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re: Has my gf moved in with me.

Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:15 am to
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:15 am to
Has she moved her dildo ?

That's when you know she's staying
Posted by Drunken Crawfish
Member since Apr 2017
3857 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:16 am to
You sure it wasn’t a typo? (Y)Our?
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17215 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:17 am to
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OP, is asking her to give you some space out of the question?
nah i cpild do that she just cries alot and i hate doing that to her
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
38098 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:18 am to
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she just cries alot


Awww shite
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39149 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:19 am to
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She'll see you're a pussy who's scared of confrontation, confirming 100% that she wears the pants in your relationship and is dating below her station


Y’all give women too much credit sometimes. It’s a lot more likely that she’s just clingy and out of touch with societal norms. I highly doubt she’s conjured up this scheme to test his personality regarding confrontation. She’s trying to “basically move in” so she can have that conversation when the lease is up. “We should just get a place together, we basically live together anyway.”

Yea, women are conniving creatures. They’re after what they want though, not scheming up some fricking personality test. She wants to move in with OP officially because she sees a potential marriage. OP, if you don’t see that, you need to establish ground rules now. I will bet you my next paycheck she’s going to bring up renting a place together when the lease is up. That is 100% the end game here. There’s no Jody or test. She wants to lock you down
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 8:22 am
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114241 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:19 am to
He really can blame his lease. Most have something about unauthorized occupants. The current one I’m dealing with says anyone staying more than 7 days (don’t believe it even specifies consecutive) has to have their background run and be added to the lease. Scare her off by saying this will make her responsible for the apt as well (evictions, damages, etc). If you are a bunch of boys that should make her think twice
Posted by Tigertown in ATL
Georgia foothills
Member since Sep 2009
30111 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:21 am to
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Accept responsibility. Blaming it on your roommates is beta af.


Unless if it wasn't for the roommates, you'd want her to move in.

You could tell her it is not fair to the roommates for her to be there all the time, especially when you aren't there.

On the other hand blaming the roommates actually is not a totally bad idea because if I was the roommates, I'd be pissed as hell. So you can blame them, but make it clear that you agree with them.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83647 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:22 am to
How old are you
Posted by bigberg2000
houston, from chalmette
Member since Sep 2005
70434 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:23 am to
Do like having her there/wouldn’t mind living with her? Do you see this as a long term thing? If so you could say that while you have roommates she should at least leave when you do and when the lease ends y’all can look into your own place. She will be happy that you are thinking about a future and at the same time get out of your shite for the time being.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
38098 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:23 am to
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How old are you


Was about to ask the same thing
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39149 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:24 am to
Good point. Just make sure if you go that route you say someone called from the leasing company. An email might prompt a “let me see”
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
38098 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:24 am to
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she just cries alot and i hate doing that to her


Why does she cry a lot?
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11538 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:25 am to
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she just cries alot


This is female manipulation. Not legit. It sucks, but you need to try to harden yourself to crying.
Posted by Fe_Mike
Member since Jul 2015
3560 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:25 am to
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Sounds like i have an easy out then just tell her my roomates said something about her being over all the time and she has to pay rent if she spends the night more than 2 days a week


That's an easy out if your goal is breaking up with her.

You tell that to a girl and she will hit the hills with a quickness.

Don't take the easy out, and don't blame it on your roommates. Be a man and tell her y'all aren't living together and she can't stay there that much, especially if you aren't there.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114241 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:29 am to
Not always. Some people just cry easily. I’m way too sensitive sometimes but usually try to only do it alone.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17215 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:31 am to
Im 21 and she gives blowjobs like all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME i don't wanna piss her off to much and lose that
Posted by lsuson
Metairie
Member since Oct 2013
13943 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:32 am to
If he helps pay rent, cooks, gives good bj's, then he's moved in. Do you see yourself long term with him?
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83647 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:33 am to
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Im 21 and she gives blowjobs like all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME i don't wanna piss her off to much and lose that



That's why your roommates aren't giving you too much hassle about the utilities
Posted by VinegarStrokes
Georgia
Member since Oct 2015
13787 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:34 am to
Posted by Fe_Mike
Member since Jul 2015
3560 posts
Posted on 6/5/18 at 8:34 am to
quote:

nah i cpild do that she just cries alot and i hate doing that to her



Dang dude...is this a troll thread?

If not, just send her packing. You really want a girl that is obviously anti-social, has no friends to hang out with, can't fend for herself, and cries at the idea of not spending every waking minute with you?

That sounds miserable.

ETA

quote:

she gives blowjobs like all the time and i mean ALL THE TIME


Ehh...maybe it's time to just get your own place then.
This post was edited on 6/5/18 at 8:37 am
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