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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:25 am to Old Money
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:25 am to Old Money
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She's not going, it's in December. Cut that shite off quick.
Oh i see. I thought she went before yall started dating. Yeah you handled that correctly. And he sounds like an idiot.
Free music festival and free accommodations and he couldn't close with the chick?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:25 am to SirWinston
What Would George Costanza Do?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:26 am to Breesus
The only way he wins is to just get rid of her now. You can find sex elsewhere. This is not worth the headache.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:26 am to Breesus
I'm a redneck and army guy. But this guy the op is describing sounds high speed.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:27 am to Jim Rockford
"My name is George. I'm unemployed and i live with my parents"
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 8:27 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:30 am to Bunk Moreland
quote:Especially since she's a "new GF". Better to cut rope now and not getting invested in a situation that you are likely to lose.
The only way he wins is to just get rid of her now. You can find sex elsewhere. This is not worth the headache.
The OP will probably not follow this advice. He'll stick around and find out that she's "Always had a thing for her longtime male friend". As a consolation prize this female will probably say "We can still remain friends."
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:31 am to JBeam
I feel like I may be this guy, except for the cool stories.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:32 am to Breesus
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Oh i see. I thought she went before yall started dating. Yeah you handled that correctly. And he sounds like an idiot.
Free music festival and free accommodations and he couldn't close with the chick?
So far it seems like I have

The things people will do for some poon. Tinder is much cheaper.
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He'll stick around and find out that she's "Always had a thing for her longtime male friend". As a consolation prize this female will probably say "We can still remain friends."
My thoughts as well. If OP is this rustled by him, his gf will see that guy as higher value than him.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 8:34 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:32 am to SirWinston
I've only read 2 pages of the thread but I've found your problem.
You're a huge douche.
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I know to "act alpha"
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WTF are my relatively strong social skills and situational schmoozing rendered to ineffective
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I'm better than this dude
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schmoozing
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he has no interest in my MBA
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next time we may meet them out that I'll look my best and have some intro lines to talk to other chicks with
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I don't have many guy friends because all of my free time for the past 2 years has been dedicated to dating
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My idea is to transition now and try to make guy friends
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I'm great at dating and seeing multiple chicks at once, but I got tired of it and thought that trying a real relationship with a girl that I like would be "relaxing"
You're a huge douche.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:34 am to JBeam
The fact that his GF is hanging out with her (possible - not 100% sure) ex slam piece and the fact that he is thinking about flirting with other girls, including super alpha's GF, makes OP about as passive aggressive as you can get. 

Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:39 am to Jreily85
Bitch slap that creep, drop your girl friend and then feel great.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:41 am to SirWinston
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his GF is this angry black feminist
Are you sure this guy isn't gay? If not gay, he actually sounds like a huge pussy.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:43 am to DosManos
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Are you sure this guy isn't gay? If not gay, he actually sounds like a huge pussy.
Or a brilliant politician.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:44 am to SirWinston
You apparently are battling a self-esteem situation.
The only true way is to "John Wayne" it. Be a gentleman who exudes steely confidence in yourself and blow off petty shite. Should something you absolutely can't blow off arise, check his arse like the Duke would. No smack, no cheesy retorts.......as man put it out there.
Let him show his arse because it doesn't reflect on you. If your new gal is somehow swayed after this, then it wasn't meant to be and move on. NOTE: make sure you let your lady know she's a lady and take care of YOUR business above all.
Be. A. Man.
The only true way is to "John Wayne" it. Be a gentleman who exudes steely confidence in yourself and blow off petty shite. Should something you absolutely can't blow off arise, check his arse like the Duke would. No smack, no cheesy retorts.......as man put it out there.
Let him show his arse because it doesn't reflect on you. If your new gal is somehow swayed after this, then it wasn't meant to be and move on. NOTE: make sure you let your lady know she's a lady and take care of YOUR business above all.
Be. A. Man.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 8:46 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:47 am to CharlesLSU
Isn't this the guy who's always talking about how he reads pick up artist books and how great those dumb tricks work?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:48 am to Breesus
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You can't fight the tides, you can't fight the river, but man has learned to dam and guide the currents.
Is that Sun Tzu?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:50 am to yattan
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I don't have many guy friends because all of my free time for the past 2 years has been dedicated to dating
I know this is not the main issue at hand, but the above is an overwhelmingly sad statement.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:50 am to GeauxxxTigers23
Not sure. Hopefully he doesn't use magic tricks or the nobody puts baby in a corner line. That pick up artist show was atrocious.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:51 am to SirWinston
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He is really alpha, and also very intellectual, smooth, and he knows tons of people in every bar.
Is he really a douche? Are you sure he's not just cool?
You're never going to beat this guy. Definitely not by trying to out-whateverheis him. Do different shite. I'm not saying to become some non-conformist, but when you're not the dominant person in your group, but the dominant person also knows you don't care about the same shite he/she does, it gives you leverage and makes you seem less of a straight Robin or Pippen.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:51 am to SirWinston
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I'm the new guy who has no background or nothing to talk about.
Show this thread to the new GF's social circle..........there will be plenty to talk about.
Otherwise, end the relationship and get a serious grip on your personal issues. Like Breesus said -- you've gotta love yourself first.
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