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re: Divorce is brutal.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:57 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:57 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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She graduated with her master’s degree two weeks ago (something my parents paid for out of love), and the she was gone.
Damn that's brutal. My advice, check the state laws where you are getting divorced with regards to spousal support.
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Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:57 pm to AlbertMeansWell
quote:prepare thy anus for that child support bill
I have three young kids.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:58 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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AlbertMeansWell
I hope this pain passes in time. And I hope you will still find the love of your life!
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:58 pm to AlbertMeansWell
quote:Im not being an a-hole here, but there is someone else. Chicks dont do this without a soft spot to land.
I hired a PI and can say for certain there is no other guy in the picture.
2 things for certain, 1) She has a support network of other selfish women that have propped her up and give her support 2) there is another love interest as well.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:58 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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She graduated with her master’s degree two weeks ago (something my parents paid for out of love), and the she was gone.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 7:58 pm to Penrod
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If my wife had a moving truck pull up and start loading furniture none of my neighbors would go further than asking her what’s up. Any story she told them would suffice.
That’s crazy to me.
If a moving truck just showed up at my house and started loading up with no notice at all from me, and me not there, I have at least 2 neighbors that would call me.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:00 pm to tigerfoot
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2 things for certain, 1) She has a support network of other selfish women that have propped her up and give her support
This one is a certainty.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:00 pm to Breesus
quote:this
Rule 1: never ever under any circumstances bash those kids mom in front of them. Ever. Be better than that. They’ll respect you for it.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:00 pm to OWLFAN86
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your husband divorced you too?
Alright, that's worth 5 bucks.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:00 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Been down that road, TWICE!!! This too shall come to pass. You'll look back and laugh at it. How old are you? Why divorcing?
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:01 pm to tigerfoot
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Im not being an a-hole here, but there is someone else.
Yup.
You don’t suddenly leave a marriage with three children and no where to go.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:01 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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She graduated with her master’s degree two weeks ago (something my parents paid for out of love), and the she was gone.
That’s terrible
My Uncle married a woman, bailed her out of debt, paid for her to go back to school & as soon as she graduated & found a job left him for someone else.
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Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:01 pm to redstick13
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2 things for certain, 1) She has a support network of other selfish women that have propped her up and give her support
This one is a certainty.
This is 100% going on. I can tell when I talk to her.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:02 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Feared I was close to that last year. Didn't tell a soul then. Can't imagine. Best of luck brother.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:02 pm to t00f
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WTF did you do? Unless crazy, most married women with 3 kids don’t bolt like that.
Yep.
Wondering what the OP left out.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:05 pm to AlbertMeansWell
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Total blindside
Nah. No mother and wife up and bolts with 3 kids, furniture and half the bank account and you have no idea why.
There is way more to this story and I don’t blame you one bit if you don’t air your dirty laundry with the goons on this site.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:06 pm to AlbertMeansWell
I go see a therapist weekly. I remember our first session was about 4 weeks ago. I went because it was easy in the good times. I know I won’t want to go in the hard times.
I was skeptical but it’s helped my marriage a ton. Ole boy is an O.G too. Will straight up ignore you outside the office. Just the kind of relationship I want with a therapist.
I was skeptical but it’s helped my marriage a ton. Ole boy is an O.G too. Will straight up ignore you outside the office. Just the kind of relationship I want with a therapist.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:06 pm to Breesus
quote:I convinced myself there wasn't another guy. I was wrong too. The best way to manage this is to turn into a damn granite stone in all matters that concern this witch that did this to him.
You don’t suddenly leave a marriage with three children and no where to go.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:07 pm to tigerfoot
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I got divorced 20 years ago. Never had a hiccup, she dumped me on my arse, I moved on and just forgot she was alive. We raised a daughter together who turned out great. So something wonderful did come out of our bull shite.
I’m not saying that your life is over if your divorce. I’m saying that it’s a awful experience.
It seems to have worked out for you and your daughter in the end (which is great), but you were “dumped on your arse” by a woman who’s existence you you didn’t/couldn’t acknowledge while somehow raising a kid together...
The outcome sounds great, but the path there seems like it sucked.
Posted on 8/10/20 at 8:07 pm to AlbertMeansWell
Divorce is never fun. Didn’t think it would happen to me but it did, with kids.
Focus on yourself, love the kids, enjoy your time with them, and don’t talk bad about their mother in front of them. Keep your relationship with them in a positive light and try not to dwell on the past.
I can tell you that it will pass but i know that’s not the thing you want to hear.
Again focus on yourself, do fun things when you can, and meet girls. There are plenty out there
Focus on yourself, love the kids, enjoy your time with them, and don’t talk bad about their mother in front of them. Keep your relationship with them in a positive light and try not to dwell on the past.
I can tell you that it will pass but i know that’s not the thing you want to hear.
Again focus on yourself, do fun things when you can, and meet girls. There are plenty out there
This post was edited on 8/10/20 at 8:16 pm
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