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re: Do you think you could be someone's, the someone that got away?

Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:08 am to
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Member since Nov 2010
104336 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:08 am to
We dated when I was 19-21 and he wanted to propose but neither of us were ready to get married. He cheated and that's a non-negotiable for me so I left.

Almost every time I've been single over the last 20 years he's reached out. Despite having been married and having kids with her. Ran into a mutual friend the other day and he was apparently asking about me, again.

Absolutely dodged a bullet there.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
59255 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:33 am to
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Along that same vein, I firmly believe your true love will NEVER be someone's boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse.
Agreed!

This post was edited on 4/2/25 at 9:46 am
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11989 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 9:36 am to
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Do you think you could be someone's, the someone that got away?



Know it for sure. She's mine too. Is what it is at this point. She ditched me and we played this cat and mouse game for like a year and half.

Took me awhile, but I got tired of it and moved on, met my wife and we've been happily married 8 years with a 3 year old now.

She had a couple flings, but has been single for awhile, and then like 4 nights ago my wife was like "Why is this bitch viewing my Tik Tok profile all the time?" I was just like oh here we go, then my wife goes, "I don't give a frick. You ain't leaving." which is true also.

So yeah, is what it is. Don't think a whole lot about it anymore unless she's in the recent views tab on my wife's Tik Tok.
Posted by STigers
Gulf Coast
Member since Nov 2022
3129 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:05 am to
I used to think I was but the more I think about it and all opportunities that were missed, chances never taken and more time passes I realize probably not. Just me living in Fantasy Land where I imagine I’m his and he’s mine.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114363 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:19 am to
Does online stalking and harassment count as a sign I got away?

Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114363 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:21 am to
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Along that same vein, I firmly believe your true love will NEVER be someone's boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse.


Hard agree. And
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
117334 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:23 am to
Don’t you commit return fraud at academy?
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
52658 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:31 am to
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I matured at a faster pace.


Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19081 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:31 am to
I know for sure I am for two women. Both situations came down to I never felt like accepting less than what I deserve for myself as a person. I ended it where some people would have stuck it out (both were how they treated me).
Posted by AlphaTango
Piney woods
Member since Mar 2025
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Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:34 am to
nah that ship has sailed
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
59255 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:35 am to
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Does online stalking and harassment count as a sign I got away?
I think that means not yet.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
24555 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 10:51 am to
Girl I dated for three years in the mid 90s left me for some dude she met on America Online.

She broke up with that guy and shacked up with some other dude she met on America Online. He knocked her up and dropped her like a bad habit.

We're Facebook friends, and a few years ago she sends me a message that went something like "Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. And I regret it every day. You were The One."

I'm like "That was over 20 years ago. Time to let it go and move on." I then blocked her.
Posted by morganwadefan
TN
Member since May 2023
1145 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:49 am to
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She was on the verge of getting engaged to her boyfriend, considered leaving him for me, and ended up alone. She’s still never been engaged or married since (been about 6 years).


How many cats does she have?
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
5813 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:54 am to
Maybe, but that's life. I don't spend too much time thinking about what ifs. Because life is too short to think about what might happen or might have happened.

It's better to focus on what is happening and what I can do about it.
Posted by KirbStomp22
Jefferson
Member since Jan 2024
149 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 11:59 am to
Nope. I’m the one my wife wish got away
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
214038 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 12:01 pm to
I do… I certainly do.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14588 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 12:57 pm to
I know a woman that looks upon me as the one that got away.

I consider it more of an escape from her.
Posted by TrapperJohn
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
11842 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:05 pm to
All I know is my ex wife reads this board and follows my posts.
Posted by PCRammer
1725 Slough Avenue in Scranton, PA
Member since Jan 2014
1666 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:07 pm to
I think so. Met in during high school years at the beach. I lived there, she was on vacay with her family. She went to college at UK, I went to Alabama. I got my first job in Houston, she moved to Louisville. We kept up and saw each other a couple times a year, sometimes more from probably ages 17 - 30.

We could just never really sync up, relationship-wise or life events-wise over those 13 years. Either she was sort of dating someone, taking a new career path or I was when we did get together. I eventually got married to my future ex at 31 and I remember telling the girl over the phone (before marriage) and it felt devastating for the both of us. Probably a hint that the girl I married would eventually be an ex.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
20678 posts
Posted on 4/2/25 at 1:13 pm to
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She misses my large cock


Ah, chicken farmer I see…
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