re: A guide for men online dating – from a female perspective

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No matter what age you are, men your own age are often going after younger women. That shouldn't be surprising.

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Dumb move, imo. for a man in his 30s to early 40s looking to settle down, a hot, stable 28-30 year old woman is a much safer choice than one in her early 20s. There is a whole lot about a woman that changes during her 20s. If she comes out of that still fine and with a good personality, she's a keeper. So many early 20's hotties let themselves go and are 6s at 30.

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We do not want to see a shirtless photo. It makes you seem trashy. Also gym selfies are trashy.

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That's BS.. Before I got married, I had a profile with a shirtless pic as my profile pic, the inbox was absolutely hammered with messages.

Here's some advice for women:

-Your "standards" you list in your profile almost always overshoot your potential.

-Just because you have a vagina, does not equate to you calling the shots. How about you actually state why you'd be useful to a man without automatically assuming every guy is desperate to support your lazy arse while he works and you spend his money.

-Duck face is code for whore.

-Don't say you're ambitious while also saying I'm 26 and about to start school again. We know you're just going to be dead weight and we'll be supporting you, so be honest and say why a guy should take you as his ball and chain.

-And most importantly, if you have kids, you're most definitely not in a position to be super picky. You'd be blessed to find a decent guy to help raise your bastard children. You're damaged goods.

Well if that is his flavor, then thank God I dodged that bullet. No loss for me

He must be cleaning up down here. Women aren't very attractive in houma. Very few career minded women. Hey pop out kids, work an office job, marry an oilfield baw, cheat on him and spend his money, tale vacations to gulf shores and GI, find out they are miserable in their 30s

God Dammit you are GoldenNugget and im just gonna believe it until you post a pic or someone who knows you leaks your nudes.

Literally none of this applies to me whatsoever.
-Not lazy and make very decent living.
- I dont do duck face, not a "basic bitch"
- Finished 2nd degree a long time ago, no more school.
- no kids or ex hubby

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I mean. Women can still be attractive in thier 30s.

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What do you mean women can "still" be attractive in their 30s? I think there are a lot of women who "hit their peak" in their 30s and 40s. But it really depends on how a person presents themselves.

Many women in their 30s, who are married with several children, etc.. They kind of "let themselves go". They don't really follow the latest fashion, etc so they look as if they are stuck in a certain generation which makes them look older and not as attractive, but if they update their style, etc then they will be a lot more attractive. I don't think age has as much to do with it as perceived (well it does in the sense if the person allows themselves to show their age in the way they dress, etc).

Would you say that most of your friends are men because you don't get along with women?

You seem like the kind of chick that doesn't get along with other women.

Did I say it did? Doesn't change the fact it applies to about 90% of women with a profile.