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re: Confession Time (Advice Welcomed) **Updated, pg 15**

Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:02 am to
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:02 am to
quote:

How long have you been together? 

You are considering marrying this broad but she has yet to meet anyone in your family?





Over a year. And she has met my kids.
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:03 am to
Damn!
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:04 am to
quote:

Ahh so you're one of "those" Alabama fans. Got it. Carry on.


I'm a University of Alabama alum. That's why I moved to this state.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:05 am to
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Over a year. And she has met my kids.

I'm suddenly less interested in your parents reaction and more interested in your exwifes reaction.
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:06 am to
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How are you treated in public..Do you notice stares? Do you feel mistreatment from others (White or Black)? 


There are some stares and whispering when we are out in public. But no one has said anything or caused a stink over it.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21582 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:06 am to
It’s more acceptable now but it’s either her or parents. You choose. BTW, do your parents have money?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
42895 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:06 am to
If it doesn't work out with this one do you think you could ever go back?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295002 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:07 am to
You're just wasting time, putting off your life.
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18728 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:07 am to
So, what kinda booty we talking, average or big ole buttocks?
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:08 am to
Like I said my folks live in different states and they dont social media. We have not had the chance until now for all of us to get together.

Billshit? The hell do I have to gain from that? Dont be so cynical.
Posted by russellvillehog
Member since Apr 2016
9746 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:08 am to
Thanks for helping the democrats get the white demographic down!
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
20999 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:08 am to
quote:

I'm suddenly less interested in your parents reaction and more interested in your exwifes reaction.



Me too
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:08 am to
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My stepdad is very racist and his daughter turns out to love the BBC and has 2 mixed kids. He won't have anything to do with them. She will show up for a while at Thanksgiving with them but never stays long because it's very uncomfortable. Last year my aunt accidentally let the N-word fly while talking about Obama in front of the oldest child(who is now 13). Things got kind of quiet for a while. 

I know it's a long story, but something the OP should be ready for in the future.


Man that is horrible. Damn
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:09 am to
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My S.O. is a black woman.

quote:

when I tell them that their future daughter-in-law is black they are going to shite a brick.
quote:

what does the OT advise


White shoe polish.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
175857 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:10 am to
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. And she has met my kids.


OH shite. You don't star in the walking dead by any chance do you?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:10 am to
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If I was her, that would be a huge red flag to me about the relationship. You not telling your parents will make her feel like you are somehow ashamed of her on some level.

Once she finds out you haven't told your parents...you may not have to worry about your parents reaction...she may just leave you.


Good point by Nurse. That would really, really piss me off if my current girlfriend was lying to her parents about me.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19951 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:11 am to
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My stepdad is very racist and his daughter turns out to love the BBC and has 2 mixed kids. He won't have anything to do with them. She will show up for a while at Thanksgiving with them but never stays long because it's very uncomfortable. Last year my aunt accidentally let the N-word fly while talking about Obama in front of the oldest child(who is now 13). Things got kind of quiet for a while.



lots of white people i know have similar anecdotes. then they also say black people are imagining things and there is very little racism in america. you can't have both. which is it?
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:11 am to
Double post
This post was edited on 10/31/18 at 11:13 am
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:11 am to
quote:

I'm suddenly less interested in your parents reaction and more interested in your exwifes reaction.


My exwife is ok with her since she is good to our kids.
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4600 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:11 am to
‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’

I'm not really religious, but this came to mind. You should just tell them and be honest about it. If it's your parents decision to not respect your relationship then you should consider that their problem. You should not let their opinions affect your relationship if it means that much to you.
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