor but hard working husband thing seems to always be toxic.

Also, seems like between $200k and $600k there’s a good window for being comfortable and secure without getting too mind fricked and miserable by a lot of money, which I’ve witnessed in many situations.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48996 posts
Posted on 1/31/25 at 10:44 pm to
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How long have you been married? I'm just curious. Because sometimes it goes from great to questionable pretty quickly. Especially when you get married pretty young. I'd agree if you've been divorced multiple times that's it's probably a you issue.


Hey suck ma balls, Pal!

Both times were 100% me.
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