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3 year old potty training issues

Posted on 4/9/25 at 9:58 pm
Posted by Simon Gruber
Member since Mar 2017
901 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 9:58 pm
We have been trying to potty train my 3 year old son for awhile now. He will go pee on the toilet if you bring him but less than an hour later he will wet himself and just sit in wet underwear and watch tv or play like he’s dry. It’s like he can’t hold it at all, just feels the urge and goes. We have been trying for weeks now and daycare is helping as well.

He does have constipation issues which is the only thing I can think of that could be causing him to be reluctant to go to the bathroom on his own or tell us when he needs to pee or poop. I’ve started him on a fiber probiotic to see if we can get him more regular and hopefully it will fix the wetting himself problem.

His twin sister has been potty trained for months now.

Any other advice?
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29516 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:00 pm to
He’s just trying to be like his dad, cut the little guy some slack
Posted by Doofus
Member since Apr 2022
369 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:02 pm to
My only recommendation is to not let the constipation issue get any worse. Our daughter was incredibly constipated and had to do enemas and all the laxatives. It was awful going through that, and I wouldnt wish it on anyone. Ultimately the constipation was also causing her to have pee accidents as well.
Posted by MorgusTheMagnificent
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2014
1930 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:04 pm to
He’s 3. He’ll grow out of it
Posted by Simon Gruber
Member since Mar 2017
901 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:04 pm to
It’s been bad off and on. He will go days without pooping then we give him some Miralax and later that day he produces this massive log that is hard as a rock.
Posted by Simon Gruber
Member since Mar 2017
901 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:06 pm to
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He’s 3. He’ll grow out of it

I have been saying this for a few months now, but if he doesn’t get it by August he can’t attend pre k so I’m getting anxious.
Posted by Turftoe
Denver
Member since Mar 2016
4185 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:07 pm to
My son did the same, ole baw just trying to assert his dominance. Does he smirk when your changing that wet diaper?
Posted by Srbtiger06
Member since Apr 2006
28708 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:08 pm to
Son turned 3 recently. Potty trained.

We made it fun for him. I let him piss in the backyard of whatever. Eventually he started going in the potty.

My daughter was 11000% worse.
Posted by Tuscaloosa
12x Award Winning SECRant user
Member since Dec 2011
49179 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:08 pm to
We made my son stay naked for about 3-4 days and he was basically fully potty trained by the end of it.

Look into it.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
70171 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:10 pm to
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just sit in wet underwear


Underwear or diaper? Please be clear. I have excellent advice depending on your answer to this question.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
18992 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:11 pm to
Do you bribe with candy every time they go? Try a small toy if he goes a week without an accident

What worked for us was whenever they had a long break from school, we would basically do a potty training boot camp. When they wake up and do their morning routine, have them in their favorite underwear and go to the bathroom every 15 minutes. Give them a candy/treat after every visit. Next day was 30 minutes. Next an hour. Day 4 was when they were ready, but we’d routinely ask/remind them between bathroom breaks. After those couple of days, we’d still have an occasional FOMO accident because they couldn’t make it in time; but we were definitely over the hump

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His twin sister has been potty trained for months now.

This is normal. Girls get potty training down a lot faster than boys
Posted by LSU316
Rice and Easy Baby!!!
Member since Nov 2007
29868 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:12 pm to
Do a potty training boot camp weekend…..you have to stay home to make it work. We did it with my son and I thought it would never work but by God by Sunday he was not having any accidents.
Posted by Simon Gruber
Member since Mar 2017
901 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:12 pm to
Underwear, he only wears a pull up to sleep.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
40398 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:13 pm to
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I have been saying this for a few months now, but if he doesn’t get it by August he can’t attend pre k so I’m getting anxious.


That’s like 10% of his life.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
70171 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:17 pm to
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Underwear, he only wears a pull up to sleep.


In that case, unfortunately, I don't have any good advice for you. I'm sorry.
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
33887 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 10:17 pm to
He's three. Stop giving him fiber and relax. Just keep at it
Posted by jaytothen
Member since Jan 2020
7565 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 11:01 pm to
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We made my son stay naked for about 3-4 days and he was basically fully potty trained by the end of it.


I've had weekends like this and I'm over 40.
Posted by WinnaSez
Jackson, MS
Member since Mar 2019
1232 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 11:01 pm to
Girls develop faster than boys. Give him time - he’ll get tired of sitting in is own filth.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144345 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 11:06 pm to
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Any other advice?
frick his mom
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5353 posts
Posted on 4/9/25 at 11:33 pm to
You’re putting a whole lot of stress on both you and your son(and potentially mom and twin sis). I have 5 kids and some learned quicker than others. My 3 girls were quicker than my boys to potty train. For my boys, I used Cheerios in the toilet that they aimed for as enticement. My oldest was still occasionally wetting his bed at 4, but he’s graduating law school in a couple weeks and was married this last weekend. He turned out just fine.
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