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re: 2 Parents with Alzheimer's

Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:06 pm to
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43369 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:06 pm to
50 first dates
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
31708 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:12 pm to
My grandma had it...bad stuff, it's awful
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:14 pm to
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50 first dates



really dude? really?
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:20 pm to
No, I only had to deal with one which was bad enough. Mother's dementia was already bad enough and after my father died, she really started going downhill. Had to keep her in a nursing home the last ten years. That wasn't an easy thing to do, but at least I knew someone was looking after her 24/7, she was getting her meds, regular baths, a comfortable place to sleep, and three square meals a day.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:23 pm to
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I can tell everyone out there, if you can afford long term health insurance, buy it now.


The other way is to qualify them for Medicaid.
Posted by Dr. Shultz
Baton Rouge, La
Member since Jun 2013
6391 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:36 pm to
I dealt with both my grandparents having alzheimer's at the same time.

Wasn't that bad. Few hiccups every now and then
Posted by AthensTiger
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2008
2977 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:37 pm to
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We took away his car and he calls bitching about it every 5-10 minutes screaming we stole his car, money, etc.
going through this right now. Mom has Alzheimer's and Dad has dementia , lung disease, cannot walk with a walker, forgets, fell and fractured three vertebrae, can't hear...on and on. But thinks he should be home and wants his car and keys.
Posted by Sal Minio
17th Street Canal
Member since Sep 2006
4199 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 1:59 pm to
Damneold,
How do I qualify them for Medicaid? I thought they were already on it? I need to go see them now and will hang up and check back in later.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98715 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 2:07 pm to
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How do I qualify them for Medicaid? I thought they were already on it? I need to go see them now and will hang up and check back in later.


Some lawyer can chime in with the particulars, but it takes some planning ahead of time, you have to transfer assets out of their name so they're technically indigent. And it has to be done something like three years in advance of when you apply for medicaid.
Posted by Bottom9
Arsenal Til I Die
Member since Jul 2010
21854 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 2:50 pm to
My dad is 91 and has it. Sucks really bad. Thankfully my mom takes care of him while I'm in school.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 3:03 pm to
Yeah. You can have a like $10k burial policy to your name and that's it
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 3:04 pm to
They're likely on Medicare

You have to be poor to get Medicaid
Posted by lsusportsman2
Member since Oct 2007
27232 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 3:10 pm to
Sorry about what you're going through man. Hoping for the best for your parents. I have a question though. What's the difference between Alzheimer's and dementia?
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
9897 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 3:22 pm to
Sal,
The business office managet at the nursing home should be able to help you get them qualified for Medicaid. Where are they in a nursing home?
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27058 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 4:01 pm to
Very sorry. Nursing home is the only option. Unless you have the time to devote 24/7.

Seen many people try. They spend so much of themselves and still take poor care of the parents. Structure of a nursing home may actually benefit them. After an initial period.
Posted by AthensTiger
Athens, GA
Member since Jul 2008
2977 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 7:13 pm to
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How do I qualify them for Medicaid?
medicaid rules vary by state. They will have to spend down assets to almost nothing, $3k in my state. There are income rules. And they do a look back to make sure assets were not transferred to family members in last five years. Medicare does not pay LTC costs except if someone goes right in from a hospital and does rehab and PT, and that only lasts 120 days. If they qualify for Medicaid, it pays everything. If either parent is a wartime veteran, look into the VA Aid and Attendance pension.
Posted by shawtiger
Baton Rouge, LA.
Member since Jan 2004
433 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 7:33 pm to
Either one veterans? My wife's dad was a vet. Paid a large amount of her mom and dad's 24/7 in house care. Hassle to get lots of paperwork but they paid. Hope I die before I get that old.
Posted by Emiliooo
Member since Jun 2013
5148 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 7:39 pm to
Alzheimer's is the worst. I only have one memory of my grandmother, and she was alive for 20 years of my life.
Posted by ACTIGER2012
Member since Dec 2011
421 posts
Posted on 5/10/14 at 7:45 pm to
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What's the difference between Alzheimer's and dementia?


Dementia is caused by Alzheimer's disease. Dementia is a collection of neurological symptoms that can be caused by several different diseases, one of which is Alzheimer's.
Posted by Sal Minio
17th Street Canal
Member since Sep 2006
4199 posts
Posted on 5/12/14 at 9:39 pm to
Do I talk to a lawyer or someone in insurance about the Medicaid? Lawyer, insurance agent....oh no...
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