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ladies or successful men of the ot, how accurate is this advice

Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:26 pm
Posted by Lincoln Dawson
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Feb 2019
810 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:26 pm
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A Few Things I've Learned About Women


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1) You must have something going for you.


i think this is common sense. but common sense today isn't so common.


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2) You must like yourself.


agree, if you don't like you, how can you expect someone else to like you?


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3) At the same time that you are happy with being alone, to a small degree you should like the company of others.


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4) The less emotions you show, the better.



on the fence about this one. early on in a relationship, yes. later on in a relationship, one shoule be able to show their vulnerability. that is what trust and intimacy are all about.

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5) You should not pursue women.


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6) Again, you should not pursue women.


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7) You should consider every woman you see as a potential, and take them all on casual dates.


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8) Experience is the best teacher.


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9) Most men in today's world, are chumps.


judging by what i see on today's media, i agree.

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10) Insecure men date beautiful women mainly to impress their friends.


if you can date up, date up. no issue with this.

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11) The best girl for you is one who could be called 'cute' with a decent body and generally happy personality -- and be open to her arriving in your life.


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12) Occasionally you'll see geeky high school photos of people like Paris Hilton, or Tara Reid, and this should be an education to you. The most beautiful woman today could look like a toad tomorrow, and vice-versa.


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13) If a girl ever "disses" you, call her on it immediately.


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14) At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back. She must believe that you care for the relationship less than her.


again early on, yes, i agree. if heavily involved, i think this is more of a game or manipulation. and manipulating someone long term is a bad idea.

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15) Going back to previous jobs or girlfriends is a losing proposition.


maybe. maybe not.

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16) The girl of your dreams may not be the girl you dreamed of. "Love at first sight" is dangerous.


don't believe in love at first sight. i believe in lust or a strong attraction but love at first sight is for the movies and books.

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17) The girl of your dreams will pursue you and there will be no mistake about it, even if you at first seemed uninterested.


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18) The right girl for you will soon prove easy to talk to.



and she too may turn out like my ex-wife.

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19) If all of this seems too much for you to remember, you're not there yet but take comfort in the fact that you are on the right track, you're visiting the right site, reading the correct material and are simply in the process. It is a process.


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Posted by CharlesLSU
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:27 pm to
You’re lost
Posted by WestCoastAg
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:29 pm to
you subscribe to MGTOW?
Posted by JustLivinTheDream
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Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:29 pm to
She is not yours, it is just your turn.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:29 pm to
This thread has serious potential
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:30 pm to
All those words = PIIHB
Posted by jimbeam
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:33 pm to
If only golden nugget were around
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Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
114212 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:38 pm to
Strongly disagree with 4 and 17. I used to think 17 was true, found the person I was going to end up with... and it didn’t work out. If you are truly convinced of 17 and then you’re wrong when you think it’s happened, it will send you into a death spiral where you question your entire existence. It was finally letting go of 17 that returned me to anything resembling sanity.

Other than those two, agree.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:39 pm to
so suave
Posted by TheWalrus
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42109 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:51 pm to
Welp I’ll be single for eternity
Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
17925 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:58 pm to
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The less emotions you show, the bette


Mystery is the great hamster brain fuel. It’ll make them curious and a curious woman is an engaged woman.

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5) You should not pursue women.


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6) Again, you should not pursue women.



This is false though. If you are a desirable man, you should only pursue women in the way that hunters/fishermen pursue game: For sport, not necessary sustenance.

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9) Most men in today's world, are chumps.



80/20 rule.

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Insecure men date beautiful women mainly to impress their friends.



Insecure people do a lot of things to win the improval/praise of others. Being surrounded by beautiful women is a lagging indicator of a successful/desirable man, not a leading one.

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The best girl for you is one who could be called 'cute' with a decent body and generally happy personality -- and be open to her arriving in your life.



Lol

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12) Occasionally you'll see geeky high school photos of people like Paris Hilton, or Tara Reid, and this should be an education to you. The most beautiful woman today could look like a toad tomorrow, and vice-versa.



Ehhh. The best asset that the majority of younger women have is their beauty and that is an asset with an expiration date. You don’t truly know what a woman looks like until you take a long hot shower with her. And you won’t know her long term viability until you learn her habits and how she deals with adversity.

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13) If a girl ever "disses" you, call her on it immediately.


Ehhh depending upon the insult, you either outwit her and turn it back or you ignore it like she never said it and move on with the conversation.

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14) At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back. She must believe that you care for the relationship less than her.


Absolutely fricking correct.

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15) Going back to previous jobs or girlfriends is a losing proposition.



Ehh. Depends on the situation with the girlfriend part (and who pursues who). The job part I agree. If you leave a company, go to another one, don’t come back to the first company in the same role you left. Move up or to another, more rewarding role.

Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
17925 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 4:59 pm to
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Strongly disagree with 4


Of course you do lol, you’re probably the most emotional male on this site. At least PJ has the Budweiser excuse.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
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Member since May 2011
15163 posts
Posted on 2/21/21 at 7:06 pm to
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13) If a girl ever "disses" you



Then either you or she is being an a-hole. If it's you, check yourself, if it's her, don't

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call her on it


just laugh it off and don't call her back.


Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 7:10 pm to
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RedPop4


Posted by kywildcatfanone
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 7:11 pm to
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ladies or successful men


ladies can't be successful?
Posted by arcalades
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 7:17 pm to
looks like a lot of posts on match.com
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 7:19 pm to
people should pursue people they like. period.
Posted by The Implication
south philly
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Posted on 2/21/21 at 8:09 pm to
The Dennis system is best executed on a boat
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