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NY Times ... ‘happiest of all’ American wives are ‘religious conservatives.’

Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:28 pm
Posted by Crimson Wraith
Member since Jan 2014
25132 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:28 pm
Social media loses its mind.

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The New York Times caused an avalanche of social media anger on Sunday after publishing a report finding that the happiest of all American wives consider themselves religious conservatives.

A New York Times Opinion tweet said, "It turns out that the happiest of all wives in America are religious conservatives, followed by their religious progressive counterparts."

The report, titled, "The Ties That Bind: Is Faith a Global Force for Good or Ill in the Family?" from the Institute for Family Studies and the Wheatley Institution, found that women who report above-average satisfaction with their marriages are religious conservative women.

A portion of the op-ed, which was co-authored by three researchers, stated, "Fully 73 percent of wives who hold conservative gender values and attend religious services regularly with their husbands have high-quality marriages."
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
135222 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:30 pm to
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he New York Times caused an avalanche of social media anger

Well, that just solidifies the point
Posted by MeatCleaverWeaver
Member since Oct 2013
22175 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:31 pm to
The Kingdom of God is a matter of righteousness, peace & joy that can only be provided by the Father.
Posted by PEPE
Member since Jun 2018
8198 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:32 pm to
There is a direct cause and effect relationship with death of religion in developed countries the rise of mental illness and depression.

Religion gives people a sense of community, belonging, and hope.

Atheism is fundamentally nihilistic. People with no purpose, no meaning, and no hope tend to fall into despair.
Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:37 pm to
Because they don’t do anal. Or lesbian. Or gang-bangs. Or all the fun stuff. They take the money, spend it. Give a half-arse birthday blowjob and that’s it.

frick that. Take your happy wife.

I’m fricking unhappy girlfriends everyday of the fricking week!
Posted by HailHailtoMichigan!
Mission Viejo, CA
Member since Mar 2012
69494 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:37 pm to
There is a HUGE correlation between religious observation and reported levels of happiness

The reason is simple: an atheist, by the very definition of the word, does not see himself as having a higher purpose or greater standing than a biological, irrelevant animal.

There is a reason atheist high schoolers are far more likely to be outcasts who suffer from mental issues and anxiety.

Think back to your own high school. Think of the emo atheists who had their own group, had pale skin, were completely unable to function as socially productive young adults. They devoted their lives to magic the gathering and DD, and had constant Dorito residue on their fingertips.

These were not healthy people.
Posted by Usafgiles
North Augusta, SC
Member since Oct 2009
1904 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:39 pm to
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report above-average satisfaction


sounds like settling for mediocrity to me.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19595 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:43 pm to
Tradition was tradition for a reason. It worked. It reflected what we wanted. And what what we needed.
Posted by bmy
Nashville
Member since Oct 2007
48203 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:45 pm to
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"Fully 73 percent of wives who hold conservative gender values and attend religious services regularly with their husbands have high-quality marriages."


Kind of a goofy stat given that they are far more likely to be married in general :lol;
Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
15106 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:51 pm to
LOL, no doubt. You can just observe how perpetually angry liberal women are and know this. Obviously liberal men just don't know how to find the spot. If ya know what I mean
Posted by NC_Tigah
Carolinas
Member since Sep 2003
124713 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 3:53 pm to
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NY Times ... ‘happiest of all’ American wives
Mrs. Buttigieg included?
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
Member since Dec 2013
73532 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:00 pm to
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It turns out that the happiest of all wives in America are religious conservatives, followed by their religious progressive counterparts.




Sure.
Posted by FooManChoo
Member since Dec 2012
41871 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:09 pm to
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Fully 73 percent of wives who hold conservative gender values and attend religious services regularly with their husbands have high-quality marriages."
"With their husbands" is a key piece, I think. Christians are supposed to be "equally yoked" together with their spouse, meaning that they both share the same faith and overall worldview. When you and your spouse are aligned, there will be less friction in the relationship and any friction that exists can usually be reconciled because you're on the same page and working towards the same goal. That's how God intended marriage to be.
This post was edited on 5/21/19 at 4:10 pm
Posted by AUstar
Member since Dec 2012
17118 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:12 pm to
I just wanted to step in and thank Half tack for the glorious melt. I laughed out loud enough for neighbors to look out the window.
Posted by BlackHelicopterPilot
Top secret lab
Member since Feb 2004
52833 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:12 pm to
Why on earth do people get upset with the findings from a report.

I can understand skepticism. I understand saying "hmmm..I'd like to see the methodology."


But, FFS. Why not say "Interesting. I'm glad they are happy"? I am for maximum happiness. I can't start "believing" because I find out believers are happy. I can't begrudge them THEIR happiness, either.


We are a petty species.

Posted by HeadLightBanDit
Hernando, MS
Member since Oct 2012
1414 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 4:25 pm to
Happy???

Their lives sound boring as frick to me. Maybe weekly Sunday school and a monthly church dinner to look forward to with the occasional romantic Denny's date night sprinkled in here and there.

I guess having a tool husband who is out of her hair for a cumulative 5 - 6 months out of the year for whatever "season" it happens to be would a bonus maybe.

Perhaps happy or happiest is all relative.

My wife and I haven't attended church in decades. We love our son and our extended family and we're going on 20 years of a happy swinging lifestyle together.

We get up and go to work and pay our bills just like every one else and then we have fun together every weekend.

Religious conservatives wouldn't know fun if it bit them in the arse.
This post was edited on 5/21/19 at 4:29 pm
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 5:00 pm to
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"It turns out that the happiest of all wives in America are religious conservatives,


I believe this because some of the most calmest, kind hearted and peaceful people I know are regular church goers that my parents are friends with and some people I knew in college. Strikes me as Mike Pence types that you just can't find it in you to hate completely.

However, I know a few swinging couples that are also happily married to each other and have different girlfriends and boyfriends. But the thing is that a few of them are also occasional church goers and still practice christianity and fidelity to God and Jesus christ himself. Like 4-6 sundays every 4-5 months.

Just confounds the brain.
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
12143 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 6:07 pm to
No Christian is surprised by that fact. Unlike how Christianity is "Preached", a Christian life is rewarding and so is after life.
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 6:16 pm to
From the devout folks I've known in the Church and my conservative Catholic, Mormon, and even Jewish and Muslim associates and colleagues, I buy it. I don't buy everything they believe in, but it seems to furnish them with a sense of security and a framework for their lives that leaves them content.

Posted by Tigers0891
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2017
6668 posts
Posted on 5/21/19 at 6:44 pm to
Not a shocker
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