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re: Any advice for married man who wants sex?

Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm to
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41575 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm to
Maybe if you ponied up the $750 for a good car detail she would suck your dick
This post was edited on 11/2/20 at 10:49 pm
Posted by LoveThatMoney
Who knows where?
Member since Jan 2008
12398 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:50 pm to
Just tell her you want to have sex.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58786 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:53 pm to
If you’re being serious - and want a woman’s perspective - she may think you don’t want her

Depending on where she is in life - her sex drive may be little to non existent- or she may feel inadequate for you

So have a conversation, do things for yourself (Like suggested), and if you still love her - show her and tell her - help out with the kids, do a little housework - don’t expect the sex to come right away - and don’t stop doing little things when you get it - then she may think you only want her for sex

If it turns out she’s screwing someone else - leave her
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10685 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:54 pm to
Did you talk to your wife? That’s fricking ridiculous and unacceptablethat you even have this issue. I don’t understand women who don’t love sex. Life is way too short for a sexless marriage.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10685 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 10:57 pm to
quote:

I just whine that she never gives it to me and then she gets mad.
Why are you putting up with this? Do you really think it’s going to magically get better one day? Do you want to spend the next 30-40 year’s without sex? No wonder some people cheat.
Posted by Lou
Modesto, CA
Member since Aug 2005
8617 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:00 pm to
Never, never, never, never tell her.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33900 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:01 pm to
Get a hooker?

Without knowing anything else about your marriage, it's obvious that the power dynamics are tilted in her favor. She sees herself as higher value than you, her attraction to you is gone, and will only have sex to manipulate you or for procreative purposes.

I think it's probably too far gone at this point if it's been months. Either get hookers on the side and stay with her, get a divorce and frick who you want, or embrace a life of celibacy.

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There's someone else


Probably. If she works and is out of the house a good bit I would say those odds go up significantly.
This post was edited on 11/2/20 at 11:11 pm
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
8998 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:04 pm to
quote:

I need to do something different.


I would suggest you read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover. Dr. Glover's book isn't new and you can find a lot of what he discusses in his book just Googling online and some interviews on YouTube. Like the other poster said, this is more about you than it is about her.

I agree, yours is not a great position to be in especially if you are staring-down several decades of sexless (<10x per year) marriage. You didn't sign up for that.

Just curious, do you have children? Because I think the path forward depends heavily on this detail.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:18 pm to
Take it from me. Celibacy aint fun, yeah
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:24 pm to
quote:

Any advice for married man who wants sex?


Divorce
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
73253 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:25 pm to
And this is the real reason men cheat. That and missing head.


Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
9680 posts
Posted on 11/2/20 at 11:54 pm to
Months? Holy shite
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50963 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:02 am to
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Damn its been months. Im tired of this shite, is it worth it? Give me sex or give me death.
You can always turn gay. Lots of truck stops out there.
Posted by Privateer 2007
Member since Jan 2020
7765 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:19 am to
I've never cheated.

But, since I got married women hit on me way more than before.
Posted by rickyh
Positiger Nation
Member since Dec 2003
13018 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 12:23 am to
Buy flowers. Take her out to dine. Buy a bottle of wine and just talk to her about how beautiful she is.
Posted by DTRooster
Belle River, La
Member since Dec 2013
8890 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 1:48 am to
Ask Sancho how he gets your ole lady to skin them panties
Posted by Raz
Member since Oct 2006
8394 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 1:55 am to
I’m surprised at all the serious comments in this thread. What happened to this place?
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
19526 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 2:19 am to
Just go to an Asian spa.
Posted by baobabtiger
Member since May 2009
4935 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 3:18 am to
That’s a trick to get you hooked. Oldest one in the book.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35848 posts
Posted on 11/3/20 at 4:22 am to
If you look at lack of sex as a symptom, y’all need to go to couples’ counseling because something is wrong in your relationship.
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