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What age to let daughters get her ears pierced?

Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:04 pm
Posted by Triple Bogey
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:04 pm
My wife and I have been going back and forth on this for awhile now. My wife wants to get our 1 year old daughters ears pierced and I’m really against it. I want to let my daughter decide if she wants to or not one day, when she’s older. Just seems wrong to me to choose something like that for her at this age. Is this a hill worth dying on or no?
Posted by jimbeam
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:04 pm to
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Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:05 pm to
I felt the same. I wanted her to ask. Mine just got hers pierced about a month ago at 10.
Posted by HighRoller
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:05 pm to
When they’re old enough to take care of them themselves.
Posted by mgdtiger
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:06 pm to
We let our daughter decide. She did it when she was 5. Got infected and doesn’t have them anymore.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:06 pm to
When she’s old enough to make decisions on her own
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 8:08 pm
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:06 pm to
13 is what I set for mine

Infants and toddlers with pierced ears is trashy
Posted by jennBN
Member since Jun 2010
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:07 pm to
Personally, i believe it should be their choice. We also think it is a great thing to teach personal responsibility.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:07 pm to
Your wife should have last word on all decisions about your daughter. Unless you want to bring her to OBGYN when she's ready to have sex.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:09 pm to
I got mine when I was like 5-6. One ear got infected and swelled up and closed around the earring. Had to go to a doctor to have earring removed. Both earrings taken out and piercings closed up.


Got them pierced again when I was like 11-12 and could properly take care of them. I can remember being really excited about getting them pierced the second time.


Posted by I B Freeman
Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:09 pm to
I personally do not like to see babies with ears pierced. Trashy to me.

14-16 years old minimum.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:09 pm to
quote:

My wife wants to get our 1 year old daughters ears pierced and I’m really against it.

Piercing babies' ears is so incredibly dumb. This word gets thrown around on the Ot a lot but it's trashy AF.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
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Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:10 pm to
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Is this a hill worth dying on or no?


No. It's not like they can't be taken out in about 15 seconds.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:10 pm to
Old enough to decide, that way taking her can be a special thing. 4 or 5 maybe.
Posted by oleyeller
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:10 pm to
ears, year. Belly button, 12, nipples 16. anything else.. after 18
Posted by Captain Crackysack
Member since Oct 2017
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:10 pm to
Just get it over with now. Are you gonna wait until your son is of age to let him decide if he wants to chop the hood of his dick off? Of course not.
Posted by TheHarahanian
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:10 pm to

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Posted by Traveler
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Member since Sep 2003
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Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:14 pm to
I think they were around 16. It was their decision when they wanted to do it. I think 1 year old is a bit too young though.

Eta: Wife says they were 13, not 16. Heck, what do I know?
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 9:17 pm
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
64638 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:17 pm to
I will let my daughter decide when she's old enough if she wants to poke holes in her ears that will grow in if she changes her mind.

I also had my sons circumcised before we left the hospital.
Posted by Fa Sheaux Breaux
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2018
530 posts
Posted on 3/6/18 at 8:18 pm to
Most pierce their daughters ears fairly young. I know my sister did it to my 2 nieces at a fairly young age, although I don't think it was at 1. I think it was closer to 5 or 6 or so. I may be wrong on the age, but I know it was fairly young.

That said, if your wife wants to do it at that age, I say let her. There are bigger battles you'll need to stand your ground for, I'm not sure ear piercing at a young age is one if those. Plus, it's her "little angel girl", and she'll be able to dress her up and put earrings on her, which will make your wife happy because women enjoy doing things like that.

I say just let her do it. Your battles will be fought when your daughter becomes a teenager and starts to become interested in boys. Good luck.
This post was edited on 3/6/18 at 8:23 pm
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