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re: WSJ: “They are in the top 10% of earners; but they don’t feel rich”

Posted on 7/3/25 at 1:29 pm to
Posted by lsuconnman
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 1:29 pm to
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Posted by STLhog
Dallas, TX
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 2:06 pm to
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I have a hard time wrapping my head around how many really wealthy people there are in North Texas these days


The wealth concentration is pretty absurd and its still relatively affordable for such a large area with similar population growth and the amount of high paying jobs.

Get killed on property taxes and crappy public schools but otherwise, it's still pretty decent if you're not trying to live in Park Cities.

Frisco/Plano/Prosper areas are what blows my mind. They're basically South Oklahoma and people are willing to pay a fortune but I guess the schools are great up there so there's trade offs.
Posted by STLhog
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 2:10 pm to
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Baton Rouge


Not trying to dog Baton Rouge but there's something to be said about comparing NYC to that type of area.

A more reasonable comparison is NYC/San Fran/LA/Seattle to Austin, ATL, Northwest Arkansas, Nashville, Houston, Dallas, Miami/other areas of Florida that were typically "affordable" 5 years ago.

I think the crux is those areas that had lots of jobs and relatively affordable housing are few in far between these days and becoming similar to the coastal areas.

If I could find a job in a decent smaller town somewhere in the Southeast, I'd move there in a heartbeat.

Even when I look at real estate traveling in places like Birmingham, Tuscaloosa, Huntsville, Greenville and those types, it still ain't cheap in the nicer areas for decent houses of size and quality.

World has changed a lot in the last 10 years.
This post was edited on 7/3/25 at 2:12 pm
Posted by Lawyered
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 2:14 pm to
We need the budget breakdown of these people

Guarantee there is a bunch of fat to be trimmed
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 2:21 pm to
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We need the budget breakdown of these people Guarantee there is a bunch of fat to be trimmed


The point kind of is if you are making a half million you should be able to have some fat. Thats getting less and less true
Posted by STLhog
Dallas, TX
Member since Jan 2015
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 5:35 pm to
I’m not going to spend much time on it but after Mortgage, Day Care, 1 car note, grad school loan payment, golf membership (I realize this isn’t needed, it’s $900 but includes gym and unlimited golf, I’d be paying $400/month playing once a week publicly), groceries, utilities, and miscellaneous food/need spending. I’ve got about $5000 to save/month. Sounds like a lot but that’s $60k/year in total which doesn’t include any travel, unexpected car repair, home repairs, appliances etc.

Add college, potential private schools because Dallas public schools suck and you’re not balling out. You’re very comfortable but you’re not flying first class, buying and living in 2 homes, driving luxury vehicles every 2 years or anything like that.
This post was edited on 7/3/25 at 5:37 pm
Posted by Rabt
Member since Jan 2021
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 6:50 pm to
Quite the haircut after federal and state taxes.

California......

LINK


New York.....

LINK
Posted by dewster
Chicago
Member since Aug 2006
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 7:05 pm to
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Quite the haircut after federal and state taxes.


And if you are W2….its a completely uncontrolled expense that never seems to be reduced.
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
25050 posts
Posted on 7/3/25 at 7:30 pm to
Most high income folks aren’t making it all as base salary.

You may have a $200K base and then you get $70K in bonus and another $50K in RSUs or options.
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 7:34 pm to
Frisco/Plano/Prosper people don’t need to go into Dallas. That area is a mega home to jobs and easy access to everything a family needs.
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 7:38 pm to
The real unlock is when you overfund retirement early and can “Coast FIRE”

If you could spend that $60K on whatever you want instead of saving, then that’s the “extra” lifestyle that feels rich.
Posted by STLhog
Dallas, TX
Member since Jan 2015
18860 posts
Posted on 7/3/25 at 8:02 pm to
No question. But I made choices to travel and “spend” when I was younger knowing this would be my 30s-50s. I’m good with that and my current lifestyle. I don’t like being away from home much longer than 7 days at this point and wouldn’t have wanted to pinch pennys in my 20s.

Again, not complaining, choices I’ve made, just trying to demonstrate how it’s not a making it rain type of income by any means where we live.
This post was edited on 7/3/25 at 8:03 pm
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 7/3/25 at 8:25 pm to
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They are in the top 10% of earners; but they don’t feel rich

I get the sentiment at $250k. But we got people in their 30s and 40s in this thread making $400k-$500k. Will prob have 8 figure net worths by age 60. And don’t think they’re rich.

Wild thread.
Posted by Tiger4life306
Member since Apr 2016
670 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 6:13 am to
I hear there is nothing glamours about making $500k living in Dallas
Posted by Florida_Man1981
Member since Jan 2024
541 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:00 am to
Americans have the same spending problem our government has.

You can live comfortably off $100k it's just a matter of realizing the difference between needs and wants.
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
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Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:02 am to
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Most high income folks aren’t making it all as base salary.


Many “rich” people did not get there via income. Capital (ownership / stock)!

Long term capital gains tax is MUCH lower than income tax.

Capital > Income

This thread and the WSJ article is about income. Rich people probably stopped reading the article at the word “earner”.
This post was edited on 7/4/25 at 8:11 am
Posted by STLhog
Dallas, TX
Member since Jan 2015
18860 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:37 am to
25 years from now may be different. Again not complaining just always figured it would “feel” different if I was fortunate enough to get to that income level.

I broke out my living situation. We’ve lived in a 1955 3/2 1800 square foot house since I moved to Dallas. It’s by White Rock lake, has tiny arse closets, small bathrooms and a detached garage. Its not HP, UP etc

I’m moving to a 2800 square foot ranch house that’s even further east and has terrible schools where my mortgage is almost doubling because of rates and property tax. I drive an 11 year old car with 120k miles.

Look at real estate in Dallas, some of you guys have no idea. Both of my houses are/have been great but the landscape has changed entirely.

I guess many of us have a different definition of “rich”.
This post was edited on 7/4/25 at 9:22 am
Posted by urinetrouble
Member since Oct 2007
20627 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:42 am to
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People just spend crazy amounts of money.


This is the issue more than anything and I’m not immune to it either. My wife and I are millennials and we spend money on things our parents would not have dared of dream of spending at our ages (and still don’t), and we are still more frugal/responsible than most of our peers.
Posted by StansberryRules
Member since Aug 2024
4543 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:42 am to
If you have a very expensive house, expensive cars, and are trying to send your kids to expensive schools, even 250k can feel tight.

you gotta be judicious about your spending no matter how much you make.
Posted by AndyJ
Member since Jul 2008
3457 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:47 am to
Probably an unpopular opinion, but my wife and I are both 45 year old physicians…and we dont feel rich because we dont have tons of extra spending money to burn. It goes with the vibe of that story

But I know via income we are rich. We are putting tons of money away into retirement accounts and a few rental properties. We have a great house and have 12 years left on the mortgage after refinancing to a 15 years

We have 2 girls and a boy in private schools. We take 1 nice trip per year. And we do not drive fancy cars (both Nissans) . Still, putting most of our money away for the future makes us not feel rich. And we would both be in trouble if we became disabled, even with good disability insurance.
This post was edited on 7/4/25 at 8:50 am
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