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re: Divorced over video games.

Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:26 am to
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18052 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:26 am to
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Real men hunt, fish, frick or fight.


I do all of those except fight and I play video games. You a communist baw?
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
7313 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:51 am to
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playing video games with a headset on while ignoring your 4 yr old, 18 month old, and wife at 630pm on a Tuesday Evening?


It helps if you have a wife that is cool with it being your hobby and you not being a dick about it. I play games when the opportunity presents itself or just ask my wife if she minds if I play for a while. She plays too and does the same. Some times I'll go weeks without playing at all and sometimes on weekends I stay up till 3:00 and my wife lets me sleep till 10:00. As long as you treat it as any other hobby and dont allow it to interfere with family life its fine.
Posted by lsugorilla
PNW
Member since Sep 2009
5529 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:53 am to


this is my video game recommendation
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 10:54 am
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:58 am to
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I would rather fish, hunt, and camp with my free time rather than play video games.


You’re a BAMF if you can fish, hunt, and camp at 9:00PM on a Tuesday


I only strap up when the family is in bed and everything is lined up for the next day

When video games become a priority, instead of an option, that’s when you have a problem
Posted by lsugorilla
PNW
Member since Sep 2009
5529 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 10:59 am to
Posted by oauron
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2011
14512 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:00 am to
I'm not sure any girl is worth making the decision of having a hobby or only being into things she allows you to like. Sounds awful.
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 1:32 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:01 am to
Man, the millennial's in this thread sho are defensive when it comes to talking about their video games.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:08 am to
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You heard that somewhere?


Yeah, your post here:

quote:

You’re not really a man if at bedtime you’re not too tired to play video games.


quote:

I know that when I played video games a lot when first married, it wasn’t an occasional thing. It was most nights, and it was not manly behavior.


Sounds like you're projecting then because you lack self discipline. And to act like you're the expert on manly behavior is laughable.

quote:

My comments in this thread are about people who have a habit of staying up playing video games well past the time their family goes to bed.
IMO that’s a poor use of their time, and I completely understand how it would cause problems in many marriages.


Just because it caused problems in yours doesn't mean it's bad for someone else.
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 11:09 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:10 am to
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When video games become a priority, instead of an option, that’s when you have a problem


Exactly.

These people are acting like everyone is playing all through the night while their wife lays in bed crying about being alone and the baby hasn't been fed. It's like the only scenario they see is the worst case
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30259 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:16 am to
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I only strap up when the family is in bed


Strap up?? Is that what y’all are calling it these days? Do y’all call the controller ‘gats’?
I just love how y’all try to make playing a game sound all bad arse and cool?

“Yo Timmy, strap up and grab a seat, we about to bring the heat on these bitches in Final Fantasy”.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:20 am to
Gaming is a metal health disorder. You, as well as others in this thread are in denial.
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The World Health Organization includes "gaming disorder" in its list of mental health conditions. The WHO defines the disorder as a "persistent or recurrent" behavior pattern of "sufficient severity to result in significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning."

The disorder is characterized by "impaired control" with increasing priority given to gaming and "escalation," despite "negative consequences."



dont hate the player, hate the gaming
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 11:22 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:24 am to
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Gaming is a metal health disorder


Impressive spin on that definition.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:26 am to
Youre in denial TH..get help
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47499 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:28 am to
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It helps if you have a wife that is cool with it being your hobby and you not being a dick about it. I play games when the opportunity presents itself or just ask my wife if she minds if I play for a while. She plays too and does the same. Some times I'll go weeks without playing at all and sometimes on weekends I stay up till 3:00 and my wife lets me sleep till 10:00. As long as you treat it as any other hobby and dont allow it to interfere with family life its fine.


Truth.

FWIW, a few teammates of my kids have dads who are NEVER at games on weekends b/c they are at the camp either using it, working on it, building something new to it, etc.
It's not like they are at home improving the quality of life for the family. It's selfish indulgence in a hobby or distraction.

The underlying concept is balance. Anyone simply making fun of the allure of video games is off-base.

Many 'real' men don't get the itch to go sit in a deer stand all weekend waiting for a deer with antlers to stroll by.

Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:28 am to
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39784 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:30 am to
this thread is alot like gun threads, many giving opinions on stuff they dont know anything about
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33939 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:31 am to
If you are ignoring your wife and family and/or letting your wife do the majority of the housework while you're having fun, well then yea that's gonna be an issue no matter what the distraction is.

As for the late night problem -- I agree with the logic that men should be able to stay up late and do whatever they want after the family goes to bed. However, my wife does not agree. So there's that.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:33 am to
Finally, I found something you and I agree on


It’s only a problem for the people who don’t have enough discipline to regulate their priorities
Posted by ApexTiger
cary nc
Member since Oct 2003
53771 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:35 am to
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As for the late night problem -- I agree with the logic that men should be able to stay up late and do whatever they want after the family goes to bed. However, my wife does not agree. So there's that.


yep, woman call the shots don't they fellas...

kid kids kids kids, work work work, pay bill pay bill pay bills, do chores do chore do chore, very little sex, repeat... But it's a wonderful life...
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 11:36 am to
You’re reaching big time

You have no ground left to stand on so you cherry pick two little words in my post to go after because you know I’m right
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