re: 30 year old guy with a 20 year old girl

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She'll still be young & vibrant when he's going down hill.

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Nope. Men have different prime years than women

According to a survey of women they find men at their most attractive in their mid 30s

The same survey men answered they find women most attractive from 18-23

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She'll still be young & vibrant when he's going down hill.

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That's my biggest concern about an excessive age difference.

I know some very mature and responsible younger women. On the other hand I dated a 29 year old a few years ago who had about the same maturity level as a typical middle schooler, which is why she isn't Mrs. Bestbank today.

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So at what age does a girl lose her sex drive exactly? In most guys experience it doesn't drop off after they hit 21.

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It's linked to fertility

The reason women to crazy and start hating men in their late 20s is because they realize they should have locked down a high value man when they had the chance in their prime years. Instead they slutted it up and decided to stay uncommitted to find herself and live it up and such, and can commit to a man anytime she wants because she believes her beauty and sex appeal will last forevrr. But that is not the case. Now she has hit the wall and is no longer as attractive as she was and the high value men aren't interested in her anymore so she either has to settle with a beta she repulses or be forever alone

Is she your daughter?

Sorry, already asked.....

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The reason women to crazy and start hating men in their late 20s is because they realize they should have locked down a high value man when they had the chance in their prime years. Instead they slutted it up and decided to stay uncommitted to find herself and live it up and such, and can commit to a man anytime she wants because she believes her beauty and sex appeal will last forevrr. But that is not the case. Now she has hit the wall and is no longer as attractive as she was and the high value men aren't interested in her anymore so she either has to settle with a beta she repulses or be forever alone

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So much truth to this. You don't want to lock up a former party girl in her late 20's or early 30's. She's not only past her prime, she's probably taken so many dicks that her pussy is like a worn out rag. Any dude who locks her down is just her fall back option because she's starting to panic and worry about being lonely and barren.

One of my buddies landed a really hot chick at 31. She's been run through by every Chad and Jamal in the city. She'll be hot for like 4 more years (tops) and then the steep decline starts and he'll be left with a used up pussy, bills and the knowledge that his formerly hot wife was a hooah. He always pulled hot younger arse but got sucked in.

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30 year old guy with a 20 year old girl

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Well as a 37 year old guy I see nothing wrong with this.


Women in their 20s should be made available to for men of all ages.

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None of your straight male friends will clown you for slamming a 20 year old with a pretty face, big tits and a round arse. And her friends can get some too if they want.

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true but ops girl probably is none of that

That was the standard when I was 30

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So much truth to this. You don't want to lock up a former party girl in her late 20's or early 30's. She's not only past her prime, she's probably taken so many dicks that her pussy is like a worn out rag. Any dude who locks her down is just her fall back option because she's starting to panic and worry about being lonely and barren.

One of my buddies landed a really hot chick at 31. She's been run through by every Chad and Jamal in the city. She'll be hot for like 4 more years (tops) and then the steep decline starts and he'll be left with a used up pussy, bills and the knowledge that his formerly hot wife was a hooah. He always pulled hot younger arse but got sucked in.

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Yet we have so many men who gladly wife up these sluts thinking they have hit the jackpot, when in reality they are getting the sloppy 2nds at best after she has given her prime years and best sex to the Chads and Jamals of her past. Now she will only do plain vanilla starfish sex every 4-6 weeks or so, and won't do acts like anal or anything because she is totally not like that anymore. How awesome would it be to be locked down to a woman who gave her best to other men but not you

I was 34 when I met my 23yo wife. In terms of maturity she "acts older than her age".

We've been together for 6 years and it is simply the best relationship I have had in my life.

What I found while dating in my 30's was that a lot of the 30yo single women were single for a reason. And most times that reason was they were either batshit crazy or manhating b*tches.