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re: Having a hard time putting my Lab to sleep

Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:13 pm to
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:13 pm to
Steak, scratches behind the ear, and hire a vet that will come to your home to do what you have to do for your buddy and be there with him the whole time.

It'll suck but it will be so much less stressful on him.

Then, open that bottle of whiskey you bought right after you scheduled the vet to come.
This post was edited on 9/3/20 at 6:16 pm
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32021 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:16 pm to
Just did it a month ago. 2 labs... one 13, one 14... the 13yr old passed in his sleep on his own. 2 weeks later female went down fast. Man i know it sounds bad, but i prayed she would die on her own so i didnt have to make the decision. But i went out there and she just gave me the look like "its time" and i knew i owed that to her, so she didnt have to go out like that. Hardest thing i had to do, cried like a baby holdn her as she was put down. But make sure you tell them you want 2 shots. One to sedate the pup, then the one to put her down. And make sure they wait 15-20mins after sedate shot to put down. Will relax them, and doze off. Never know get other shot. Sorry man, but its ur duty to them at this point
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129004 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:17 pm to
Just went through this end of July. And we knew our lab mix was slowly dying and that this day would come.

It still didn’t make it any easier. We knew it was time when he wouldn’t eat. He couldn’t get up on his own for the last week but my husband was working from home so carried him outside often. He would still eat and eyes light up and want to play fetch (as best as he could laying down..just throwing the ball to him). The last day....he wouldn’t eat anything....not even bacon. I had found a vet that would come to our house to do it there (figured would be less traumatic for all of us and allow our other dog to be there and know what is going on.).

We had made the appointment for the afternoon....our lab mix died on his own 2 hours after I made the appointment. We had all been camped out in the living room together so he was surrounded by my husband, myself, and our other dog.


I would suggest looking into a vet coming to your house. That way your dog’s last view is of their home and not some vet office. Also....if you have other dogs, they can actually know that their buddy is gone. And not just you left with them and they never came back.

So sorry you are having to do this. I still tear up at random stuff when it reminds me that he is gone. Dogs are wonderful and leave a lasting impact on you.
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
6617 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:17 pm to
Load up the dog and take it in to put it down. Don’t be a douche.
This post was edited on 9/3/20 at 6:19 pm
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:19 pm to
quote:

Don’t be a douche.

You are one complete lack of self-awareness having motherfricker, aren't you?
Posted by TigerinATL
Member since Feb 2005
61513 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:21 pm to
quote:

he’s got a nerve disease thats slowly making life for him and my wife and I miserable


I had a similar situation with my dog and it's hard. You need to take your own emotions and pain out of the equation though. I know I would regret it if I thought making things easier on me was part of that decision.

quote:

He’s pooping all over my house which makes me very mad to the point that I want to kick the crap out of him,


It sucks, especially when you step in it bare foot in the middle of the night and all you want to do is go back to sleep. Getting mad and frustrated is normal but you have to realize your dog is in bad shape and needs your help. I kept reminding myself of that and eventually the frustration turned into purpose, she needed my help just to do normal things.

I can't tell you when or if you should end things. With my dog things progressed to the point that we were planning to take her to the vet the next day but she didn't make it that long. She died the day before which was better for us because I can't imagine having to do that even when it's the right thing to do.

Good luck.
Posted by BayouENGR
Seagrove Beach
Member since Nov 2015
2296 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:24 pm to
I'm so sorry - hang in there! Been there...
Posted by LSUEnvy
Hou via Lake Chas
Member since May 2011
12102 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:25 pm to
Very hard for any pet owner, sounds like it’s time. 13 is a hell of a life. Best wishes
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18911 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:25 pm to
Take him to Dr. Core in Bossier. He is class and will make it nice for him. He did my black lab in and really helped both of us through it.
Posted by mauser
Orange Beach
Member since Nov 2008
21605 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:26 pm to
You know what has to be done and it hurts. Take.comfort knowing that you gave him a great life.
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
6617 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:29 pm to
Nah. I know I’m being a douche, but it doesn’t change the fact that they need to end their beloved dog’s suffering. It blows arse, but sitting around waffling and saying “woe is me” isn’t fair to their dog.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:31 pm to
Do it. If he can’t control where he shits and doesn’t move, it’s time. It sucks. You’ll cry. That’s ok

ETA
I had to do it almost 5 years ago. Of course I had to drive from BR to Corpus Cristi by myself. I cried like a little wuss
This post was edited on 9/3/20 at 6:34 pm
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7656 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:35 pm to
Man up and do the right thing
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
17713 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:38 pm to
its normal to feel upset and sad, its never easy but I have used in home Euthanasia I cant say enough good things about the service I have used here in Tennessee. I do not know this vet but I found this on google if you are in the shreveport area. LINK

Sorry about Saint.
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
10966 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:39 pm to
I remember my mom calling to tell me she was gonna put our dog "Allie" to sleep. She was our dog throughout my adolescence and teenage years. A black Chow mix we rescued. Really fun, sweet, and smart dog.

After I left the house she was my mom's only companion for years. When Allie finally started having trouble walking, my mom made the decision to put her down. I went to her house, fed Allie a filet mignon, and drove them to the vet. In the exam room, my mom was bawling, and asked me "Am I making the right decision?"

I wanted to tell her no, and to let Allie hang on a little while longer. Somehow, I held firm, and told her she was making the right decision to put her down. The vet came in and administered the drugs, and mom and I heard Allie's final heartbeat through a stethoscope.

You're making the right call, but it hurts. Part of me still regrets letting the vet stick the needle in, but there's a point in time when you have to overcome your feelings and think of the animal.
Posted by Kattail
Member since Aug 2020
3330 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:40 pm to
I’ve done it several times, heartbreaking. but I believe it’s comforting for them to have their life long beloved companion with them.
Posted by tigerfan182
Franklin, Tn
Member since Sep 2009
2779 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:42 pm to
It hurts but you have to do what is best for him. You owe him that. He doesn’t want to disappoint you so his issues are making him miserable. Prayers for you and your buddy.
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:42 pm to
been there, it is as awful as you think it will be. But sometimes it is either watch them in constant pain, asking you to help them or the alternative.

It was awful to watch him suffer from incurable cancer.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76338 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:47 pm to
I’ll put him down for you if you want to bring him over here to houston. My .22 would do the trick.
Posted by GarmischTiger
Humboldt County
Member since Mar 2007
6609 posts
Posted on 9/3/20 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

Definitely you hold him in your arms when they inject him.
This. Be there, and be the last thing that he sees and feels. It's hard, but he's earned it.
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