re: Should I marry a murder true crime documentary on Netflix was a wild story

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I mean, the loyalty and feelings she felt toward Sandy is a pretty typical response that a lot of men and woman have after a hard break up of a long relationship. They fall so deep for the next person who shows them the slightest bit of happiness and normalcy.

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Sure. Until someone tell you they murdered someone and covered it up. Pretty clear reality check.

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Its not like she hid the murder...she told the police almost right away.

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Hence why I a said I applaud her for going to the police. A family got a conviction and a body because of her.

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Although I do think the hard part is definitely understanding her actions after she told the cops, but it is certainly easy for us to sit here and dictate what she should have done. Its not like the police were in her corner either and helped her our after.

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The cops told her not to see him, she immediately goes and stays with him and has him stay with her. The cops told her not to tell anyone and she immedietly tells her friend. The guy was not a threat to her so what were they supposed to do, provide her security? She not only had Sandy some stay with her she had Robert too.

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I'm not saying she was justified in her actions, but we simply cannot fathom the situation she was in. Add drugs and alcohol and to me it becomes not that hard to believe to me.

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I mean I'm not saying I don't believe this happened. But her getting on drugs with a murderer isn't really something I have a whole lot of sympathy for her on. She was a doctor and was throwing away her career as well over this bozo.

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This is very similar to the Skylar White situation. Obviously that's a TV show, but she was put in such a fricked up and unique situation its hard to act like she is the crazy one.

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I knew five minutes into the episode when everything was still rosy in their relationship that she was crazy. She was crazy before and just became absolutely manic crazy by the end even when he was in jail and they were officially over. She got the family justice but she also cost them a murder conviction at the same time because of running from the police/not showing up to court/being on drugs/being a terrible witness. If I'm the family of the deceased I'm grateful for what she did but also thinking "Jesus can't you get your shite together for just one day in court?"

Lesson for you from this:

If you tell a woman something, understand you are telling everyone.