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re: Confession Time (Advice Welcomed) **Updated, pg 15**
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:33 am to Ted2010
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:33 am to Ted2010
Ted,
All joking aside... Do what you and your SO feel, if she is a good person, that is your answer. At the end of the day most mothers just want a woman to treat her son good, fathers do what makes mom happy. Best of luck to you!
All joking aside... Do what you and your SO feel, if she is a good person, that is your answer. At the end of the day most mothers just want a woman to treat her son good, fathers do what makes mom happy. Best of luck to you!
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Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:33 am to Ted2010
If you visible to your siblings on social media, and you have not hid your SO, I would bet they were told. Especially if it's really as big of a deal to your family as you are saying.
"Mah, did have you seen Ted's girlfriend?" You don't think that hasn't happened?
My surprise comment was more geared toward the potential for them to say "no big deal," regardless if they know already or not.
"Mah, did have you seen Ted's girlfriend?" You don't think that hasn't happened?
My surprise comment was more geared toward the potential for them to say "no big deal," regardless if they know already or not.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:33 am to Ted2010
quote:
I'd definitely be interested in hearing more from people in interracial relationships.
i am. current gf is 100% white european(born there in fact). her parents just wanted to know if i was responsible, had a job and when we plan on giving them more grandkids.
college gf was a diff story. family from rural east tx... her dad's side was cool, but mom's side was racist because her maternal grandpa was pretty much as racist as you can imagine from some of the stories i've heard. her mom eventually came around and i enjoyed spending time with her family, except for grandma; i could tell she despised the color of my skin.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:33 am to northshorebamaman
quote:
If you call one they'll call the other to blame them.
That's the damn truth!
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:34 am to Ted2010
This comes down to a couple simple questions:
Will your gf suck your dick?
Will your mom?
Should make it easy to decide
Will your gf suck your dick?
Will your mom?
Should make it easy to decide
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:34 am to Ted2010
quote:
Only way they'd see our pics is if one of my brothers or my sister showed them.
That happened about 2 days after your girl met your kids.
Does she have a name? It feels awkward to keep saying your girl, your fiancé, etc.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:34 am to LSUWoodworker
quote:
LSUWoodworker
Thank you my friend!
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:36 am to GRTiger
No, I don't have her hidden on my soical media. I guess my siblings could have said something. But, I would have have heard from my parents already if they knew.
If they say no big deal I'd be shocked...and relieved
If they say no big deal I'd be shocked...and relieved
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:38 am to Ted2010
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I know that when I tell them that their future daughter-in-law is black
Just tell them that she sunbathes a lot; they're old they'll believe it
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:38 am to Ted2010
quote:
Thank you.
You bet. If you really love her and you can get past whatever it is that is creating friction with the two of you, your family will just have to accept or not, but you also need to be prepared to deal with the fallout if there is any.
From what you've described though, it doesn't sound like they will be too favorable with your situation. I walk by tons of interracial relationships everyday here in Houston so it might be a demographic thing as well. Seeing as you're probably in Alabama, they probably aren't as accepting of it.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:41 am to Masterag
quote:
I am. current gf is 100% white european(born there in fact). her parents just wanted to know if i was responsible, had a job and when we plan on giving them more grandkids.
That is really cool. That's what should matter the most.
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:41 am to Collegedropout
You're even dumber than I thought
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:42 am to Deactived
Not an argument
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:43 am to Masterag
quote:
am. current gf is 100% white european(born there in fact). her parents just wanted to know if i was responsible, had a job and when we plan on giving them more grandkids.
college gf was a diff story. family from rural east tx... her dad's side was cool, but mom's side was racist because her maternal grandpa was pretty much as racist as you can imagine from some of the stories i've heard. her mom eventually came around and i enjoyed spending time with her family, except for grandma; i could tell she despised the color of my skin.
Are you trying to take T-bird’s crown?
No one will dethrone our Nubian prince
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:44 am to Ted2010
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While they do not have a problem with black folks
quote:
they certainly think interracial relationships are very wrong
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:45 am to Ted2010
quote:
If my folks get to know her
Are you even close with your parents? Do they not know youre dating her from social media, etc.? If so and yall have been dating a while they've probably gotten used to the idea by now
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:47 am to Collegedropout
Im sorry but your retort was an obvious sarcastic post from yesterday in some shitty oweo thread
That better?
That better?
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:48 am to Ted2010
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My folks are divorced so I got to make this call twice.
Boom.
“You’re dating a black girl? Interracial relationships are not good”
“frick you know about a good relationship?”
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:54 am to Ted2010
Your parents ultimate concern should be your well being and happiness. If she loves and respects you, then they will learn to love her.
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