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re: Friend committed suicide

Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:30 pm to
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41887 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:30 pm to
damn, pj pls respond itt asap
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19975 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:32 pm to
quote:

How does one do this exactly?



get creative. think about the people affected, focus on them, muster positive feelings and send them out.

Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:34 pm to
quote:

There was one post last night that worried me in that regard.


What bothered me the most was that some people joked about it and didn't take it seriously. I posted in the LNST and GMT to see if someone who had his number could call him. Again, some did not think he was serious.

I never OT at work but was so concerned that today I was checking every 15 min waiting for him to get online. I felt helpless because there was nothing I could do. When he did, I was so relieved. Turns out he was NOT joking around at all and thank he God sought medical help.

Again, all suicide threats should be taken very seriously.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
76312 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:35 pm to
How old were you when your father shot himself?
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:36 pm to
I turned 18 the week after it happened then started at LSU on my birthday.

I saw him the day before and he was happier than he'd been in a long time. The next day, I got the call and arrived as he was being airlifted in a helicopter for OLOL. He was kept alive for one more day for organ donation.
This post was edited on 6/28/17 at 9:40 pm
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85263 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:38 pm to
Life is about recognizing and dealing with suffering. Some can't complete the journey and we will never understand why . Let go of him and constructively focus on your journey.Prayers of compassion and acceptance To you.
Posted by oVo
Member since Dec 2013
11983 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:40 pm to
Did this happen yesterday? Sorry for your loss.
Posted by Scooba
Member since Jun 2013
20005 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:41 pm to
quote:

all suicide threats should be taken very seriously.


Agreed.
Posted by countryboy2
Zimbabwe
Member since Jan 2009
1474 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:41 pm to
This evening
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:43 pm to
I noticed you did try to help him. Thanks Scooba.
Posted by The Blonde Tiger
Member since Jun 2017
1047 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:44 pm to
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37516 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:44 pm to
quote:

damn, pj pls respond itt asap

He's been posting today doing what makes him happiest. Telling Oweo to frick off.
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39948 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:48 pm to
That's rough. Sorry you had to go through that.

This post was edited on 6/29/17 at 6:50 am
Posted by financetiger
Member since Feb 2008
1842 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:49 pm to
The time for the greatest risk of suicide is right after they get put on meds.
This post was edited on 6/28/17 at 9:50 pm
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39948 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:50 pm to
quote:

He's been posting today doing what makes him happiest. Telling Oweo to frick off.



He's doing God's work
Posted by Junky
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2005
9069 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:51 pm to
quote:

depression are too often masked and hidden.


For me, it was easy to hide. Depression is a s.o.b. to deal with and no one knew. People will only let you know what they want you to know. So don't hold it against yourself. We all have are dark secretes. Only one person knows mine - and I married her.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138159 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:51 pm to
quote:

Maybe not the right place for this and people can ridicule but I will admit I have had some messed up thoughts about stuff I've seen in war and if not for my family I don't know where I may be now.
lots of people have those thoughts, if only for a split second

it is realizing how much you are loved and needed and appreciated that is critical in understanding each and every person's self-worth
Posted by NorthEnd
Member since Oct 2007
2200 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:52 pm to
Guy had a bunch of kids too. Very sad.
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39948 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:53 pm to
Very true, Rouge.
Posted by tketaco
Sunnyside, Houston
Member since Jan 2010
21497 posts
Posted on 6/28/17 at 9:57 pm to
Had a young man who was my gunner in the Gun Truck. Never saw major combat, very minimal. He always thought suicide was for the weak. Kid ended up killing himself after over a year at home.

You sometimes just cant see that shite coming.
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