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re: am i wrong for spending money this way?
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:36 pm to Spock's Eyebrow
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:36 pm to Spock's Eyebrow
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So your mom has other heirs.
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Nice. Why did she do that? If I were your siblings, I'd look for a will, and if there isn't one, I'd investigate you for possible elder abuse, unjust enrichment, etc.
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So you're a c-u-nt, and he's a douchebag. You sound like a lovely pair with no morals whatsoever. Is stealing a recent thing for the both of you, or do you have a long history of it?
I have one sibling by mom. My sibling is in total agreement with how i am spending the money as the majority of it is going to her kids and grandkids.
It's not stealing. Mom legally put the money in MY name so it is mine and i don't have to do a damned thing for anyone else with the money or answer to anyone about what i do with it. But i am doing what mom wanted so the other heirs have no complaints.
elder abuse?
I am fulfilling my mom's wishes and together mom and I consulted a top attorney in the area of elder finances to ensure that everything was done legal. 
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Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:40 pm to gingerkittie
It must not be that much money, huh?
Tell your husband to get a job...
Tell your husband to get a job...
This post was edited on 6/13/16 at 7:42 pm
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:40 pm to gingerkittie
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I am fulfilling my mom's wishes and together mom and I consulted a top attorney in the area of elder finances to ensure that everything was done legal.
If you truly believe this, then why did you start this thread?
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am i wrong for spending money this way?
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:45 pm to gingerkittie
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and I consulted a top attorney in the area of elder finances to ensure that everything was done legal.
It doesn't seem like any attorney worth a shite would just say "yea put that money in an account with only a verbal commitment from your mother with Alzheimer's" much less one that is "the top in an area".
This post was edited on 6/13/16 at 7:46 pm
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:47 pm to gingerkittie
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I have one sibling by mom. My sibling is in total agreement with how i am spending the money as the majority of it is going to her kids and grandkids.
Is this the same sister who was caring for Mom but then stole Mom's $, hid it away & you had to take to court so you could get POA?
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She had lived with sis for a few months but that blew up. Sibling took mum's money and hid it and refused to give it up or to give to mom or reveal where it was.
Mom has a decent bit of cash money and I had to go to court to get custody of it and POA over mom.
Not sure if I'd trust her to be happy with the way you're spending the money.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:47 pm to Festus
Didn't she say they lived off the land and only needed a few hundred bucks a months to live? Again she is a very private person.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:48 pm to gingerkittie
I have trouble believing a "top attorney" would recommend just adding you as a co-account holder
How bad was mom's Alzheimer's when this donation occurred
Was there a formal donation inter vivos drawn up?
Was there an interdiction proceeding for you to handle her financial and medical affairs?
Power of attorney?
Please, indulge us.
How bad was mom's Alzheimer's when this donation occurred
Was there a formal donation inter vivos drawn up?
Was there an interdiction proceeding for you to handle her financial and medical affairs?
Power of attorney?
Please, indulge us.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:48 pm to NoNameTiger
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When my wife's father died and she got a chunk of cash (not a huge amount but nothing to laugh at either), I didn't expect anything. She took us on a very nice vacation and out the rest in her retirement acct.
All you married people with his and her money are nuts, especially if you have kids. Am I the only one that thinks that a husband and wife should manage their money together? What if one person is responsible and the other is a economic moron? Makes zero sense to me.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:55 pm to Bushmaster
I do believe she said that.
And I just want to take this opportunity to state that this thread is a perfect example of why I believe Dorothy is one of the most underrated posters on this site.
And I just want to take this opportunity to state that this thread is a perfect example of why I believe Dorothy is one of the most underrated posters on this site.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:56 pm to Festus
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why I believe Dorothy is one of the most underrated posters on this site
She isn't going to frick you, Fes.
GK may, though. She married her husband after a few weeks of dating. Play your card right, and you can slide right in after the divorce and live like David Koresh.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 7:56 pm to Festus
I agree.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:01 pm to stout
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She isn't going to frick you, Fes.
I don't want owlfan sloppy seconds, fwiw.
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GK may, though. She married her husband after a few weeks of dating. Play your card right, and you can slide right in after the divorce and live like David Koresh.
Frick that. Live with the constant threat of her taking her shite back when she gets mad at me? No thanks.
And she has grandchildren, doesn't she? How old do you think I am, Slurpee boy?
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:03 pm to stout
Spent most of my life in TN. A quick Google search showed me the way. I edited pretty quickly. 
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:03 pm to Festus
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And she has grandchildren, doesn't she?
shite, she could be 35. It's fairly obvious the females in that family know a dick ain't square.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:04 pm to gingerkittie
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I have one sibling by mom. My sibling is in total agreement with how i am spending the money as the majority of it is going to her kids and grandkids.
It's not stealing. Mom legally put the money in MY name so it is mine and i don't have to do a damned thing for anyone else with the money or answer to anyone about what i do with it. But i am doing what mom wanted so the other heirs have no complaints.
elder abuse? I am fulfilling my mom's wishes and together mom and I consulted a top attorney in the area of elder finances to ensure that everything was done legal.
In the absence of a will, the proper thing to do is to pay mom's expenses and divide the remainder equally between the heirs. In the presence of a will, the proper thing to do is follow the will.
It sounds like there is no will, and your mother suffering from dementia added you as co-owner of her accounts. That definitely sounds like elder abuse and unjust enrichment.
What's clear is that your moral compass is totally broken, if it ever existed in the first place, and your sister is as stupid as you are dishonest.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:07 pm to Festus
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How old do you think I am
Old enough that you were worried about Flu breaking your hip
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:07 pm to anc
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However, call me old fashioned but if it is an inheritance, then it is both yours and your husband's money, so he should have some say.
He doesn't inherit her mothers money. That is hers.
However is anyone else in line for inheritance? She may be spending someone other that her mothers money.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:08 pm to BOSCEAUX
Point taken.
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:09 pm to gingerkittie
Hubby sounds like a d-bag
But seems like youre spending money the wrong way
But seems like youre spending money the wrong way
Posted on 6/13/16 at 8:10 pm to gingerkittie
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