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re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:12 pm to
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
96551 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:12 pm to
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Cocaine is a hell of a drug and expensive


Pretty sure powdered coke is expensive but them rocks are cheaper.
Posted by indytiger
baton rouge/indy
Member since Oct 2004
9857 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:21 pm to
Others have asked, and you never responded, what are the details of the domestic violence arrest?

Posted by bamabkj
Member since Dec 2015
701 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:23 pm to
I can tell you from experience my ex did this same exact thing withdrawing little by little to save up and leave the marriage. Then when they have enough for new place and divorce attorney they'll finally spill the beans.

I was denial and bought the excuses also. A monkey doesn't jump without another branch in reach/sight.

Sorry but Monday morning you should be making arrangements on your finances and talking to a divorce attorney.

Bad thing is after they take the money you'll have to split what's left with them after it's settled and no recourse from taking from a joint account.

Wish ya the best
Posted by Outdoorreb
Member since Oct 2019
2567 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:27 pm to
All women are crazy as a shite house rat when compared to the “normal male’s way of thinking”.

If she isn’t doing drugs, you better buckle up. She is about to leave your butt and the money is being hid or going to a lawyer. Why would she need cash if not? Anything legit, she would be ok leaving a paper trail.

A surprise she is trying to keep secret from you? I’m willing to bet it isn’t anything you want or need.
If my wife was doing this, I would honestly ask her wtf is going on. If you don’t like the answer go to her parents and ask them. I would definitely switch as much over as I could and talk to a divorce lawyer and be prepared for the worse. If it never happens great, but at least you will be ready when/if the shite hits the fan. Keep your head on a swivel.

Posted by Outdoorreb
Member since Oct 2019
2567 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:32 pm to
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8ball of coke costs (200 dollars).


Depending on location. Is that what it is going for in the delta now? I would be scared shitless doing coke now days. I’m glad that stuff was left in wilder days.
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
7517 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:41 pm to
Take off one day from work and stalk her arse. Easy way to find out what she’s doing
Posted by 850SaintsGator
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2021
2273 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:42 pm to
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Others have asked, and you never responded, what are the details of the domestic violence arrest?



Since the late fall- she had been started this paranoia thing- hacked iPhone/ video cameras in our house etc.

It started getting increasingly common and so did our arguments - in fact, 80% of our arguments were about that - she would be irritated because i wasn’t doing anything but i didn’t know what to do- i mean i googled how to check and only a low level search, it was nothing

One night early this year, it turned bizarre - she was installing inside locks and saying that the kids could no longer play in the front yard etc-

I woke up the next morning and it was still kinda odd- and then my mind just started adding up all the craziness and thought…holy shite, my wife has snapped.

She then was getting obsessive about dropping the kids to school - mind you, for as long as the kids have been in school- i was the one who drove them to school - i immediately got panicked bc all the crazy and now she was obsessive about taking the kids-

So i was like ummmm no! Abd she started getting erratic, which got me more scared and determined that i wasn’t letting that happen.


So, i started blocking the bedroom door so she couldn’t get the keys …during that struggle she bit me…like hard, caused bleeding (still have a scar) and i was wearing a thick hoodie - i pushed her away for that was my extent of physical touch

Anyway, she ended up getting the keys from me bc i wasn’t going to fight her but try to stop her -


I ended calling the police bc shite needed to deescalate - they came, they asked questions and arrested her- i clearly didn’t want that bc she wasn’t attacking me per say, she wasn’t in her right mind - they says, we listened to you and we listened to her and decided she needed to removed from here - and no matter if i was pressing charges or not- the state would .

Long story, they dropped charges after a 24hr jail stay



Posted by TarHeel408
NC
Member since Mar 2017
1417 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:44 pm to
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Just erratic behavior- thought (or thinks) our iPhones are/were hacked- thought/thinks ppl have been in our house - started carrying bags with her everywhere with her (her family even noticed this) - for a while she was taking tons of photos of random shite - for a bit, was just driving all over the place at all hours of the day and night (for a while i could track her but now she turned off everything). She thinks ppl have influenced our lives ..forbid the kids from saying words (candy, trash, reset etc)

Probably more but i can’t recall …


This is a psychotic episode.
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49615 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:45 pm to
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Since the late fall- she had been started this paranoia thing- hacked iPhone/ video cameras in our house etc.


I skipped a few pages, but she on drugs
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
7517 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:45 pm to
quote:

My uncle recently divorced after discovering my aunt had gambled away like 30k over a couple years. She just nickel and dimed the money at first where it wasn’t very noticeable but as the addiction grew worse the amounts got bigger and he noticed



No offense but your uncle is an idiot. I don’t care how much you nickel and dime an acct. you have to still see a shite ton of withdrawals
Posted by Howyouluhdat
On Fleek St
Member since Jan 2015
7517 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:46 pm to
quote:

This is a psychotic episode.



I was more so thinking meth. Certain drugs make you paranoid
Posted by mahdragonz
Member since Jun 2013
6956 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:50 pm to
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ended calling the police bc shite needed to deescalate - they came, they asked questions and arrested her- i clearly didn’t want that bc she wasn’t attacking me per say, she wasn’t in her right mind - they says, we listened to you and we listened to her and decided she needed to removed from here - and no matter if i was pressing charges or not- the state would 


You are an upper middle class family with money to burn and they took your wife into the clink?

I'm calling bull.

It sounds like your wife had a bender, someone called 911, and now you are enabling her drug/sex/gambling addiction.

You are saying after this you let your wife take your child to a hotel? All this reads like someone else who has been served divorce papers,.whose wife discovered their tiger dropping account, and is trying to create an alternative narrative online.
Posted by 850SaintsGator
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2021
2273 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:52 pm to
quote:

This is a psychotic episode.


Yeah, i think this too bc she gets this frenetic energy if i get near her bags/vehicle …it’s kinda comical when I’m not worried about her or the kids
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9732 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:52 pm to
Oldmanbeasley does not frick with biters. Divorce the crazy arse vampire hoe.
Posted by TarHeel408
NC
Member since Mar 2017
1417 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:54 pm to
quote:

I was more so thinking meth. Certain drugs make you paranoid


That's possible too. Either way she is screwed in the head. She needs to be committed.
Posted by FartinLutherKing
Member since Mar 2024
13 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:55 pm to
You should see the energy she gets sucking my balls.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124661 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:56 pm to
Brother, she's on drugs
Posted by TarHeel408
NC
Member since Mar 2017
1417 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 6:57 pm to
quote:

Yeah, i think this too bc she gets this frenetic energy if i get near her bags/vehicle …it’s kinda comical when I’m not worried about her or the kids


She needs to be committed and put on serious antipsychotic medication. Psychotic people always think they are being watched, hence the video cameras and phone hacks. The photos she is taking are because a voice in her head are telling her to take them for some reason.
Posted by TigerChick2018
Mobile, AL
Member since Jun 2018
74 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 7:03 pm to
Anything is possible, but people have a tendency to turn to the absolute worst first …

I wish you both well.
Posted by TarHeel408
NC
Member since Mar 2017
1417 posts
Posted on 5/19/24 at 7:05 pm to
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I wish you both well.


So do I, and talk therapy ain't gonna cut it for her. Antipsychotics are the answer.
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