re: Question about relationships, economic advantage of one party, and chores

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I find anytime you focus on “fairness” in a relationship it’s already failing. Nothing will ever be “fair”, and focusing on fairness always just leads to anger/bitterness

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This. It’s a relationship, you should want to do whatever you can to help the other person, make their day better, make life happy, etc. Divying up chores and worrying about who brings in what income is an economic partnership and not a relationship.