re: Dealbreakers on women

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You said the complete opposite in the other thread

I thought you were alpha and would never pick a chick with baggage?

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this. Only betas date chicks with kids was the quote I believe

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If you live in a major city, unless you have seriously limited options as is because of whatever reason, you're doing a major disservice to yourself by dating a single mother when there are a thousand or ten thousand girls in your area who would do violent things to date you. Sorry, that's just how humans are.


You sound like you're of very limited intelligence. I doubt that anybody is doing "violent things" to date you.

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Nah, I'm good and already locked up anyway.

I'm a former soldier and have had friends die pretty young and left behind a wife and/or kids, so I get that there are good women out there who have kids and did nothing wrong or anything like that.

It's just that there is way too much baggage in that situation, and you can date a thousand girls here (and places like here) that are just as great without that baggage. It's a cold hard truth, but life is cruel sometimes.

When i was in NA there was this girl who was what 2 years older than me that i was into and she was into me, she had her shite together had a banging body, was funny, extremely sassy, sexy as frick, gorgeous feet that she used to put on my lap every meeting, drove a range rover and was a geologist. after a few months we did everything together, go to the gym, go swimming, go out to eat, go to meetings, we never were not together. Her sponsor tried to hard to hook us up. And I admit, the thought had seriously crossed my mind. I had even taken her on double date with my ex and her husband and after the date she was asking me where we were going between her and I. And she was a redhead to boot I love redheads.


But she had a kid. I didn't judge her for it. I didn't think she was a bad person and I didn't think the kid was a mistake I wasn't a mistake and I hate when anyone reffers to a kid as a mistake. I said you know what, I just cannot do it. It's not fair for all the things i've done all the work I put in, all the rational decisions I've made in my life dealing with women, not knocking them up, to have the first child that I raise, not be my own. That's not fair to me, no matter how you slice it, so I had to cut her lose.


Now I'm engaged, my fiancee is 8 months pregnant with a son. I made the right decision. I'm sure Amanda found someone for her, she's a great woman with her shite together, she just wasn't the woman for me at the time.

I want to get married really bad

Just looking for a woman to give me a chance

I am a gentlemen when it comes to women. I treat them like a deity pretty much. I am not like Other guys. I am sweet and caring and ultra nice

Bad feet

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Bad feet

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This. Chicks that don't take care of dem toes normally have bad cleaning habits in general

i had a girl at a motel 6 a few years ago that feet stank so bad she ran me out. i changed the sheets, cleand the bathroom trying to figure out what the wrench smell was and the whole time the thought to jump in the shower never crossed her mind. it was a shame her feet had potential but god once i got a wiff of them frick that i'm out

Tattoos (one or two small ankle tats I can let go as stupid mistakes)

Social media addiction

needs surgery to have phone removed from her ear

Smoking

Drug use

Feminist/ progressive/ liberal/ socialist

Piercings (especially those bugger catchers)

Daddy issues

blames others for her problems

In debt / cant manage money

cant or wont cook meals on a regular basis (always wants to go buy takeout food)

doesnt have and keep a full time job

doesnt have a dependable car and a mechanic she trusts to fix it for her

wont clean regularly and keeps a messy house

has any pet other then cat or dog or has more then 3 pets of any kind (im not living with a zookeeper)

goes too heavy on the makeup (no plastic faces covered in goop)

and finally she doesn't have to be a 10 or be skinny but decent looking and never be more then 30 lbs overweight is fine.