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re: For those that thought divorce would be awesome..
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:10 pm to Count Chocula
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:10 pm to Count Chocula
Nope not from Arkansas and I have had the same name here since I registered
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Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:12 pm to Breesus
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Ill bet you 100:1 odds That's why she's angry all the time. You have to make time.
And before you say, but she always says she tired and not in the mood, again, if after 15 years you don't know what puts her in the mood you haven't been paying attention.
Agreed. Seems like he's blaming the kids for it too. 14 and 13 year olds can go out for spend-the-nights. 4 year old can go to sleep pretty early.
Even if the kids are home, put on some music and frick your wife. What are they going to do if they accidentally hear you? Get grossed out?
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:13 pm to Boudreaux35
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and if that woman isn't working, you'll likely be paying alimony also.
Tell that bitch to get a fricking job
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:14 pm to StringedInstruments
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Even if the kids are home, put on some music and frick your wife. What are they going to do if they accidentally hear you? Get grossed out?
Even if you're in a hotel room with your kids on a budget vacation, you still can frick in the shower in the morning.
Where there's a will there's a way. You just have to make an effort.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:14 pm to Tyga Woods
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and 13, and a 4 yr old daughter. There is hardly any time for bangin. Maybe average out to once every 3 weeks or so.
I'd schedule a date. I'd schedule a date night once a week and be intimate on those dates. If you have to force it, or she says no, the love is lost and won't return.
And there is no amount of money you will lose now that will be worth ruining your kids lives by teaching them how to have horrible relationships.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:14 pm to LSUfanNkaty
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Tell that bitch to get a fricking job
The first thing her divorce attorney will do is advise against that.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:14 pm to Blob Fish
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The older the kids, the easier the transition. If the kids are young, good luck. You made it 15 years. Live with your decision for the kids, and then call it quits later. You're quite young.
That's perhaps the worst advice I have ever heard.
1. Obviously try to work it out
2. If things do not change cut bait
3. Tell your kids without blaming one over the other
4. Shelter your kids from the incoming shitstorm that is a soon to be ex-wife
5. Learn from your mistake, find a good woman and show your children an example of what a happy, loving relationship really should look like.
You've wasted a good number of years already, if things don't seem to get better then you need to seriously consider divorce.
The anger your wife carries is not healthy for your children to see. If you are the source of that anger it would be in everyone's best interests to separate.
This post was edited on 12/15/16 at 12:16 pm
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:15 pm to Tyga Woods
Pics!!!
Why is she always angry? Re-engage! Stay in the game!
Why is she always angry? Re-engage! Stay in the game!
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:16 pm to Tyga Woods
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Tyga Woods
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playing golf
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Any divorce success stories?
Name checks out.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:17 pm to Tyga Woods
(no message)
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Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:18 pm to Perrydawg
quote:I was joking / sarcasm
Nope not from Arkansas and I have had the same name here since I registered
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:18 pm to Tigeralum2008
I believe we do a pretty good job of faking it for the kids. She doesn't project her anger towards them. It's mostly to the point where unless we are discussing our kids, or having a conversation with them at the table or something like that, we just kinda avoid each other.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:19 pm to Boudreaux35
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I wouldn't spend that 2/3rds just yet. Child support is a bitch and if that woman isn't working, you'll likely be paying alimony also.
I'm not divorced, but this is wise advice. You definitely shouldn't operate as though things will go according to what you imagine as the best-case scenario. And don't underestimate your legal fees - not just for the divorce, but also for the possibility of various contempt and modification hearings that happen after a divorce.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:20 pm to Count Chocula
yea sorry that one went over my head, I thought I had missed a similar story on here
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:20 pm to Breesus
quote:dude has no idea how the courts figure out child support.
You have 3 kids under 15, you're the primary bread winner, and you want to sell your house?
Good luck.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:20 pm to Tyga Woods
This is why affairs are healthy for marriages.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:22 pm to SabiDojo
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This is why affairs are healthy for marriages.
And more healthy for you lawyer types when busted!
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:22 pm to Tyga Woods
Why not take a chance at happiness?
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:22 pm to SamuelClemens
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Get divorced, find someone with whom you can create a happy home. And do this now while your kids still have a chance.
If OP wouldn't have gotten married at 21 when he was still obviously a complete dumbass, his problems would not exist today. But OP married using the wrong head and its taken him 15 years to figure it out.
My question is, how do you let it go 15 years, continue to have more kids to drag through this mess, and not realize this shite sooner? Did he seriously just figure this out recently?
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:23 pm to Jimmydatiger
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She will do everything in her power to make your children hate you. And she will be successful because she will be 100%committed to that and use 100% of her energy and focus to make it happen while you being a normal human being will only devote 10% of your focus to preventing it. Until you realize it's happened and it's already to late.
I have 50-50 custody. My ex tried to pit them against me but once my kids saw that my actions towards them did not line up with what my ex was saying about me, they quickly realized she was psycho and her words were not to be taken seriously.
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