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re: Do You Agree Corporal Punishment (Spanking) Is Barbaric When You Think About It?
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:08 am to tigerinthebueche
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:08 am to tigerinthebueche
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A spanking is effective in certain situations ... ask the Japanese about Nagasaki and Hiroshima
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Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:11 am to Poncho
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Poncho
Cries when he talks about gun control.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:12 am to Poncho
I know growing up if I got an arse spanking for doing something wrong I sure as hell didn't get caught the next time.
Just the idea of a belt on my butt stopped me from doing some really stupid stuff growing up.
Just the idea of a belt on my butt stopped me from doing some really stupid stuff growing up.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:20 am to Poncho
All depends on the kid. At this stage with my son, a time out seems to really be effective. He's very upset by it.
But there comes a point when they are going to step up and say "WTF is he going to do if I just leave time out and do what I want". That point is called arse whoopin time. I know I did it as a kid. I can totally see spanking without anger or agression. I can see it the other way too and that would be wrong. But I was spanked and don't hold it against my parents. I turned out pretty well and am not poor, so there's that.
But there comes a point when they are going to step up and say "WTF is he going to do if I just leave time out and do what I want". That point is called arse whoopin time. I know I did it as a kid. I can totally see spanking without anger or agression. I can see it the other way too and that would be wrong. But I was spanked and don't hold it against my parents. I turned out pretty well and am not poor, so there's that.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:27 am to Poncho
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Poncho
One day you'll grow up (hopefully) and look back at this thread and laugh at just how ignorant you were.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:29 am to Poncho
Have you ever been around a 4yr old? They are barbarians, primal to the core. As parents, you have to teach them to be "civilized" and thoughtful. Until they are molded, a quick pop goes a long way.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:34 am to fr33manator
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Doing it out of anger isn't good. But if they know that pain comes as a consequence to disobedience, then you must sit them down, explain to them that every action has a consequence, and deliver said consequence. You don't love them any less, and the pain is fleeting and impermanent. But it is necessary for conditioning.
This is how good parenting is done. One of the main things a parent has to teach their kids is about the consequences of their actions both good and bad. There is a time and place for corporal punishment and not all situations call for it. If you do it right, spankings should be rare and never done in anger.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:45 am to Darth_Vader
As a youth coach, you can literally point out the "no spanks". The way some kids talk to their parents; sheesh.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:50 am to Poncho
"This is going to hurt me, a lot more than it's going to hurt you."
Famous last words
Famous last words
Posted on 1/8/16 at 6:56 am to Poncho
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know a lot of people were spanked when they were younger, but have we finally realized the absolute stone-age barbarism in that?
When you and your man-wife import your first child and it is running around a restaurant like a wild injun screaming at the top of its lungs while you sit and make useless threats, I'll whip it for you.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:00 am to KJS
It really is disturbing how some kids behave towards their parents these days. Of course, the parents let them get away with that behavior. The outright disrespect that a lot of kids have these days may be attributed to the lack of spankings. Now, I will say that respect is earned but I'd imagine that these parents with disrespectful kids aren't really doing anything to earn that respect.
I saw this over Christmas: a girl cussed out what I presumed was her dad one minute only to ask him to buy her something the next minute with zero remorse.
I saw this over Christmas: a girl cussed out what I presumed was her dad one minute only to ask him to buy her something the next minute with zero remorse.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:00 am to tigerinthebueche
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IVe had horses and dogs who needed a good wack
now thar's some hi powerd thinkin' rot there
hell, ifin itz gud enuf fer ma ole hound, itz gud enuf fer junior
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:00 am to Poncho
In most cases if you're spanking your child too often or not ever, you're probably doing something wrong.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:00 am to Poncho
Considering that there are a number of behaviors that will make you catch an arse whipping when you are older, it may not be such a bad idea to begin that lesson earlier in life.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:04 am to Poncho
You're everything that's wrong with society today...
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:07 am to KJS
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As a youth coach, you can literally point out the "no spanks". The way some kids talk to their parents; sheesh.
wrong
I've never spanked my children and they all speak to adults and other children with respect.
I see the opposite. Whether in wal-mart or the football field, those kids whose parents are constantly whacking them are the worst. Parents who treat their children with respect and dignity treat others the same (in most cases).
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:10 am to Cracker
You all can give all the anecdotal evidence that you want. But the research is pretty clear. Research consistently shows that mild corporal punishment past the age of three or so, while reinforcing to the parents because it works in the very short term, leads to increases in aggressive behavior and other problems. Please feel free to downvote the facts.
This post was edited on 1/8/16 at 7:22 am
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:20 am to LSUTANGERINE
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Research consistently shows that Corporal punishment past the age of three or so
So beat the hell out of them until 3, then back off
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:24 am to Poncho
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if you spank your kids; you're taking your frustration out on them
It sounds like you give out soccer participation trophies.
Your job as a parent is to keep your child alive and in one piece until they are 18.
I learned a long time ago that learning experiences as an adult are usually painful. And expensive.
Learning a lot of things while you are young cuts down on the number of things you need to learn as an adult.
Posted on 1/8/16 at 7:31 am to Poncho
I've only spanked mine a few times. I hate spanking them, but it's necessary for things like wanting to run out in the road or playing with the electrical socket and wanting to stick things in it. I spanked after telling him them don't do it several times, but they did it anyway.
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