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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:37 pm to
Posted by Geauxtigers468
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:37 pm to
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he then kicked the kid that pushed him, a punch was thrown at my son's face and my son then rolled over the kids foot (his power chair does weigh 300lbs). There was apparently some eye gouging after that and then it was broken up.



Good for your son. Its pretty shitty for a kid to try and beat up another just for being an LSU fan. I have to say everyone in the state of Alabama would know who this kid and who his parents were if this was me in your situation.
Posted by Tiger 79
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:39 pm to
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tigerfan in bamaland


Just when I thought I have heard of everything the gumps top it again. Sorry your son had to go through that. My sister in law is wheelchair bound and has lost her eyesight. How someone to take a football rivalry and ratchet it up to assault your son is..........wait isn't Alabama where they kill their kids and relatives over football games?

Never mind
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:45 pm to
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I wouldnt see what the big deal is. But picking on a kid in a wheelchair for ANY reason is bad.


That is my whole point. Perhaps even if my son were a fellow alabama fan this incident would have taken place any way, maybe not. The fact remains that this is how it was started. He did not want to return to school after Bama beat us, but he did and took some trash talk. I used it as a life lesson. "See how it feels when someone talks trash?" "If you dont like it done to you, don't do it to others. WHEN LSU wins next year, remember that." Hopefully he learned humility that day.
Posted by LSUmomma
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:45 pm to
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I have to disagree with those who say fight back. There are times and places to wear team colors,


I really don't recommend physical violence, even though I jest about it a bit. But honestly, a 6th grader should be able to wear anything within the school dress code without having to worry about being physically assulted over it. Let just presume for arguements sake, that a girl wore some "masculine" type clothes... and yeah, she could be expected to possibly take some namecalling or heckling about being a dyke or something, while that would still be wrong- I could see her having to take that... but she should NEVER be expected to tolerate being pushed or shoved. It sounds like the step across the line to physical action came when tigerfan's son was pushed back into his wheelchair. I feel sure that he's used to having to verbally defend his clothes and team allegiance, but wheelchair or not, this thing should have never reached a point of physical contact. And once it did, I think that tigerfan's son was in the right to defend himself, and it's too bad he didn't get to run that wheelchair up over the kid's leg and really give him something to remember!
Posted by Garo500
Birmingham, AL
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 12:55 pm to
Something in this story tells me there is more to it than just wearing LSU sportswear. Regardless, my point is you can keep your dignity and save face without pushing to prove a point. The means to an end is not to win the argument.
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:06 pm to
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Something in this story tells me there is more to it than just wearing LSU sportswear.


There is. This kid needed some attention, so he decided to get some by picking the easiest target and using the LSU card to get the reaction he wanted. I am sure the other boys gathered around to witness the debate. Now my son probably said something to this kid which he could not refute, thus the physical altercation ensued.

I will have to warn my son not to match wits with an unarmed participant in the future.
Posted by I-59 Tiger
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Member since Sep 2003
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:06 pm to
True,the kid who started it could just be white trash raised by rednecks who is probably beaten at home and is being raised to be a bully.
Posted by GarmischTiger
Humboldt County
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:14 pm to
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I will have to warn my son not to match wits with an unarmed participant in the future.
More true words were never spoken. It was never a fair fight...
Posted by LuckyLee
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:18 pm to
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tigerfan in bamaland


If you stop dressing him in LSU gear, the terrorists win. Don't do it.

Sorry to hear about this. It is truly pathetic. In all seriousness, hire the 8th grader.
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:21 pm to
I'll go out on a limb and guess his comment had something to do with Utah.
Posted by bamaboy87
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 1:35 pm to
I hope that boys parents beat his as* raw. I don't care if your son is in a wheelchair or not, the Bama kid shouldn't have started talking trash. I'm so sickened by this story. I really hope that in the end this doesn't make you think worse of Alabama fans than you probably already do . Not all are like that and I know that I sure as hell wasn't raised like that.
This post was edited on 2/20/09 at 6:29 pm
Posted by cggeaxtigers
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Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:00 pm to
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Also, please make a visit to the kids house and beat his dad with a tire iron while yelling "tiger bait"


+1
Posted by Jrv2damac
KS (mountain time)
Member since Mar 2004
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:03 pm to
Move somewhere else.
Posted by tuck
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:08 pm to
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Something in this story tells me there is more to it than just wearing LSU sportswear. Regardless, my point is you can keep your dignity and save face without pushing to prove a point. The means to an end is not to win the argument.
Bingo. And you idiots (yes, you too, I-59), who are trying to make this about 'Bama class' are using the same form of logic any common bigot uses. This is NOT about Bama/LSU. This speaks to something much deeper that is screwed up in the kids life that has absolutely zero to do with the kid or his parents being Bama fans. There is no telling what is going on in that kids home to make him think it is okay to hurt someone in a freaking wheelchair (alcoholism, abuse, divorce, drugs, etc). I can assure you of one thing, it has nothing to do with Bama's fricking football team!

Good grief, I'm dissappointed in you 59. For someone who tries to be as reasonable as you put on, that post goes a long way to show how deluded you really are. That was just a plain moronic post.
This post was edited on 2/20/09 at 2:09 pm
Posted by RT58
Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:19 pm to
Living in Bama... (Posted on 2/20 at 10:47 a.m.)

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Raising my son as a Tiger fan in this state is not without tribulation.

I recieved a call from his school today (he's 11 and a 6th grader) informing me he was involved in a fight during PE. It was all started by this kid who is a Bamafan who ragged my son by repeatedly telling him how much LSU sucks. An argument ensued and apparently it turned violent.

Now I know boys will be boys and this stuff happens all of the time, but my son suffers from Duchenne's Muscular Dystrophy and is confined to a wheelchair.

I'm not infering that Bammers raise their kids to behave this way. This is one kid out of many. I try to tell my son to ignore the taunting, but anyone who has been in Jr. High knows this cannot always be done.

My wife has asked me to not encourage his passion for the tigers and has even forbidden him from wearing LSU gear to school, but the cat is somewhat out of the bag and the kids all know his colors are purple and gold.

Should I heed my wife's advice and tone it down, considering where we live? I don't think I can un-ring that bell even if I wanted to.

Anyhow, thanks for listening

on behalf of the decent bama fans,i just wanted to apologize for this. i to have a child in a wheel chair, born with spina-bifida. though there has been no violence,i can't count the times she has been ridiculed,embarrassed,by auburn kids for wearing bama gear. kids are gonna be kids,but ultimately, it is the parents fault totally for failure to discipline them from the time they are just toddlers.the bama kid should be suspended for a few days,at the very least,along with his dad having HIS arse whipped


Posted by Garo500
Birmingham, AL
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:26 pm to
Tuck, you sound like practically all BAMA fans that I know -- rational and respectfully competitive. This situation could happen in every state, every city in the country. Seems like people are getting keyed up everywhere. Not like the Mayberry lifestyle I had when growing up. Lets keep the sports competition between us fun.
Posted by Jrv2damac
KS (mountain time)
Member since Mar 2004
72416 posts
Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:27 pm to
Every Alabama fan?
Posted by CovingtonTiger
Covington, LA
Member since Oct 2007
562 posts
Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:27 pm to
tigerfan:
I have to agree with the other posters on here who think that this was not really an LSU/Bama issue. Believe it or not, there are some "absolute" truths that civilized people should observe. One of those is obviously not to start or get involved in a physical altercation with someone who is disabled. The kid who pushed your son has serious issues if he does not understand this. It seems that the school is just trying to ignore this, and not really punishing either party. That is wrong. The instigator should be suspended or punished in some way. If the school does not take decisive action, it may lead other kids to think that they can get away with similar conduct.

By the way, tell your son to stay strong and keep wearing his LSU gear, otherwise, the bully wins.
Posted by Jrv2damac
KS (mountain time)
Member since Mar 2004
72416 posts
Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:38 pm to
Yeah seriously, you try to subdue a handicap and your parents get called with a warning? I have never heard of anyone doing such a thing, for a guy any age. That school is a joke.
Posted by Garo500
Birmingham, AL
Member since Feb 2009
31 posts
Posted on 2/20/09 at 2:40 pm to
Let's put it this way. I'm an LSU fan, living in amongst the Bammers and the Aubies. They pretty much carry the fight to each other. Paul Finebaum makes sure of that year long. Logic tells me to stay out of the fray and cohabitate peacefully. It works pretty well 50 weeks out of the year.
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