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Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:09 pm to
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Because it is colossal movement for the gay community and could eventually change our societies perception on homosexuals and their lifestyle.


It may be a big deal for the gay community but it really isn't for anyone else.
Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:19 pm to
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it really isn't for anyone else.


For anyone who has a dream that they want to follow but are too afraid to try because they feel like they don't belong, it matters.
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:28 pm to
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Free to who, the folks you deem as acceptable
The motto of the progressive left for decades. Don't actively support homosexual lifestyles? You must be silenced, vilified and eradicated as unacceptable. Don't go out of your way to espouse every conceivable environmental alarmist proclamation? You must be silenced, vilified and eradicated as unacceptable. Don't eagerly embrace the notion that everyone deserves to have every whim met by the state at taxpayer expense? You must be silenced, vilified and eradicated as unacceptable.

It is galling how many times we have to listen to the people clamoring for tolerance, acceptance, and respect for all points of view telling everyone who disagrees with them to shut up under threat of hate crime prosecution. When are we going to hear a liberal stand up with a national audience and demand that we as a nation show respect for diversity and all points of view and give this same degree of love and tolerance to, say, the Tea Party?

It's easy to be passionate about someone's freedom of speech when you agree with them. It's when they don't agree with you that is the real test. And your reaction to the people who disagreed with you is pretty much exactly the same as their reaction was to Jason Collins. Pot, meet kettle.

Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:34 pm to
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For anyone who has a dream that they want to follow but are too afraid to try because they feel like they don't belong, it matters.


Like I said ...

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It may be a big deal for the gay community but it really isn't for anyone else.
Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:37 pm to
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When are we going to hear a liberal stand up with a national audience and demand that we as a nation show respect for diversity and all points of view and give this same degree of love and tolerance to, say, the Tea Party?


The ACLU does this kind of shite all the time.
ACLU stands up for Rush Limbaugh

Let's not pretend that persecution of the Tea Party's political ideas are the same as the persecution of homosexuals. This is a ridiculous false analogy.

You're acting as if this is a First Amendment dispute. The government isn't denying your right to slur gays. Maybe you're just pissed that people won't high-five you anymore after you beat up a sissy kid and take his lunch money.
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:44 pm to
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If you're gay, you announce, lie or deflect the questions.
100% false. Living in a very high density gay environment I literally see this almost every day: people ask, and gays answer. Not announce, simply answer. Someone asks if they have a girlfriend, they say, "no, I have a boyfriend" or "no, I'm gay." They don't lie, deflect or make an issue of it. They simply answer the question the same way anyone else would.

Of course, lots of other gay people I know do "announce" or make an issue of it. They are usually regarded as attention seekers and, when you get to know them better, you usually learn that they are just as much attention seekers in most other aspects of their lives, too.

Jason Collins, of course, is in a different situation than most gay men. He is a high profile celebrity (compared to most average people), so even if he simply answered rather than announced, it would be treated and reported as an "announcement." So his choice to do it in a Sports Illustrated article was presumably just a professional decision on the best way to present something that was going to get reported as a big deal no matter how he handled it.

But ordinary people have no need to "announce." It's just a question, so they can just answer it. It happens all the time and it has the added benefit of greatly reducing the likelihood of anyone else making an issue of it. When a homosexual "announces" their sexuality they have made it into an issue. There is a difference, and it is significant.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259594 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:48 pm to
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Let's not pretend that persecution of the Tea Party's political ideas are the same as the persecution of homosexuals. This is a ridiculous false analogy.



Are you shitting me? In many places, you would fare better telling people you are gay. It's amazing how people demonize things they don't understand.

Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 10:52 pm to
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It may be a big deal for the female engineers but it really isn't for anyone else.


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It may be a big deal for the American brewmaster but it really isn't for anyone else.


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It may be a big deal for the Chinese human rights activist but it really isn't for anyone else.


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It may be a big deal for the Jamaican bobsledders but it really isn't for anyone else.
Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:01 pm to


Yeah, because Tea Partiers are known for having been persecuted harshly. Like being brutally murdered or being dragged to death behind a truck.

Can you link a single story about a person being murdered for being a member of the Tea Party? How about some statistics that show the shame of being a Tea Partier leads to a higher risk of suicide?

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Are you shitting me?
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:05 pm to
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this is a false analogy
It's actually not as false an analogy as most people think it is, but for different reasons.

The problem with pedophilia prohibitions (in the context of this analogy) is not the abridgement of the rights of the pedophile, but of the child. Why do you (or "we", society, the courts, etc.) get the right to arbitrarily pick a number and deny everyone on the "wrong" side of that number the right to choose for themselves. The law doesn't even pretend to attempt to base the number on actual competency (see emancipation actions), it's just a vague codification of the compromise most agreeable to a bunch of decision makers who weren't going to be affected by the decision themselves. The justifications for denying a 16 year old (in some states) the right to have sex with a 20 year old (or 40 year old) is not significantly more soundly rooted in reason, logic, or science than the justifications were for denying men the right to have sex with other men, or whites to have sex with blacks, etc., etc. It has far, far more to do with the generalized societal consensus on the morality of adults having sex with children. And as the consensus on that morality changes -- just like the consensus on the morality of homosexuality and interracial relationships changed -- you can bet your arse there will be traction for revising pedophilia laws.

Of course I have no problem with laws against pedophilia because I share in the moral consensus that it is wrong.* But I can see the writing on the wall, and history will repeat itself yet again.




*that is, no more problem than I have with the poor construction of most laws
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:15 pm to
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The ACLU does this kind of shite all the time.
Right. The Smoking Gun. I suppose that's the same as a front page article in Sports Illustrated, the cover of Time, feature interviews on Oprah or with Barbara Walters, personal congratulations from the President, etc.?

I said with a national audience. I'm talking about when their own people are listening and taking their cues from their leadership. When they start using those opportunities to preach tolerance, respect and acceptance of someone besides one of their own, then it's stop being hypocrisy.

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You're acting as if this is a First Amendment dispute.
Actually, I'm not. I'm not that stupid so I realize there is no state actor here (at least until the Supreme Court decides to make every citizen a "state actor"). The guy I was responding to was the one raising a fuss like it was an assault on the first amendment.
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The government isn't denying your right to slur gays.
I don't slur gays; I reserve that treatment for people I don't like, like liars, hypocrites and idiots.
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Let's not pretend that persecution of the Tea Party's political ideas are the same as the persecution of homosexuals.
What the frick are you talking about? Did I say anything about persecution of the Tea Party? If you want to make as straw man, I suggest next time you actually use something the other guy at least mentioned.
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This is a ridiculous false analogy.
Which makes you look pretty silly for drawing it. Why did you do that, stupid?
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Maybe you're just pissed that people won't high-five you anymore after you beat up a sissy kid and take his lunch money.
We didn't have lunch money, we didn't really have any sissy kids (very small school), and the only guy I "beat up" (some of the time) was my buddy that I somehow ended up in a fight with every year despite the fact we were lifelong friends (ah, the foolishness of youth . . .). Oh, and a drunk frat prick in Georgetown that jumped my buddy . . . but that's a different story.

Posted by Utah Tiger
Palm Beach, FL
Member since Sep 2005
1126 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:16 pm to
I am against spending my tax dollars for male gays. They are not as a whole a stable segment of society.
Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:17 pm to
Now you're talking about a whole different argument, age of consent.

I agree that societal definition of morality is conditional and fluid with changing times. But if the moral dilemma involves a willing adult versus a non-willing person, I do not fear society shifting in favor of the aggressor.

Sure, we'll always be debating the definition of consent (Just ask Jeremy Hill.), but that's a different argument. We shouldn't be concerned about the societal shift toward tolerance of homosexuality in the sense that it will open up Pandora's Box. That's just not the case.

This is just another evolutionary step in our collective morality. Get on board. Life will be easier for everyone.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:25 pm to
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It may be a big deal for the female engineers but it really isn't for anyone else.
It may be a big deal for the American brewmaster but it really isn't for anyone else.
It may be a big deal for the Chinese human rights activist but it really isn't for anyone else
It may be a big deal for the Jamaican bobsledders but it really isn't for anyone else



Exactly. Fear is almost always overblown.
Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:29 pm to
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Right. The Smoking Gun. I suppose that's the same as a front page article in Sports Illustrated, the cover of Time, feature interviews on Oprah or with Barbara Walters, personal congratulations from the President, etc.?


You asked for an instance where the far left stands up for the right. I gave you an instance. Now it's not a grand enough stage? Even Fox News reported it. Isn't that grand enough?

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Did I say anything about persecution of the Tea Party?


By making the analogy of homosexuals to Tea Partiers, yes. You clearly did. If not drawing that comparison, your previous statement has no meaning. You said it. Own it.
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:35 pm to
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But if the moral dilemma involves a willing adult versus a non-willing person, I do not fear society shifting in favor of the aggressor.
But your language here proves the point. You apply terms like "non-willing" and "aggressor" to a situation which suggests neither. Pedophilia, as understood and addressed by the moral consensus of our society, is simply a matter of numbers. Neither willingness nor aggression are necessary factors. In fact, willingness is typically specifically excluded from being a factor because "we" have deemed those unfortunate enough to fall below the proper numbers incapable of consent. And as for the "aggressor", our contemporary view towards pedophilia is, again, a matter of numbers that ignores motive. In many ways, a 40 year old man acting on a sexual interest in an unwilling 4 year old is considered the same as an 18 year old "man" acting on a sexual interest in a willing 16 year old.

You are confirming and participating in the moral consensus by terming all these situations as involving "non-willing persons" and "aggressors".
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We shouldn't be concerned about the societal shift toward tolerance of homosexuality in the sense that it will open up Pandora's Box.
No, this particular "Pandora's Box" has been open for quite some time. We decided decades ago (perhaps longer) that we would not allow the notion of hard and fast morality. No notion of right and wrong is tolerated in our society; only notions of what we decide to allow and what we don't. And this has resulted in the demonizing of the very concepts of right and wrong. Just watch any discussion or debate, in real life or on the internet, and see the effects whenever someone lets slip the fatal words, "because it's wrong" or "it's the right thing to do". As soon as someone expresses an opinion in those terms, they might as well have tossed out the "Nazi" bomb because their credibility will usually nosedive.
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This is just another evolutionary step in our collective morality.
That would be less troubling if there were any pattern of morality to that evolution. Tell me, what significant examples can you can think of where our "morality" evolved to a less-tolerant view of anything other than intolerance?

Drugs? More tolerant. Sex? More tolerant. Homosexuality? More tolerant.

About the only things that we have become less tolerant of are smoking, drunk driving, and straight white Christian men.

Posted by victoire sécurisé
Member since Nov 2012
4817 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:36 pm to
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They are not as a whole a stable segment of society.


As stated in the Utah Tiger Comprehensive Social Stability Survey of 2013.
Posted by inthebr
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
875 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:39 pm to
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That's the Old Testament. When Jesus came his teachings became law. He kept some and not the rest. So once again, learn the bible.



Where did he throw out the part about touching pigs?

On the bible, Jesus and laws thing, though, the Gospels don't deal with homosexuality. The parts of the New Testament that deal with it were written by Paul and others, who, I understand, wasn't speaking for Jesus in those passages. So if Jesus is the only one in the book we're supposed to listen to, and he didn't go out of his way to condemn homosexuals then your whole argument is fallacious.

Just be honest: you don't like gay people the same way some kids don't like peas. Leave it at that and leave religion at the door on this one.
Posted by graychef
Member since Jun 2008
28299 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:40 pm to
This thread has derailed.
Posted by King Joey
Just south of the DC/US border
Member since Mar 2004
12493 posts
Posted on 4/30/13 at 11:48 pm to
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You asked for an instance where the far left stands up for the right. I gave you an instance. Now it's not a grand enough stage?
No, I asked,
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When are we going to hear a liberal stand up with a national audience
. No, it's not grand enough until it is precisely as grand as the stage they take for homosexuals, women, african-americans, anti-war activists, or any other group out there. What they are doing is lip service, as evidenced by the rarity and relative obscurity of their efforts. The Westboro Baptist Church is vilified on a regular basis across the country, and I haven't seen Obama or any other Liberal leader speak at length on 20/20, in Time magazine, or a State of the Union address passionately demanding respect and tolerance for them and denouncing those who criticize and demonize them for expressing their views. Why? Because everyone knows that the Westboro Baptists are fricking assholes and the truth is that Liberals don't give any more of a shite about the First Amendment than the Conservatives do; they both ignore it until someone they agree with needs protecting.
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By making the analogy of homosexuals to Tea Partiers, yes
I didn't make an analogy of homosexuals. I was talking about the Liberals use of the First Amendment as a matter of convenience. I mentioned environmental alarmists and caretaker state proponents, too; I wasn't analogizing them to the Tea Party or homosexuals. The paragraph I wrote above isn't comparing homosexuals or the Tea Party to Westboro Baptists, either. Just because two things are mentioned in different parts of a conversation does not mean they are being analogized.

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