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re: For those that thought divorce would be awesome..

Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:42 pm to
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:42 pm to
Since Ive seen a pic or two of your latest squeeze, I'll agree with you.

You also went to marriage counseling school?
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42969 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:44 pm to
Tyga,

Start eating that cooch right or she will (if not already has) found someone who will!
Posted by White Bear
AT WORK
Member since Jul 2014
17261 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:44 pm to
She works fulltime?
Posted by Taurus
Loozianna
Member since Feb 2015
4955 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

Here's my advice

1. Hire a housekeeper
2. Cook or go out more often
3. Use babysitting more often to go out on dates.
4. Buy her shite that pampers her. Spas and stuff like that.
5. Quit having kids. They're a pain in the arse.
6. Go on vacation more often.
7. Arrange for her to spend time with her girlfriends or sister or whatever she wants

Good luck.


Not bad advice, but make your kids do more house cleaning instead of them playing on the pc. You also help out. Unload a dishwasher or put your dirties in an empty one. Vacuum a room every know and then. Don't waste money on a housekeeper.

Date nights cover #2 and 3. But her girl nights are the main thing

#4 is a waste. You pamper her? Called massages. 15 minutes of your time rubbing her shoulders, neck, and breasts and usually ends with a happy ending

Letting her have girlfriend time is a definite. And you will be rewarded for that. Like you won't believe.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41531 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:50 pm to
Yep. She also volunteers for EVERYTHING, which is admirable, but also causes a lot of extra stress. We split the chores pretty evenly and we both shuttle kids to and from all of their activities. I own and run a business. We both stay pretty busy
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
48737 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:50 pm to
quote:

Got married at 21, now 36 with 3 kids. Wife is always angry. My mind wanders and thinks of what it could be like to be single and have roughly 2/3rds of my current income.




Yeah should have just not gotten married. I'm a year older than you and I don't have any of those problems.
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7777 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:53 pm to
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We both stay pretty busy
Sounds like you've both grown apart and don't share the same life anymore. Easy to do when there are so many things pulling us in different directions all of the time. Sounds like you two need to trim some fat and get back to being on the "same team".
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85621 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:53 pm to
I learned it in a class last quarter

Would the power point slides without links to the actual studies be sufficient?
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42018 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:54 pm to
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Really try and do this even if it is just a small weekend type of thing. Hell, you don't even have to leave town every time but get a hotel room, hit a few restaurants/bars and see/do some things together and try to reconnect. Don't go down without a fight.


you got together at 21 and start popping out kids when was your fun time

drop the kids with the grandparents and do an extended weekend in Key West little drinking and beach relaxation.

vacations great time to reconnect with the wife just the 2 of you deciding what to do and it is mostly fun choice vs fun choice


sell it as you do so much for the family and or kids are getting old it is just time to get out. Pierhouse is on the end of duval has it's own little beach going to cost you north of 200 a night

do it
This post was edited on 12/15/16 at 1:56 pm
Posted by Rabid Tiger
New York, NY
Member since Sep 2003
3694 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:55 pm to
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Got married at 21


That was your first mistake...
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7777 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:55 pm to
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Yeah should have just not gotten married. I'm a year older than you and I don't have any of those problems.
Very easy to say when you're not in the same situation. At least he realizes the problem and is seemingly interested in possibly fixing it.

I've seen way too many people who think like you who gets their life crushed in one fell swoop. Maybe your life is great, but they "didn't have any problems" either and never saw it coming.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136133 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

For those that thought divorce would be awesome..


quote:

Tyga Woods


You'll get a 9 iron to the head.
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11938 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

Start eating that cooch right


It's all about that booty hole. Bitches love when that booty hole gets eaten
Posted by UF
Florida
Member since Nov 2016
2696 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:01 pm to
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Women are all batshit crazy bags of uncontrollable hormones that need men to control their madness.

If you've been married 15 years and you still don't know what it takes to shut your wife up and put a smile on her face, then you are a shitty husband. You're also an idiot.

If you spend that much time with a person for 15 years and don't know why their mad and don't know how to make it better you lack instincts. Pay attention.


This is the stupidest shite I've ever read.

Woman crazy.
Crazy means irrational, unpredictable, does not respond to reason.

No one is an idiot or a shitty husband for not being able to deal with a crazy person. The crazy person is at fault.

He's a husband not a psychotherapist.

This moronic attitude that blames men is the problem in society.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:02 pm to
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My brother did alright for himself in his divorce. My whore of an ex SIL was cheating


That is a very different circumstance.

BTW, lets see some of those pics. You know damn well you can get them!
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17628 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:05 pm to
quote:

I learned it in a class last quarter

Would the power point slides without links to the actual studies be sufficient?


Aren't you going to a Catholic affiliated institution?
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:06 pm to
Posted by CaliforniaTiger
The Land of Fruits and Nuts
Member since Dec 2007
5327 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:11 pm to
Don't do it
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
46403 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:13 pm to
If you're miserable, get out

Yes it'll be hell for a few years but life is too short.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
23833 posts
Posted on 12/15/16 at 2:15 pm to
My advice - do everything to work your shite out. I'm not kidding - I would gladly put up with a bitchy wife to be a daily part of my kids life again. I WOULD DO ANYTHING for that.

The grass is not greener here. There will be some who will tell you otherwise but they are likely just trying to justify their shitty situation.

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