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re: Divorced dads of OT
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:51 pm to Walt OReilly
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:51 pm to Walt OReilly
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Why do so many Alabamans get divorced?
because the census man comes by and finds out they're related.
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Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:51 pm to glassman
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Dude
She's batshit crazy
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:53 pm to fallguy_1978
I mean who were the dumb motherfrickers from 3 on who asked her to get married.
My aunt had 4 and yes she was batshit as well.
My aunt had 4 and yes she was batshit as well.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:54 pm to fallguy_1978
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My SIL has been married 7 times
that's very impressive
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:54 pm to soccerfüt
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I won't ever have to worry about this as all the little füts are now to the age of majority in an intact nuclear family but I would be goddamned if I would have allowed some other man to sleep in the same house as my kids.
There's simply too much Arkansas in this world.
I'm not saying don't ban the randoms. I'm saying allow some sort of mechanism to be put in place that allows for long term relationships.
The no cohabitation rule almost incentivizes getting remarried as it is inconvenient as hell to abide by the rule.
I dated my 2nd wife for 5 years before getting married. It sucked arse sending her home. Luckily my ex found someone longterm as well so we both agreed to let the rule fade away.
This post was edited on 11/13/18 at 3:56 pm
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:55 pm to glassman
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I mean who were the dumb motherfrickers from 3 on who asked her to get married
I don't know why they did it either.
I'm guessing she could always find a new sucker to take care of her because she used to be quite attractive. Years of hard living and age in general have taken that from her now though.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:56 pm to mrfantasy
With attorneys, you get what you pay for. Also, always put the kids first.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 3:59 pm to fallguy_1978
One head capitulating to the other. Those poor bastards.
This post was edited on 11/13/18 at 4:01 pm
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:02 pm to jvilletiger25
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They say they love single dads...until you want to get serious...
If I ever get divorced, I ain’t tryna get serious with nobody
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:11 pm to jvilletiger25
quote:I’m very happily married and love my wife more than anything but I can tell you 1 thing for sure- if I ever get divorced I will never be in any other long term serious relationship again.
They say they love single dads...until you want to get serious...
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:16 pm to Thib-a-doe Tiger
I dated around for awhile after my divorce. So did my ex. She got engaged about a year after the divorce, had our daughter call me to tell me the "good news". I was in a serious relationship at the time, so the engagement only bothered me because they were planning on moving into his house after the wedding, which is another hour from the already hour drive between me & my daughter. The ex ended up breaking it off with the dude, and has "dated" many men since. Even made my daughter spend Christmas Eve with some dude and his family. It has gotten so bad, that my daughter is considering moving back to my house. She sees how crazy her mother is, I don't have to say anything. My biggest fear is that my ex is going to run across a pedo or psycho. I try to keep close tabs on who she is bringing around my kid, but it's to the point that I'm about to drag her into court to obtain full custody. I'm remarried and the only woman I ever brought around my kid, is the woman I've been married to now for 3 years.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:17 pm to mrfantasy
Don't believe she wants whats best for the kids or is your "friend". She doesn't and isn't. She wants money and property as much of it as she can get.
Get everything in writing, get a great attorney - the very best you can afford and if possible get a 50/50 split on time with the kids negating the need for child support.
I made the mistake of allowing the expanded standard possession (in Texas) which means I pay a shite ton of child support. If I would have spent $100K on an attorney (or been willing to) to fight for a 50/50 split I would not be on the hook for support.
Strategically I would have been way better off.
Get everything in writing, get a great attorney - the very best you can afford and if possible get a 50/50 split on time with the kids negating the need for child support.
I made the mistake of allowing the expanded standard possession (in Texas) which means I pay a shite ton of child support. If I would have spent $100K on an attorney (or been willing to) to fight for a 50/50 split I would not be on the hook for support.
Strategically I would have been way better off.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:17 pm to little billy
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my life is a series of train wrecks. e.g. marriages 2 & 3 were both in Las Vegas. the 3rd one it was just me and her at the chapel. shockingly that one only lasted 6 months.
I would say it sounds like you suck at relationships, but the first line leads me to believe you suck at life.
Just remember it doesn’t have to always be that way. Fix yourself.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:30 pm to shiftworker
These threads always remind me that I will do everything possible for this not to happen to me.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:33 pm to mrfantasy
So your sister is about to be single?
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:39 pm to shiftworker
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would say it sounds like you suck at relationships, but the first line leads me to believe you suck at life.
Just remember it doesn’t have to always be that way. Fix yourself.
thanks for the feedback
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:46 pm to CHSTigersFan
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I agree with everything except this. Kids don't need to see your new girl bopping out of the bedroom on Sunday mornings.....
My ex stays at her boyfriends house WITH my son every day, anytime I try to take her to court for it she just moves back into her grandma's house and I've got nothing.
I agree. While I don't have a morality clause in my custody agreement, the last ex-girlfriend didn't know what boundaries were and was nearly offended when I said I didn't want her to stay the night when I had my kids. I didn't need my vindictive ex-wife to use that as an excuse to further make things difficult. I wouldn't want my ex having some dude stay with her when she's got them unless they got engaged maybe.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:47 pm to mrfantasy
Compartmentalize like a boss. Don't give a damn. Don't react
Posted on 11/13/18 at 4:58 pm to mrfantasy
Posted on 11/13/18 at 5:15 pm to lowhound
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so whatever debt she runs up, is not your problem anymore
That's not true in all states.
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