he told my sister and me that he would talk with my mom about this. I was going to wait to see what that meant. Confess and work things out? Confess and ask for a divorce?

my mom is very fragile emotionally... when you say, "blow it up" what could I do?

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Posted by tiger91

In my own little world

Member since Nov 2005

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Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:43 am to ladyluckUGA

Did he or you tell your sister?? Dear Lord I'm so sorry. How old are you?

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Posted by baldona

Florida

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Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:46 am to ladyluckUGA

Any idea what caused the cheating? Recently retired? Dementia? Any changes in life? I'd agree this likely either isn't the first time or something likely set it off which could be dementia or another mental disorder from aging? I'd discuss that with your dad. If it's not his first, that's a different story and your mom may be about to go through hell.

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Posted by OweO

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Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:51 am to ladyluckUGA

I am sure you want to tell your mother, but I think the best thing is for y'all to meet and he tell her and make sure he doesn't it sooner than later. As in, tell your dad if he doesn't do it in a few days you will tell her.

With that said, while I am sure you are angry at your father, depending on the relationship he has with your child, I wouldn't punish your child by not letting him be around his grandfather.

But, as for as your child, what do you do in this situation? Do you tell him the truth? Don't tell him at all? What?

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