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re: Do you let your kids "win" at games/sports/etc?

Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:06 pm to
Posted by LZ83
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:06 pm to
Everyone don't get a trophy in real life baw.


That's an understatement and solid post. Could even be sig material.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:06 pm to
No, I do not let them win.

I don't humiliate them either, but life doesn't just give you wins.
Posted by Darth Aranda
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:07 pm to
Posted by wartiger2004
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:07 pm to
Just beat my seven year old and his momma (no pics) at monopoly and they still aren't over it.
Posted by Peazey
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:07 pm to
Many years ago my cousin got mad at me at Christmas when I beat her at the time 5 or 6 year old son at checkers. I didn't crush him like I could have. I just kept the game close, and when it got to the end I actually let him move my pieces to beat himself. But of course she made me out to be the bad guy.

I just think that just giving things away with no effort is a bad lesson to teach kids that everything is easy, regardless of age. You shouldn't demoralize the kid, but making them work a little isn't a bad thing, I think.
Posted by Loungefly85
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:08 pm to
My dad never let me win.

But the day I finally beat the old man at Bball in the driveway was the greatest. It wouldn't have meant jack shite if he had let me win all those years.
Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:08 pm to
Didn't be my dad in basketball until I was 15. Each year leading up to 15 I was getting that much better. He was playing dirtier and dirtier as I got older. Mother fricker was out there like Bill Laimbeer beating the shite out me when I drove to the basketball talking about "this is a man's sport go inside with ya momma if you ain't man enough to battle on the court!" I didn't become Jordan but it did feel good to work at something with a competitive desire and finally accomplish it. That would have never happen if he just let me win.
Posted by Bayoumike
Member since Mar 2017
647 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:08 pm to
I draw the line at using PEDs to gain an unfair advantage over my kids.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:08 pm to
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:08 pm to
quote:

Just beat my seven year old and his momma (no pics) at monopoly and they still aren't over it.



lol...spinoff: anyone else's SO/wifey/baby momma nudge them and say let them win once in awhile? I just tell them...you just dont get it....
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:09 pm to
quote:

But the day I finally beat the old man at Bball in the driveway was the greatest. It wouldn't have meant jack shite if he had let me win all those years.



Yes. This. When he does beat me. I know he will. It will be that much sweeter.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

anyone else's SO/wifey/baby momma nudge them and say let them win once in awhile?


when she starts that shite I tell her to bring her arse on the court and let me beat her arse just like I beat his...she usually goes back in the kitchen after that
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:10 pm to
quote:

she usually goes back in the kitchen after that


better be making you a sammich too.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:12 pm to
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Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:12 pm to
quote:

better be making you a sammich too.



and better be bringing me and junior a beer as well
Posted by wartiger2004
9X National Champions WDE RIP CK
Member since Aug 2011
20253 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:12 pm to
I always have the feeling of Ric Flair. To be the man you've got to beat the man.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:13 pm to
quote:

EX: son and I playing basketball.


how does someone go about having an ex son? Did he divorce you?
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
26751 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:15 pm to
Yes. But my children are 5 and 1 so it would be pretty silly if I didn't. I think you gradually phase out letting them win, but if you are actually going to "compete" in a physical or mental game with a small child you are going to handicap yourself to the point that if they are ever going to win the game then you have obviously let them do it for all intents and purposes.

With my five year old I don't let him win every time, but I try to keep it relatively competitive so that he is challenged but still has fun. He's not dumb - he knows I'm not going all out.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86706 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

My dad never let me win.

But the day I finally beat the old man at Bball in the driveway was the greatest. It wouldn't have meant jack shite if he had let me win all those years.


this

still haven't beat my dad in arm wrestling

goddamn old man strength
Posted by Wermanium
Member since Apr 2016
760 posts
Posted on 4/18/17 at 3:18 pm to
I love playing Wii bowling with my 2 and 4 yr olds. Of course I have to help them. My 2 year old beat me the other day.



By that I guess I really beat myself.
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