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Do alcoholics anonymous meetings work?

Posted on 9/3/19 at 12:59 pm
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 12:59 pm
Realize I have a serious problem
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 12:59 pm to
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Realize I have a serious problem

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Boo Krewe




You've got 99 problems but we all know a bitch aint one
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
21732 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:00 pm to
You've done step 1 to perfection.

Know a lot of people they have worked for and a lot they haven't. You get out of them what you put into them. There are a lot of other things besides meetings needed. Good Luck. Those I know that have recovered have done a 180
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141660 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:03 pm to
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Do alcoholics anonymous meetings work?
Maybe if you have a few stiff belts before you go
Posted by MarinaTigerEsq
Member since Aug 2019
1330 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:05 pm to
I had a friend sentenced to AA and I went to many meetings with him.
If it’s financially feasible, I would always recommend a non 12 step rehab first. AA has too many self-appointed gurus who insist their way is the only way. I’ve known two people who “worked the program” for years, then “backslid” and went nuts binging. Programs more forgiving of relapse/moderation tends to be more realistic and less cultish.
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
35964 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:06 pm to
No, but eating veggies with hot sauce does.
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:07 pm to
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You've got 99 problems but we all know a bitch aint one


It’s actually a place to get easy poon. Maybe he should go.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:08 pm to
If i had a girl friend I would be on good path
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58107 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:08 pm to
It can help a mild addiction, but if you are bad off, some kind of rehab program will be needed as well.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20355 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:11 pm to
The two people you knew backslid because they are addicts, not because AA wasn’t good enough. They would have relapsed in any type of program most likely. AA is very forgiving of those that relapse because they understand that it’s pretty much a guarantee that it will happen to most.
Posted by Dancepants
Member since Aug 2019
69 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:13 pm to
They do for me. Just got back from my noon AA meeting. I went to a 30 inpatient treatment center first. It’s very hard and dangerous to stop drinking cold turkey. You’re not gonna lose anything by checking out a meeting. There’s always people there early and stay late if you just want somebody to talk to about it. I hope it works out.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202644 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:14 pm to
FACTS.....AA will work if YOU want it to. If you are not fully committed it won’t work.... 12 steps is a great program for life in general. Not just addicts........
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:16 pm to
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AA has too many self-appointed gurus who insist their way is the only way
I go to AA meetings regularly and I have never heard or met anyone in the program that insisted or said this.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65681 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:16 pm to
only if they serve booze.
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
11307 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:16 pm to
Had a neighbor who made the choice to start working the steps.... if I recall he just earned his 4 year chip.
Posted by FalseProphet
Mecca
Member since Dec 2011
11706 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:19 pm to
I have two family members who are very active in AA. One has two years, the other has one year.

Both swear by it and attend 4-5 meetings a week.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202644 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:19 pm to
Good for him. I have a friend who is over 25 years sober and still carries the little black book. Dudes a millionaire.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259936 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:20 pm to
For some people, absolutely.
Posted by MarinaTigerEsq
Member since Aug 2019
1330 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:21 pm to
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AA has too many self-appointed gurus who insist their way is the only way
I go to AA meetings regularly and I have never heard or met anyone in the program that insisted or said this


Really? You’ve never heard anyone being accused of being a dry drunk after sobriety without “working the steps?” I have a hard time believing this. They also mostly tend to take a hardline on marijuana.
As for the relapse, maybe the person could handle the slide/correction but they’ve had the idea that they have a disease and can’t control their drinking (scientifically dubious) drilled into their head nearly daily for years.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202644 posts
Posted on 9/3/19 at 1:25 pm to
When I first got sick I went 16 months without a drop and zero AA meetings. I guess it was because I was sick but it can be done. Once I went back to work I just got back in the flow of getting a few after work.... BUT if I decided to stop and committed myself I would go to netting’s regularly.
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