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re: Do you keep the ashes of your loved ones in the house, or do you spread them somewhere?

Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:27 pm to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:27 pm to
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I am doing this tomorrow morning...
Posted by Harry Rex Vonner
Foggy Bottom Law School
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:28 pm to
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Darth_Vader



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My family is Baptist. We put ‘em in the ground whole.




that's not surprising

you folks make crap up quite often


so often

just stop - there's no Biblical reference to putting them "in the ground whole."

Posted by dukke v
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:28 pm to
It depends on their wishes.
Posted by DVinBR
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:29 pm to
Posted by N2cars
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:30 pm to
Both
Posted by Weagle89
Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:31 pm to
I believe Catholics are neither supposed to scatter ashes nor keep them in the home. They are to be interred immediately.
Posted by Harry Rex Vonner
Foggy Bottom Law School
Member since Nov 2013
50542 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:34 pm to
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I am doing this tomorrow morning...
Bride of 35 years. Gone. I'll be headed to Keaton Beach and catch the creek at outgoing tide. She'll ride it out to the Gulf.
All we are is dust in the wind...



God bless you brother

very sorry for your loss - she will be happy and I'm sure she already is

I'm reading one of Grisham's newer books and part of the setting is near Keaton Beach
Posted by Harry Rex Vonner
Foggy Bottom Law School
Member since Nov 2013
50542 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:38 pm to
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Both



I'm thinking about doing more than 2 or 3 spots she'd love
Posted by lsunurse
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:39 pm to
My parents bought burial plots in BR when I was a kid. My dad was cremated (per his wishes) but we had his ashes buried in his burial plot with a headstone. My mom, myself and my brother all also have miniature urns that have some of his ashes in it.

My mom also wants to be cremated and buried in her plot next to my dad.

Cremation was a much easier and more affordable option considering he died in AZ and I knew he wanted his final resting place to be Louisiana. It gave us time after he passed to plan everything so that we could all travel back for his burial/memorial service.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:41 pm to
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I believe Catholics are neither supposed to scatter ashes nor keep them in the home. They are to be interred immediately
Jewish tradition has it that burial should take place w/in 24 hrs

Another tradition: no tattoos
Posted by Paco_taco
Dallas, Tx
Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:44 pm to
My father in law was an orphan from ww2 in Europe. He was adopted by a family in Nola but he wanted to also go back to Europe to be with “his people”.

We cremated him and divided his ashes into 4 parts. One for mom. One to scatter in Europe, one to scatter in Nola at the river, and the other was divided amongst the kids. We loved plants so we used our part to help him become a tree.
The living urn
Posted by SalE
At the beach
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:45 pm to
One here...I am going out around Sorority Row...good memories.
Posted by HoboDickCheese
The overpass
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:45 pm to
My dad wants to be put into shotgun shells and shot off at the duck lease
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:47 pm to
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They are all in mausoleums.


Mausoleums are for caskets, columbaria are for ashes.

Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:50 pm to
Got my first Labrador Retriever in a box in my wife’s closet.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
157377 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:52 pm to
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Mausoleums are for caskets, columbaria are for ashes
I know that








I learned it from the Hollywood Graveyard channel on YT

Still not clear on what a cenotaph is
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:57 pm to
Some of moms were thrown out into a lake that she loved, per her request. Some are in a glass necklace pendant of sorts and some are on my fireplace mantel in a smallish urn. Dad is literally 6 feet under in a conventional grave in a quaint little town where he was born and lived the greater majority of his life.
This post was edited on 10/30/23 at 7:58 pm
Posted by Harry Rex Vonner
Foggy Bottom Law School
Member since Nov 2013
50542 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:57 pm to
Posted by Harry Rex Vonner
Foggy Bottom Law School
Member since Nov 2013
50542 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 7:59 pm to
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My dad wants to be put into shotgun shells and shot off at the duck lease




that's the best thing I've heard so far
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39661 posts
Posted on 10/30/23 at 8:02 pm to
Good plan.
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