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re: Do You Teach Your Kids to Say "Ma'am" or "Sir" As a Sign of Respect?

Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:27 pm to
Posted by Lynyrd
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:27 pm to
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shite, I use sir and ma'am on children.


Same
Posted by Charlie Arglist
Wichita, Kansas
Member since Nov 2012
5550 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:27 pm to
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Do You Teach Your Kids to Say "Ma'am" or "Sir" As a Sign of Respect?


Absolutely....or they get whipped with a chain.

Of course, after the first time....all you have to do is rattle the chain.
Posted by Rockbrc
Attic
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:27 pm to
Yes
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:29 pm to
Depends on the situation. I'd say 90% of the time no.
Posted by junkfunky
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:30 pm to
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shite, I use sir and ma'am on children.


Same, every time I hear a thank you, please, or Sir.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117764 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:32 pm to
frick no. They aren’t in the goddamn Marines.


Jesus, you people are pretty frickin stupid. Da Hell kind of bullshite thread is this?
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:32 pm to

Yes. And "thanK you" and "you're welcome" too.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:34 pm to
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frick no. They aren’t in the goddamn Marines.


Jesus, you people are pretty frickin stupid. Da Hell kind of bullshite thread is this?


Calm down, ma'am.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:36 pm to
I do teach them by both example and instruction.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:44 pm to
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Yes. And "thanK you" and "you're welcome" too.

this was important growing up

saying sir or m'am wasn't even thought about

eta: the upvotes mean people are confused. "wasn't even thought about" = never said by anyone. it would have been weird to use sir and ma'am.
This post was edited on 5/2/19 at 10:52 pm
Posted by alajones
Huntsvegas
Member since Oct 2005
34531 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:48 pm to
Yes.

Funny story... my daughter is in grad school in Philadelphia at Villanova. She said that her professors kept getting irritated when said “sir” and “ma’am” to them.

She finally just said “ Look, that’s just the way I was raised”
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35575 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:48 pm to
No. Nothing against it. Just not the cultural norm here.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19537 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:49 pm to
It’s so ingrained, I can’t not do it. Even when I’m traveling in an area where people find it annoying.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55533 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:54 pm to
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it would have been weird to use sir and ma'am


How progressive of your folks.
Posted by PawnMaster
Down Yonder
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:54 pm to
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I have 17 year old employees calling me by my first name. I don't tell them anything but I think it's disrespectful. As a business owner nearing 60, I would NEVER do that stupidity when I was a worker at any age. I think this generation has diff standards.


I’m 25 and sometimes I feel weird calling older coworkers “Mr.”. I always do it bc as soon as don’t my dad would pop out of nowhere and slap the hair from my head but makes me feel kinda like a child. I don’t feel that way saying “yes sir” but for some reason “Mr.” throws me off.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:57 pm to
The entire region
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
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55533 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 11:00 pm to
Are you some kind of carpetbagger?
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
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55972 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 11:03 pm to
Not exactly, but yes
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:34 am to
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I still say "ma'am" and "sir"


I apply m’am and sir to everyone- elders, family, friends, at work; there is no situation where sir or m’am is unpleasant or not applicable.

My parents weren’t extremely strict, but my brother and I were punished if we failed to respond respectfully.

What some call “Southern manners” is simply proper etiquette, and I’m grateful our parents prioritized this behavior. My brother and I both serve the general public as employment and enjoy it because we were raised to apply respect, empathy and manners. This was whipped into us and directly contributed to our success as adults.

My husband was raised the same way. Our son addresses us and his elders as sir or m’am. When I holler his name, he hollers back, “M’AM?” Not “Wut?”


Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47559 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:37 am to
Yes indeed. I cringe when I don’t hear it.

Common in the South, but not in the North.
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