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re: Divorce can bring out the worst in people and get pretty nasty

Posted on 9/22/17 at 10:19 pm to
Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 10:19 pm to
I finally will have my day in court in November after serving my ex with contempt. I had her served last December. Yet if I miss a child support payment I guarantee my arse will be in front of judge with a quickness.

I don't want to say much until our case is heard but her attorney used every trick in the book to keep delaying it thinking I'll give up. Even better is she continued to shoot herself in the foot. My case against her is even stronger now than it was almost a year ago.

You're right about how it changes people. It's going on almost two years and my ex acts like I'm the most evil person to walk the planet. All because I did not want to buy her a Tahoe and move to New Orleans. The latter especially because the time we did live in New Orleans, we spent every waking moment with her a-hole parents. It's cute when you're in your twenties sweetheart but you're a few years removed from 40, time to grow up dear.
Posted by Errerrerrwere
Member since Aug 2015
38993 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 11:14 pm to
If any child is domiciled in Jefferson Parish call Guy Deluape.

If any child is domiciled in Orleans Parish call Jeff Hoffman.

Thank me later. Women don't stand a chance against these guys. Unless they get to them first.

But if she hires Jeff, call Guy! and vice versa. They will fight you for a toaster...
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
67285 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 11:20 pm to
quote:

rebeloke
quote:

A good friend of mine
Makes horrible marriage choice.

Surprised [NOT Surprised]
Posted by jim712
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2006
1518 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 11:33 pm to
You know how I know no women are commenting here?
Posted by LSUFreek
Greater New Orleans
Member since Jan 2007
14966 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 8:03 am to
I know a single mother who married an older man 20 years her senior. He owned his own roofing business and was a big strapping all-around handi-man.

So she found her provider & protector for her & her son, and admits she selfishly married him for that, not out of love.

Her son died tragically in his 20's, and the man had her son buried in one of his plots. For a time, the couple grew closer.

Flash forward 30 years, he's in his 80's; she's in her 60's. After years of indifference and a loveless foundation, they hate each other, and fight over every single thing daily.

It gets so bad during the divorce, he tells her he wants her son out of his plot. He said if she didn't get the son out, he'd dig him out himself, and feed stray dogs with the bones!
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41830 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 8:33 am to
way too many threads these days with similar stories all over the internet

reading through this makes sick.

im not anti-relationship, but ill never be going down the marriage path
This post was edited on 9/23/17 at 8:34 am
Posted by KyleOrtonsMustache
Krystal Baller
Member since Jan 2008
5007 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 8:45 am to
My buddy just served his wife this week. She's been cheating on him for a while and he's caught her before. She claims that the Jody is raping her and she has some form of Stockholm syndrome or some shite.
For the last year he's been collecting evidence. He's got her on tape saying she's being raped by this dude, that my buddy has always been a good guy and has never harmed her. He's got pictures of them fricking.
One night this week he caught her sucking the dudes dick. Served her the next day. Wants full custody of their 2 kids and is demanding child support. Swore out a restraining order against her so she can't see her kids.
He's going scorched earth on her arse and I hope it goes well for him. He's got one of the best lawyers around and she lawyered up with a fricking moron.

Too bad he didn't listen when they were dating and we all said she was crazy, but some dudes can't think straight when they're getting pussy.
Posted by Decisions
Member since Mar 2015
1514 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 9:11 am to
All of the horror stories I've read about this stuff are awful. I'm looking for the one, but it's things like this as to why I've not pulled the trigger yet.

If I didn't desire legitimate heirs I'd just stick to smashing strange and living alone for the rest of my life.
Posted by lake chuck fan
westlake
Member since Aug 2011
12170 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 9:45 am to
5 years ago went thru divorce ... after 25 yrs of marriage. I fought the system and ex, eventually won full custody of my then 13 yr old son. My daughter was 20. it was the worst experience of my life. pure hell. but I don't regret doing it. sometimes, things and people change (or don't)

every man has look in the mirror each day & be satisfied w/himself. Im fine.
Posted by Jackalope
Paris. (Austin Native)
Member since Apr 2009
2252 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 3:14 pm to
The system is unfair to the Men. Not the accused. They system is biased, and in women's favor.
Posted by lsuroadie
South LA
Member since Oct 2007
8419 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 4:11 pm to
I've been married almost 20 yrs...if it ever went to shite, which it won't, I would never deprive her of our kids, nor would she.

we're just not that type of people
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48778 posts
Posted on 9/23/17 at 4:15 pm to
Relative of mine said in court, after the judge granted half + the house to her, "well,..since I've been away from her I've gotten 3" of my dick back so I guess it all evens out".
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11010 posts
Posted on 9/24/17 at 8:16 am to
Damn, hate to hear that releboke
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8402 posts
Posted on 9/24/17 at 11:22 am to
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If anyone in here has ever been screwed over in a divorce

My ex leveled a bunch a baseless accusations to muddy the waters and hide her own misbehavior. Dragged my parents and friends into it. Custody battle lasted over 2 years, cost me north of $60k, and a ton of heartache. But I ended up with custody of the kids and kept all community property without paying her a dime. I hate that fricking bitch with every fiber of my being for what she put my parents, friends, and most especially the children thru.
Posted by down time
space
Member since Oct 2013
1914 posts
Posted on 9/24/17 at 6:03 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/25/17 at 9:04 am
Posted by Jackalope
Paris. (Austin Native)
Member since Apr 2009
2252 posts
Posted on 9/24/17 at 8:52 pm to
Also let's not forget the most criminal device of all: alimony. An antiquated and evil tool. It is 100% unnecessary in our women's liberation era. They want equality? Get rid of alimony.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17948 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 11:38 am to
quote:

Divorce can bring out the worst in people and get pretty nasty


Yep. Caught mine cheating. Got the house, car, dog, primary physical custody of the kids, and part of her military retirement.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
23440 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 11:39 am to
Its a shame, but marriage really is a losing proposition for men, especially when things go south.

Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67708 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 11:45 am to
quote:

Divorce can bring out the worst in people and get pretty nasty

You could have just said "bitches be crazy"
Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9847 posts
Posted on 9/25/17 at 11:59 am to
Any smart OT BAW would gender change before the divorce.
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