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re: Anyone else give up on dating?
Posted on 3/16/25 at 8:17 am to CatsGoneWild
Posted on 3/16/25 at 8:17 am to CatsGoneWild
Another woman weighing in.
Dating is no picnic for us either. We are all not lip injected IG devotees. Although women hanging out and posting on Tiger Droppings are probably not the typical woman you find on dating sites.
Men have their own baggage. Everyone does.
One you get to a certain age your preferences are set, you know what works for you and what doesn't. That's actually a good thing but it shrinks the pool of people you are interested in and compatible with.
OP it sounds like you went through the post-divorce "I'm Free!" stage and binge of dating and now are on to the next stage of the post-divorce reality.
Many are recommending foreign women. I have no personal experience with that since us women don't go that route and look for foreign guys but one of my best friend's dad married a Thai woman after his divorce and all was great for a few years until she started holding him at knife point in the bathroom every time he pissed her off. He wasn't prepared for that kind of crazy.
At least men can typically date and marry a wider range of ages. That just doesn't work for us women. We aren't wired to be with someone 20 years younger than us.
Good luck to you. It's rough out there.
Dating is no picnic for us either. We are all not lip injected IG devotees. Although women hanging out and posting on Tiger Droppings are probably not the typical woman you find on dating sites.
Men have their own baggage. Everyone does.
One you get to a certain age your preferences are set, you know what works for you and what doesn't. That's actually a good thing but it shrinks the pool of people you are interested in and compatible with.
OP it sounds like you went through the post-divorce "I'm Free!" stage and binge of dating and now are on to the next stage of the post-divorce reality.
Many are recommending foreign women. I have no personal experience with that since us women don't go that route and look for foreign guys but one of my best friend's dad married a Thai woman after his divorce and all was great for a few years until she started holding him at knife point in the bathroom every time he pissed her off. He wasn't prepared for that kind of crazy.
At least men can typically date and marry a wider range of ages. That just doesn't work for us women. We aren't wired to be with someone 20 years younger than us.
Good luck to you. It's rough out there.
This post was edited on 3/16/25 at 8:19 am
Posted on 3/16/25 at 8:25 am to CatsGoneWild
Yeah, got married a long time ago.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 8:44 am to RebelSquared
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Many are recommending foreign women. I have no personal experience with that since us women don't go that route and look for foreign guys but one of my best friend's dad married a Thai woman after his divorce and all was great for a few years until she started holding him at knife point in the bathroom every time he pissed her off. He wasn't prepared for that kind of crazy.
Definitely send that one back. You have to learn to accept cultural differences but not being attacked with a deadly weapon
Posted on 3/16/25 at 9:14 am to jmarto1
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Definitely send that one back.
He died (of natural causes) before that was possible and she got everything.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 9:16 am to RebelSquared
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He died (of natural causes) before that was possible and she got everything.
a lot of guys who go that route think that you don't still have to do a little vetting and getting to know the person, it's not quite as simple as ordering a bride off Amazon

Posted on 3/16/25 at 9:24 am to CatsGoneWild
Passport bro incoming. Good luck. You’ll have the best time of your life my man!
Posted on 3/16/25 at 9:51 am to CatsGoneWild
Yes, got married.
Wife is against further dating.
Wife is against further dating.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 9:57 am to WillFerrellisking
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Stop searching, she’ll come to you out of no where from a place you’ll never expect her to come from.
Sounds Dr. Phil-ish but words to live by. Be good being by yourself and working on yourself physically, mentally and professionally and find yourself some new interests and stay active and when you least expect it you will find someone. At least that's how it's always worked for me. Also, be friends first. That's a must.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 10:06 am to RebelSquared
That shite does happen. One guy in town got swindled hard by a Pinay. Took half his money and opened up her own place. He turned around and met another online and was sending all sorts of money to her. Some guys just fall for it
Posted on 3/16/25 at 10:08 am to Spankum
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Yep…15 years ago I had a relationship end particularly badly.
quote:Moral: setting up a Safe word beforehand matters
Spankum
This post was edited on 3/16/25 at 10:09 am
Posted on 3/16/25 at 10:38 am to jmarto1
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After the cubana left I had my friend's honduran sister in law move in. Tonight we had sex and then she cooked carne aside, fresh tortillas, rice, beans, and salad. Currently getting a head massage while watching Day of the Jackal. No torta either
How gassy is this broad?
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:00 am to CatsGoneWild
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Girls with trust issues from past relationships.
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the woman will just take me for all my money again anyhow.
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I guess there’s reasons why they’re single in their 30s and 40s.
Ever check the mirror much?
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:04 am to Redbone
quote:‘84 for me
I gave up dating in 1969.

Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:16 am to RebelSquared
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she started holding him at knife point in the bathroom every time he pissed her off.
Why the bathroom every time?
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:19 am to redstick13
Not at all. Me on the other hand...
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:24 am to CatsGoneWild
Yes, all of the women who I have asked out recently.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:30 am to CatsGoneWild
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And some that thought I was made of money and wanted everything extravagant. I guess there’s reasons why they’re single in their 30s and 40s.
Duh.
They've hit the wall and their looks are fading fast.
They've had their fun and now it's time to lock down a nice guy retirement plan.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:30 am to CatsGoneWild
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This post was edited on 3/16/25 at 11:32 am
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:34 am to Twenty 49
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she started holding him at knife point in the bathroom every time he pissed her off.
Why the bathroom every time?
I don't know. Didn't think to ask because it wasn't the most important part of the story to me.
Posted on 3/16/25 at 11:40 am to Twenty 49
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Why the bathroom every time?
He is cornered and has to use the bathroom at some point
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