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re: Does the "no contact" rule really work?

Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:28 pm to
Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
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Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:28 pm to
It is to help you move on, not get her back.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:29 pm to
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Just man up and admit you were a jerk whether you mean it or not. Lay it on thick if you want to. Women always go for that whether they act like it or not.


Worst advice in the thread. Even worse than the intentionally bad advice.
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7361 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:30 pm to
Write her a song. Be sure to include lines like you'll always be mine, I can't be without you, don't make me mad, etc. Then go to her workplace and sing it to her. If that doesn't win her back, then she wasn't right for you.
Posted by AjaxFury
In & out of The Matrix
Member since Sep 2014
9928 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:31 pm to
You're best case scenario is she hooked up with another girl in her exploratory phase

If you lay low she'll contact you in a month or 2 to see what's up... play the field man
Posted by TigernMS12
Member since Jan 2013
5541 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:31 pm to
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paging goldennugget


LO fricking L.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:32 pm to
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Gcockboi


Indeed. That girl had someone long dicking her for weeks before she dumped your bitch arse. There's no way she didn't take that leap without already having some other dick to make a hard landing on. She'd come home and kiss you with his dick on her breath.

Remember the flavor.
This post was edited on 5/16/17 at 6:34 pm
Posted by ihometiger
Member since Dec 2013
12475 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:35 pm to
Best advice ever given is this: call her and hang up repeatedly tonight. Send her 50 emails tonight telling her how much you don't miss her. And if that doesn't work show up at her house with a mask on.

If You try these techniques you will get her attention!

PS you can thank me later because I ain't no Beta.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:35 pm to
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Meh, if she's not into you, there isn't much you can do to change it.


Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
54312 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:37 pm to
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:37 pm to
So you've been taking dating advice from goldennugget?

And that led to you getting dumped?

And now you want more advice from guys like him?

Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:39 pm to
Best advice in the thread
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:41 pm to
It's called dread

The question is the reason she dumped you

If she dumped you because you went beta and became too soft, clingy, needy, etc. there is nothing you can do. Once a beta, always a beta in the eyes of a woman. Once you poison the well with beta behavior you can't undo it. It's like shitting into a glass of clean water. Yeah you can run the water through all kinds of filters to make it drinkable again but it won't taste as good and won't be worth the time and effort, might as well just get a fresh glass of water.

Rollo Tomassi on exes:

quote:

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.



No contact only works if she is still attracted to you on a primal level(i.e. attracted to you, your looks, your masculinity) and not a provider level(attracted to your resources and provider qualities). If she is still attracted to you than dumping you could be a huge shite test to see how you react. In that case going no contact is the best way to go but it only works if there are other women in the equation. That is what dread is - fear that you can and will find another woman or two or three in your life. Going no contact can help foster that.

General advice: Go find other women. Cultivate new relationships. If your ex is still attracted to you and open to returning, that may as well do the trick.

MY ADVICE: Ghost her, rid her out of your life and find new women. Forget about her completely even if she comes crawling back to you. Like Rollo said - Better off just cultivating new relationships and forgetting about the old ones.
Posted by Gcockboi
Rock Hill
Member since Oct 2012
7689 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:43 pm to
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I thought she broke up with you after you went Daily Stormer on her half Jewish arse?



Yeah, then I applied NC for a week and she took me back, I made sure she chased me. I went full redpill on her arse again last week after getting drunk

I think it's over for good lol
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:45 pm to
quote:

It's called dread

The question is the reason she dumped you

If she dumped you because you went beta and became too soft, clingy, needy, etc. there is nothing you can do. Once a beta, always a beta in the eyes of a woman. Once you poison the well with beta behavior you can't undo it. It's like shitting into a glass of clean water. Yeah you can run the water through all kinds of filters to make it drinkable again but it won't taste as good and won't be worth the time and effort, might as well just get a fresh glass of water.

Rollo Tomassi on exes:

quote:
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.


No contact only works if she is still attracted to you on a primal level(i.e. attracted to you, your looks, your masculinity) and not a provider level(attracted to your resources and provider qualities). If she is still attracted to you than dumping you could be a huge shite test to see how you react. In that case going no contact is the best way to go but it only works if there are other women in the equation. That is what dread is - fear that you can and will find another woman or two or three in your life. Going no contact can help foster that.

General advice: Go find other women. Cultivate new relationships. If your ex is still attracted to you and open to returning, that may as well do the trick.

MY ADVICE: Ghost her, rid her out of your life and find new women. Forget about her completely even if she comes crawling back to you. Like Rollo said - Better off just cultivating new relationships and forgetting about the old ones.
Posted by Gcockboi
Rock Hill
Member since Oct 2012
7689 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:48 pm to
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If she dumped you because you went beta and became too soft, clingy, needy, etc. there is nothing you can do. Once a beta, always a beta in the eyes of a woman. Once you poison the well with beta behavior you can't undo it. It's like shitting into a glass of clean water. Yeah you can run the water through all kinds of filters to make it drinkable again but it won't taste as good and won't be worth the time and effort, might as well just get a fresh glass of water.


Nah, I was never needy, insecure, clingy or beta. In fact the last words I told her is " I'm not interested in friendship, if you ever change your mind, then you contact me

quote:

MY ADVICE: Ghost her, rid her out of your life and find new women. Forget about her completely even if she comes crawling back to you. Like Rollo said - Better off just cultivating new relationships and forgetting about the old ones.



That's what I'm going to do. It's her loss, I'm a fricking catch in my eyes.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:51 pm to
Post pics

I want to see what you were pulling Baw
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:52 pm to
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That's what I'm going to do. It's her loss, I'm a fricking catch in my eyes.


You obviously want her back though.

The only way to do that is to have her come back on her own - without her knowing you want her back. I would recommend just moving on, but if you must:

-Find other women
-Be seen with other women
-Continue ignoring her
-She'll possibly come back around and you can decide if you want it

This post was edited on 5/16/17 at 6:55 pm
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:57 pm to
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frick her, move on.


One or the other, can't do both.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22010 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:59 pm to
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So, my ex just dumped me a week ago and I automatically went no contact on her arse. This is suppose to make her wonder wtf you're up to and ultimately miss you.



Best way to get over one chick is to get into another..... move on.
Posted by Gcockboi
Rock Hill
Member since Oct 2012
7689 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 7:14 pm to
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You obviously want her back though.



I'll admit that is true.

quote:

The only way to do that is to have her come back on her own

Yep, which is why, I'm implying no contact. If she never contacts me again, then oh well. There are plenty of other women in the sea. There's another bus every 15 minutes.
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