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re: Dads of daughters, I need some advice.

Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:25 pm to
Posted by TrapperJohn
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
11161 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:25 pm to
I have 6 total ( 4 girls). These last set of twins were a complete surprise. I was 42 and scared to death of the work that was headed my way. It truly has been a blessing. Even now, in the midst of a divorce, they give me hope that the best is still to come.
Posted by ned nederlander
Member since Dec 2012
4325 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:32 pm to
Soak up every bit of touch. Seriously. Take that naked little baby and plop her on your chest. Those of us fortunate enough to grow old go decades with less skin to skin contact than you will get in the next week. Embrace every bit of grooming, hair brushing, tickling, hugging available to you now.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:38 pm to
The best years for a daughter are 5-11 and 18+.
Posted by Tempratt
WRMS Girls Soccer Team Kicks arse
Member since Oct 2013
13442 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:40 pm to
quote:

My girl is turning 8 in a couple of days. It goes fast. In a blink of an eye she will be graduating high school.



This. Enjoy while you can. You'll look back on these days with tenderness. Getting up to feed your healthy baby at 2am is a blessing.
Posted by ronniep1
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2016
399 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:41 pm to
Cledus, while I understand how you feel right now, let me suggest that because this is all you know, your heart is filled. But as a grandfather, I assure you that many many more good days and times are ahead.

Wait until she looks at you and says "da-da." Or, after taking her first steps, few things will make you feel better than when she runs to you when you get home. Then there's the joy you will feel when the two of you share a significant moment, and she's old enough to understand how special it is. For me and my youngest daughter, we went to the 2003 national championship game together, and we shared, and both understood, the unique and special thrill of that moment.

Also, you will be thrilled for her when she makes the honor roll, joins the band or color guard (flag team). You will beam with pride when she gets the lead in a school play, or becomes the band's drum major. And along the way, you'll find happiness when she says something to a friend, and you'll know that what she says is due to your influence as a good parent.

And wrapping this up, on her wedding day, there's the special love you'll share when you walk her down the aisle, and place her hand in the hand of her groom. You'll know that you did a good job, that she's a fantastic young woman, and that she's chosen a good man. Then you get to start over again from the perspective of being a paw-paw.

I'm not saying it will all be easy. The teenage years may especially be trying, but she will make it through, and so will you. Buckle up; the road ahead is far from smooth, but trust me, you will be glad you traveled it.
Posted by Cledus
God’s Country
Member since May 2021
259 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:44 pm to
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I dropped them off at school the other day and my oldest came running back out. I thought, Oh shite, I forgot to pack something. She came up, gave me a big hug, and said, “I forgot to give you a hug and my day would have been ruined if I didn’t come back out here to get one”


Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35614 posts
Posted on 5/21/21 at 11:50 pm to
Goddamn. She’s 5 months old. Grow a pair.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:05 am to
quote:

Getting up to feed your healthy baby at 2am is a blessing.



Sleeping from 10p to 9a is a blessing
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18064 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:06 am to
I look at my 5 year old daughter and am sad daily. It goes way too fast. Enjoy every second.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42355 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:07 am to
Lay off the formula, dude, she’s supposed to grow up

You can rough and tumble with your bb girl - it’ll be ok

Time flies - my oldest (a daughter) just graduated high school - cherish it all
Posted by SammyTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2009
66856 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:09 am to
My wife just got pregnant and I was talking to my dad and he said the only advice he had for me was to enjoy it.

Every phase happens once, they’re all different but you have to enjoy each one in its own way.

Idk, felt like good advice. I’ll let you know how I feel about it when the kids here and crying every night.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35558 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:09 am to
quote:

However, I find myself kind of, I don’t know, sad would be the most succinct way to put it, that she’s growing up. And there ain’t a damn thing I can do about it.


quote:

I’ve got a 5 month old


Jesus christ lmao
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42355 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:10 am to
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My wife just got pregnant


How did that happen?
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:10 am to
Yeah, it is going to be rough for him if this is where he is at over 5mo.
Posted by 7LSU7
Member since Sep 2016
1084 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:14 am to
Before you know it, she’ll be twirling on a stripper pole and craving the BBC.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31784 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:14 am to
In have two. The best part of the day is when they run to the door when I come home from work.

Do they frustrate and annoy this piss out of me? Yes...but god damn they got me wrapped. Both are daddies girls.

I’ll miss them being this age (3 and 1). But I also won’t miss it
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42355 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:15 am to
quote:

twirling on a stripper pole

Posted by RMJM
United States
Member since Apr 2021
87 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:20 am to
This post was edited on 6/1/21 at 8:30 am
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47474 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 12:43 am to
You are so overthinking fatherhood. Enjoy your child and stop judging at this stage. Your insecurities can rub off on your child.
Posted by ssgrice
Arizona
Member since Nov 2008
3060 posts
Posted on 5/22/21 at 1:29 am to
I have a 20 year old son and a 15 year old princess of the world.
When y'all are about to have a second child you wonder if you can possibly love that one as much as you do the first one.

My youngest just got her driver's permit. I still look at her like the dad in this commercial does his little girl.
Subaru Commercial
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