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re: Do you think you could be someone's, the someone that got away?
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:08 am to OWLFAN86
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:08 am to OWLFAN86
We dated when I was 19-21 and he wanted to propose but neither of us were ready to get married. He cheated and that's a non-negotiable for me so I left.
Almost every time I've been single over the last 20 years he's reached out. Despite having been married and having kids with her. Ran into a mutual friend the other day and he was apparently asking about me, again.
Absolutely dodged a bullet there.
Almost every time I've been single over the last 20 years he's reached out. Despite having been married and having kids with her. Ran into a mutual friend the other day and he was apparently asking about me, again.
Absolutely dodged a bullet there.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:33 am to Slagathor
quote:Agreed!
Along that same vein, I firmly believe your true love will NEVER be someone's boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse.
This post was edited on 4/2/25 at 9:46 am
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:36 am to OWLFAN86
quote:
Do you think you could be someone's, the someone that got away?
Know it for sure. She's mine too. Is what it is at this point. She ditched me and we played this cat and mouse game for like a year and half.
Took me awhile, but I got tired of it and moved on, met my wife and we've been happily married 8 years with a 3 year old now.
She had a couple flings, but has been single for awhile, and then like 4 nights ago my wife was like "Why is this bitch viewing my Tik Tok profile all the time?" I was just like oh here we go, then my wife goes, "I don't give a frick. You ain't leaving." which is true also.
So yeah, is what it is. Don't think a whole lot about it anymore unless she's in the recent views tab on my wife's Tik Tok.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:05 am to prostyleoffensetime
I used to think I was but the more I think about it and all opportunities that were missed, chances never taken and more time passes I realize probably not. Just me living in Fantasy Land where I imagine I’m his and he’s mine.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:19 am to OWLFAN86
Does online stalking and harassment count as a sign I got away?


Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:21 am to Slagathor
quote:
Along that same vein, I firmly believe your true love will NEVER be someone's boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse.
Hard agree. And

Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:23 am to BabyTac
Don’t you commit return fraud at academy?
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:31 am to BabyTac
quote:
I matured at a faster pace.

Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:31 am to OWLFAN86
I know for sure I am for two women. Both situations came down to I never felt like accepting less than what I deserve for myself as a person. I ended it where some people would have stuck it out (both were how they treated me).
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:35 am to Aspercel
quote:I think that means not yet.
Does online stalking and harassment count as a sign I got away?

Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:51 am to OWLFAN86
Girl I dated for three years in the mid 90s left me for some dude she met on America Online.
She broke up with that guy and shacked up with some other dude she met on America Online. He knocked her up and dropped her like a bad habit.
We're Facebook friends, and a few years ago she sends me a message that went something like "Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. And I regret it every day. You were The One."
I'm like "That was over 20 years ago. Time to let it go and move on." I then blocked her.
She broke up with that guy and shacked up with some other dude she met on America Online. He knocked her up and dropped her like a bad habit.
We're Facebook friends, and a few years ago she sends me a message that went something like "Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. And I regret it every day. You were The One."
I'm like "That was over 20 years ago. Time to let it go and move on." I then blocked her.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:49 am to kingbob
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She was on the verge of getting engaged to her boyfriend, considered leaving him for me, and ended up alone. She’s still never been engaged or married since (been about 6 years).
How many cats does she have?
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:54 am to OWLFAN86
Maybe, but that's life. I don't spend too much time thinking about what ifs. Because life is too short to think about what might happen or might have happened.
It's better to focus on what is happening and what I can do about it.
It's better to focus on what is happening and what I can do about it.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:59 am to OWLFAN86
Nope. I’m the one my wife wish got away
Posted on 4/2/25 at 12:57 pm to OWLFAN86
I know a woman that looks upon me as the one that got away.
I consider it more of an escape from her.
I consider it more of an escape from her.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:05 pm to OWLFAN86
All I know is my ex wife reads this board and follows my posts.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:07 pm to OWLFAN86
I think so. Met in during high school years at the beach. I lived there, she was on vacay with her family. She went to college at UK, I went to Alabama. I got my first job in Houston, she moved to Louisville. We kept up and saw each other a couple times a year, sometimes more from probably ages 17 - 30.
We could just never really sync up, relationship-wise or life events-wise over those 13 years. Either she was sort of dating someone, taking a new career path or I was when we did get together. I eventually got married to my future ex at 31 and I remember telling the girl over the phone (before marriage) and it felt devastating for the both of us. Probably a hint that the girl I married would eventually be an ex.
We could just never really sync up, relationship-wise or life events-wise over those 13 years. Either she was sort of dating someone, taking a new career path or I was when we did get together. I eventually got married to my future ex at 31 and I remember telling the girl over the phone (before marriage) and it felt devastating for the both of us. Probably a hint that the girl I married would eventually be an ex.
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:13 pm to Mr Roboto
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She misses my large cock
Ah, chicken farmer I see…
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