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re: Anyone with a family ever totally relocate to another state/region by choice?

Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:18 pm to
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138152 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:18 pm to
The Natch would not approve of this whining.
Posted by Elephino
2nd floor, stall 3. Bring paper
Member since Sep 2008
521 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:22 pm to
6 different states in nearly 20 yrs of marriage. An additional 2 states as a batchelor. Awesome to see the rest of the country, but difficult not being near family. No regrets.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14699 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:30 pm to
We did, in 1990, hadn't looked back. Career move as well as what we thought the children needed.

Downside is limited time with family "back home".

Have never regretted.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
20443 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:31 pm to
We’ve wanted to but always looked for the “reason” to go. Grad school or the right job.

Doesn’t help that many attractive parts of the country are getting so expensive.

I envy you all who have the balls and spousal support to just do it.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37506 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:35 pm to
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but difficult not being near family.

It was difficult at first but now I like this part. I'm never involved in any family drama and visits are rare enough that everyone is focused on catching up and having fun.
Posted by Arbengal
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
3437 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:37 pm to
Very true. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else is gonna do it! It is a humbling experience but that’s good for you as well. There will be times when your faith will be tested. Just keep on truckin!
Posted by Elephino
2nd floor, stall 3. Bring paper
Member since Sep 2008
521 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:39 pm to
Difficult being away from grandparents and relatives when the kids were young. Not having that built in sitter to take my wife out whenever I wanted. Having to rely upon just us. Great for a marriage you can make it work (we have). Only to ultimately move close to home to mow care for aging/ elderly parents. Still worth it.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21021 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:42 pm to
I moved to Louisiana 10 years ago from Mississippi, left everyone but my kids behind -just got divorced-. No regrets job wise but I still dont have many friends as it seems many ppl here my age are very clique-ish.

It's why I come here and talk with you magnificent bastards
This post was edited on 7/3/18 at 9:43 pm
Posted by TheChosenOne
Member since Dec 2005
18844 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:43 pm to
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I'm never involved in any family drama and visits are rare enough that everyone is focused on catching up and having fun.


Definitely. My wife is the oldest of 5 and her mom sometimes acts like one of the kids, so there’s always some drama going on and usually my wife, as the oldest, has to take charge. Even my wife said that it’s been nice getting away from it all.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295457 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:48 pm to
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It is a humbling experience but that’s good for you as well.


Yep, you definitely find yourself

Some probably can't get over having to take a hit financially or career wise, but in the long run you'll make up for it

You gotta take risks at times
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98745 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:48 pm to
Moved to Houston after wedding, came home when we started having kids. Nothing like growing up around family and didn’t want to take that away from them
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
8916 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:56 pm to
My dad’s first cousin did. Just up and moved his entire family of 5 from FL to Montana.

We think he was running from something.
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47178 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 9:58 pm to
Id love to as Louisiana is a shithole and the summer is brutal. It would definitely be hard to move away as all of our parents are still alive and we have a 5 year old that loves them and sees them often. Maybe Houston wouldnt be that bad as its just a few hour drive. Maybe one day.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98745 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:03 pm to
I’m going to move again but it will be once my kids are away at college. I love it here but do want to experience different places. Probably out of country

12 years
Posted by Tweet Tweet Birdies
Golf Course
Member since Jun 2018
259 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:21 pm to
I did. Moved north. Don’t regret leaving eaither.
Posted by GatorPA84
PNW
Member since Sep 2016
5814 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:32 pm to
Just last year moved from south Florida to Portland OR. Lived in Florida my whole life and was tired of the heat and humidity. Had a white Christmas this year and so far love all there is to do and explore in the PNW.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53061 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:36 pm to
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Nothing like growing up around family and didn’t want to take that away from them

Same reason that we stay. My wife loves LA but she's not from here

I'd prefer a little more terrain and less heat and humidity
Posted by saintsfan1977
Arkansas, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
9884 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:37 pm to
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A less than 3 hour drive isn’t crap. If it’s feasible for you to leave work and then make dinner with your family by driving, that isn’t a major move


If I leave for work I will be eating supper on a ship in Fourchon lmao. But yea, 3 hours aint shite.
Posted by IllegalPete
Front Range
Member since Oct 2017
7182 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:43 pm to
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6 different states in nearly 20 yrs of marriage. An additional 2 states as a batchelor.


Favorite state to live in?
Posted by LSUEnvy
Hou via Lake Chas
Member since May 2011
12544 posts
Posted on 7/3/18 at 10:47 pm to
Had a choice stay in Lake Cuck or move to Hou. Picked Hou and best move ever.
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