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Balancing Sports and Academics

Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:31 pm
Posted by Cisco Kidd
The 985
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:31 pm
Just spoke to a parent, Her son plays JV football. she said her son is going to be missing his game, its a midweek game, to study and do homework. He apparently has a couple of big test the following day.

Kind of through me off, I played sports and in my mind I believe he should be there, I would feel as if I am letting my team mates down. But then again I highly highly doubt he will be playing any sort of football after high school.

What is the O-T's thoughts on these types of situations?
This post was edited on 9/7/16 at 3:32 pm
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

Cisco Kidd



Sit on a cacti and rotate.
Posted by tigerdup07
Member since Dec 2007
21968 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:32 pm to
school comes before sports. but......it's my opinion that the little dude needs to learn how to prepare early and not wait to cram at the end. he'll learn.
Posted by Muice
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2013
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:33 pm to
quote:

Kind of through me off


Maybe you should have missed a game or two.
Posted by Cisco Kidd
The 985
Member since Apr 2009
582 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:34 pm to



maybe so
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:36 pm to
I think it is a bad decision to miss the game...he isn't being taught time management
Posted by SpqrTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
9267 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:37 pm to
If I was his coach, I would understand. But I would also be pretty pissed off.

The message needs to be delivered that academics comes first... so that you can participate in sports. That means studying ahead of time if you know you have a game and a test the next morning.

There's no reason the kid can't do both if he takes both seriously.

Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:39 pm to
Bad call, the game is probably early enough that the kid would still have time to study after.

He needs to learn to not start studying the day before a test as well.....
Posted by southernelite
Dallas
Member since Sep 2009
53177 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:39 pm to
As long as his grades aren't poor, I don't see any reason he should have to miss. Academics are paramount to participation in extra-curriculicars, but if they can't be balanced, then he should leave the team.
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8318 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:44 pm to
Don't try out for the team if you can't fully commit. No reason he can't play the game and study before and or after. If that's not enough time to study he should just quit the team. Most high school athletes handle their school work without missing games.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:49 pm to
I'm a former HS coach. I wouldn't approve of this and the kid would be subject to sitting out the following game as well.

Everyone on the team is balancing schoolwork and athletics. Many of his teammates have the same test yet they are able to prepare on time.

This is a case of a helicopter parent who isn't really excited her "baby" is playing sports and therefore is looking for an excuse for him to miss.

I did have a policy that the students maintain their grades (I set goals for each player on the roster based on their abilities) and are not disruptions in class. Any issues resulted in suspension or removal from the team.

One kid missed a playoff game due to this policy but the entire team supported it because we all knew the rules ahead of time.
Posted by reginaphilange
Member since Mar 2014
415 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 3:58 pm to
If football isn't going to be your career then your education needs to come first. IMO it should be first even if it may be your career.
Posted by TigerChief10
Member since Dec 2012
10858 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:22 pm to
Kid sounds like a pussy. No classes in high school are hard enough to miss a football game for, especially since he's probably a sophomore since he's playing jv
Posted by Cracker
in a box
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:32 pm to
Good for him
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17142 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:33 pm to
Furthermore... If the first time you "study" for an exam is on the night before it is administered, you are studying wrong.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:36 pm to
quote:

This is a case of a helicopter parent who isn't really excited her "baby" is playing sports and therefore is looking for an excuse for him to miss.


Or a parent that is trying to teach their kid a lesson that the kid can't slack off in school or his participation in extracurricular will not happen.
Posted by link
Member since Feb 2009
19867 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:36 pm to
quote:

Balancing Sports
this hits close to home. as a scholarship tightrope walker, i felt a lot of pressure to practice instead of studying.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17142 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:40 pm to
quote:


Or a parent that is trying to teach their kid a lesson that the kid can't slack off in school or his participation in extracurricular will not happen.


I agree to a point.

1. school just fricking started for most of these kids therefore grades shouldn't affected at this point.

2. randomly pulling a kid from a game without giving the coach a warning that the kid is struggling is frustrating. The coach can help back the parents up if he/she knows there is a problem.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

1. school just fricking started for most of these kids therefore grades shouldn't affected at this point.


True. But they may be trying to nip a bad study habit from previous years in the bud very quickly.

quote:

2. randomly pulling a kid from a game without giving the coach a warning that the kid is struggling is frustrating. The coach can help back the parents up if he/she knows there is a problem.



Agreed. I'm just stating that it may not be all "shitty parenting" as made out to be.

Posted by waiting4saturday
Covington, LA
Member since Sep 2005
9723 posts
Posted on 9/7/16 at 4:47 pm to
WTF? Learn to study, I'd kick the kid off the team if I was the coach.
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