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Reciprocity vs. Vacation Play

Posted on 5/13/25 at 9:24 pm
Posted by Tigerbiscuits
Mid-City
Member since Nov 2011
1108 posts
Posted on 5/13/25 at 9:24 pm
Let's discuss the mythical agreement of reciprocity in the golf world.

Based on light research, the reciprocal agreement can be explicit between clubs or via mutual connections between club pros. The agreement can vary between comped play to full price fees. However, knowing if your club has any reciprocal agreements isn't as straight forward as it may seem. In my experience, my home club pro will request I reach out for tee times with the message that he's available to verify membership or agreement if necessary.

I am relatively new to the private golf world and get the feeling there's unspoken etiquette or things I'm just supposed to know about this mythical token to play private clubs elsewhere. It appears there are add-ons to memberships to expand that option but it's not marketed very well or clearly offered at our club.

Anyone have knowledge to share? Of course I would never call up Augusta and ask to get on but what about something like Piper Glen in Charlotte or Druid Hills in Georgia? Is it the old adage that all they can say is no, or are there obvious signs and information I should be looking for before trying to get on privates away from home?
Posted by snatchola
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
1190 posts
Posted on 5/13/25 at 9:39 pm to
It’s more standard to have your club’s golf professional reach out to the private club you’re wanting to play to inquire. I’ve never seen it to where a member of a club reaches out to another club themselves to inquire of the possibilities of a reciprocal agreement.
Posted by RummelTiger
Official TD Sauces Club Member
Member since Aug 2004
93028 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 7:13 am to
quote:

In my experience, my home club pro will request I reach out for tee times with the message that he's available to verify membership or agreement if necessary.


I've always had pro's that will reach out to the other club on my behalf. I might give a "nice to have" tee time range, but generally fine with whatever I can get.
Posted by Hou_Lawyer
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2019
2173 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 7:16 am to
Ask your club pro - they’ll usually reach out and get a time.

Another alternative is Thousand Greens App ( LINK)

Haven’t tried it yet but reviews seem decent.
This post was edited on 5/14/25 at 7:17 am
Posted by Tigerbiscuits
Mid-City
Member since Nov 2011
1108 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 7:36 am to
Yea I thought it was odd that my pro always asked me to make initial contact. This confirms it. Guess he's either lazy or is politely letting me know the course I'm requesting is out of our league. Is there a way to know if certain courses are out of the question or is it always worth a try? I'll try the TG app. Thanks!
Posted by IH8ThreePutts
Member since Mar 2018
1797 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 9:12 am to
My club pro couldn’t get me on the Gary Player Course in The Woodlands
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
39941 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 9:20 am to
quote:

Guess he's either lazy or is politely letting me know the course I'm requesting is out of our league. Is there a way to know if certain courses are out of the question or is it always worth a try?


cousin was a pro at in tourist town. He had pretty good pull cause he had a lot more incoming calls than requests from members

my dad and I abused his generosity

Posted by hiltacular
NYC
Member since Jan 2011
20137 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 11:00 am to
Depends on the standing of your course and specifically the pro more than anything. And beyond that your relationship with the pro. Do they know you, do they trust you, do they think positively of you.

I would never expect to play anywhere for free.
Posted by ManyTiger
Member since Jun 2020
872 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 11:15 am to
quote:

Druid Hills in Georgia

I can tell you that they do allow for reciprocal access. I called the pro shop, they said have your pro call. I gave my pro all of the information (date, time range). Pros took care of everything. I paid a green fee (I assume it was their guest fee). I was paired with 3 members and had an absolute blast.
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
58589 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 11:50 am to
the club pro reaches out to the other club for availability.
Posted by TheChosenOne
Member since Dec 2005
18851 posts
Posted on 5/14/25 at 8:17 pm to
It has to be pro to pro if you want to play better courses. Either become good friends with your club pro or buy a bunch of lessons and merchandise off of him so he’ll do you some favors. As others mentioned, it helps to be at a more prominent club and have a pro that is well connected.

I have played several super private clubs on reciprocals thanks to a friend in Philly that is a member at Merion. When visiting, we typically have to play during the week and sometimes with one of the pros. Payment can vary, but several times we did Venmo or cash to the pro and he probably pocketed all of it.
This post was edited on 5/14/25 at 9:33 pm
Posted by 45RCRoy45
Northern VA
Member since Apr 2020
694 posts
Posted on 5/15/25 at 8:55 am to
Did thousand greens with my younger daughter in 2021 in Oklahoma City - and it was such a good match the member and I are still friends and I hosted him on a trip to DC and I just saw him as my other daughter was at the usga 4 ball in OKC… it’s a good match as they pair you with like clubs across the country…
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