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re: Any advice for married man who wants sex?
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm to Mud_Till_May
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm to Mud_Till_May
Maybe if you ponied up the $750 for a good car detail she would suck your dick 
This post was edited on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:50 pm to Mud_Till_May
Just tell her you want to have sex.
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:53 pm to Mud_Till_May
If you’re being serious - and want a woman’s perspective
- she may think you don’t want her
Depending on where she is in life - her sex drive may be little to non existent- or she may feel inadequate for you
So have a conversation, do things for yourself (Like suggested), and if you still love her - show her and tell her - help out with the kids, do a little housework - don’t expect the sex to come right away - and don’t stop doing little things when you get it - then she may think you only want her for sex
If it turns out she’s screwing someone else - leave her
Depending on where she is in life - her sex drive may be little to non existent- or she may feel inadequate for you
So have a conversation, do things for yourself (Like suggested), and if you still love her - show her and tell her - help out with the kids, do a little housework - don’t expect the sex to come right away - and don’t stop doing little things when you get it - then she may think you only want her for sex
If it turns out she’s screwing someone else - leave her
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:54 pm to Mud_Till_May
Did you talk to your wife? That’s fricking ridiculous and unacceptablethat you even have this issue. I don’t understand women who don’t love sex. Life is way too short for a sexless marriage.
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:57 pm to Mud_Till_May
quote:Why are you putting up with this? Do you really think it’s going to magically get better one day? Do you want to spend the next 30-40 year’s without sex? No wonder some people cheat.
I just whine that she never gives it to me and then she gets mad.
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:00 pm to Mud_Till_May
Never, never, never, never tell her.
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:01 pm to Mud_Till_May
Get a hooker?
Without knowing anything else about your marriage, it's obvious that the power dynamics are tilted in her favor. She sees herself as higher value than you, her attraction to you is gone, and will only have sex to manipulate you or for procreative purposes.
I think it's probably too far gone at this point if it's been months. Either get hookers on the side and stay with her, get a divorce and frick who you want, or embrace a life of celibacy.
Probably. If she works and is out of the house a good bit I would say those odds go up significantly.
Without knowing anything else about your marriage, it's obvious that the power dynamics are tilted in her favor. She sees herself as higher value than you, her attraction to you is gone, and will only have sex to manipulate you or for procreative purposes.
I think it's probably too far gone at this point if it's been months. Either get hookers on the side and stay with her, get a divorce and frick who you want, or embrace a life of celibacy.
quote:
There's someone else
Probably. If she works and is out of the house a good bit I would say those odds go up significantly.
This post was edited on 11/2/20 at 11:11 pm
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:04 pm to Mud_Till_May
quote:
I need to do something different.
I would suggest you read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover. Dr. Glover's book isn't new and you can find a lot of what he discusses in his book just Googling online and some interviews on YouTube. Like the other poster said, this is more about you than it is about her.
I agree, yours is not a great position to be in especially if you are staring-down several decades of sexless (<10x per year) marriage. You didn't sign up for that.
Just curious, do you have children? Because I think the path forward depends heavily on this detail.
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:18 pm to Chucktown_Badger
Take it from me. Celibacy aint fun, yeah
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:24 pm to Mud_Till_May
quote:
Any advice for married man who wants sex?
Divorce
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:25 pm to Mud_Till_May
And this is the real reason men cheat. That and missing head.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:02 am to Mud_Till_May
quote:You can always turn gay. Lots of truck stops out there.
Damn its been months. Im tired of this shite, is it worth it? Give me sex or give me death.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:19 am to Mud_Till_May
I've never cheated.
But, since I got married women hit on me way more than before.
But, since I got married women hit on me way more than before.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:23 am to Mud_Till_May
Buy flowers. Take her out to dine. Buy a bottle of wine and just talk to her about how beautiful she is.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 1:48 am to Mud_Till_May
Ask Sancho how he gets your ole lady to skin them panties
Posted on 11/3/20 at 1:55 am to DTRooster
I’m surprised at all the serious comments in this thread. What happened to this place?
Posted on 11/3/20 at 2:19 am to Mud_Till_May
Just go to an Asian spa.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 3:18 am to Chucktown_Badger
That’s a trick to get you hooked. Oldest one in the book.
Posted on 11/3/20 at 4:22 am to Mud_Till_May
If you look at lack of sex as a symptom, y’all need to go to couples’ counseling because something is wrong in your relationship.
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