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re: Does the "no contact" rule really work?

Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:54 pm to
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21157 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:54 pm to
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So, my ex just dumped me a week ago


quote:

paging goldennugget


Sounds about right.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
74759 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:55 pm to
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Sweet! Gonna get my appletini game working tonight.

see you there!

I'll bring the Backgammon game!
This post was edited on 5/16/17 at 5:59 pm
Posted by Tiger in NY
Neptune Beach, FL
Member since Sep 2003
30589 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:55 pm to
Guy gets kicked to the curb by his old lady, starts thread calling out "betas"

Irony
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:55 pm to
No it doesn't work

If I were you I'd text or call her ASAP

Show up to her house unannounced with flowers
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
60519 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 5:58 pm to
Yep OP needs to kick that guys arse to win her back
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
35273 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:01 pm to
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I'll bring the Backgammon game!


Tonight will be swell!
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
74759 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:02 pm to
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Tonight will be swell!



fer sure!!!
Posted by DownSouthCrawfish
Lift every voice and sing
Member since Oct 2011
37660 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:04 pm to
Congrats on the freedom.
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
8001 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:06 pm to
Pics or GTFO.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
37000 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:07 pm to
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went no contact on her arse


Maybe that's your problem.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27203 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:10 pm to
If you're hoping for advice from golden nugget, you've already lost not only the battle but the war.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68078 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:13 pm to
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So, my ex just dumped me a week ago and I automatically went no contact on her arse.


The way we all likely see it, she's done the same to you.

Think about that. You think she's curled up under a throw sobbing?
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:16 pm to
There are too many variable to give solid advice, but I'm sure you love all those immature responses you got. If it was a fairly short relationship, anything is possible. If it was a long relationship, a female will almost always take the guy back 2 or 3 times. Odds are, you were a jerk to her like many of us have been. Just man up and admit you were a jerk whether you mean it or not. Lay it on thick if you want to. Women always go for that whether they act like it or not.
Posted by Blob Fish
Member since Mar 2016
3091 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:16 pm to
I mean a lot of it depends on the circumstances surrounding the aforementioned dumping. If she dumped you because you fricked her sister, then you may be SOL.

That being said, ain't nothing in the world makes a girl second-guess herself more than seeing the guy she just dumped with another (hopefully attractive) woman who looks thrilled to have her discarded boyfriend. Change her contact info in your cellphone to "ABSOLUTELY DO NOT ANSWER", download some dating apps, and get back on the horse.

It doesn't always work, but I think it's the best shot you've got. PLUS, you'll have a damned good time off the leash.

Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114729 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:18 pm to
If you don't contact her you will learn one of two things.

- She really likes you and didn't realize it until after not having you around.

- She really wants you gone.. So move on.
Posted by TennesseeFan25
Honolulu
Member since May 2016
8391 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:18 pm to
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So, my ex just dumped me a week ago and I automatically went no contact on her arse. This is suppose to make her wonder wtf you're up to and ultimately miss you.


Absolutely, don't allow her anything though either.

If she can check your facebook and you're posting mopey shite about dogs jumping in pools and it will get better smiley faces she knows you're still lame as shite.

If you don't give her anything though, and don't reach out like a sap she'll definitely feel it.

The thing is though this is simply to piss her off and make her insecure, there's not a whole lot of situations where you guys break up and end up back together magically to live our your days.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:25 pm to
If you're breaking up while you are just dating then it almost definitely isn't going to work anyway. Move on.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:26 pm to
Do you want her back? If so can't help you. If you don't, never speak to her or entertain anything her again. She will almost certainly reach out at some point. Not responding will piss her off
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3897 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:26 pm to
Meh, if she's not into you, there isn't much you can do to change it. If she is, there's a lot you can do to change it.
Posted by joshnorris14
Florida
Member since Jan 2009
45657 posts
Posted on 5/16/17 at 6:28 pm to
I thought she broke up with you after you went Daily Stormer on her half Jewish arse?
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