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re: Dealbreakers on women

Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:41 pm to
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:41 pm to
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G-nug will say there were red flags, but I'm told that's not the case. That's not even being a bitch or daddy issues. It's straight chemical imbalance you can't account for.



AWALT
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53419 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:41 pm to
Hopefully he means women that go out to drink. And there's nothing wrong with that. My wife and I do not drink but we don't judge people who do. If he prefers someone who doesn't drink that's his preference.
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19351 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:41 pm to
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Most everyone I went to high school with is a parent. I'm 26.


Yep. I graduated in 2007 and about 80% of people I graduated with are married and have children (some already have four kids). I guess I missed the memo.
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:47 pm to
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Hopefully he means women that go out to drink. And there's nothing wrong with that. My wife and I do not drink but we don't judge people who do. If he prefers someone who doesn't drink that's his preference.



They are being obtuse just to try and get me in a "gotcha" moment

They know what I am talking about they just pretend not to

A social drinker is one who regularly goes out to drink and get drunk as you pointed out

If a woman is having a glass of wine or two or occassionally has some kind of cocktail and doesn't get drunk thats one thing. But the ones who go out regularly to bar hop and bar crawl and get shitfaced drunk all the time? No thanks.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114210 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 12:48 pm to
- Smoking. I don't care if my all time movie star crush Heather Graham was butt naked telling me to come to her.. If she is smoking, I am out.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9715 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 1:38 pm to
I'm dating a chick that currently has no concept of punctuality. I mean she can be anywhere from 1-5 hours late for stuff. I am always on time. It's driving me insane. Or she changes plans last minute all the time. May be a deal breaker
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
16677 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 1:45 pm to
Definitely a deal breaker for me. I'm all about punctuality. Other turn offs are

Smoking
Cursing alot when talking
Thigh tattoos
Not having a career. Have no use for a girl who's biggest career achievement was working at a tanning salon part time

Also, if she can tell me the time and channel that Keeping up with the Kardashians comes on, she's out
This post was edited on 3/31/17 at 1:48 pm
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 1:49 pm to
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I would say already having children, but at 27 I've already resigned myself to the fact that I will end up being a step-dad. So many girls in mid-early twenties have children (especially in BR)


The number of available women at 30 and up markedly shrinks if you eliminate women with kids.

That's what I struggle with. I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with the woman but I know how much hell my siblings and I gave to my stepfather. I guess the kid would have to be really young, like 5 or under so they're not automatically resenting you from the get go.
This post was edited on 3/31/17 at 1:51 pm
Posted by goldennugget
Hating Masks
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 3/31/17 at 1:52 pm to
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The number of available women at 30 and up markedly shrinks if you eliminate women with kids.

That's what I struggle with. I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with the woman but I know how much hell my siblings and I gave to my stepfather. I guess the kid would have to be really young, like 5 or under.


Go after women 25 and younger. Doesn't matter how old you are.

A woman who is 26 or older and is unmarried generally will be more and more emotionally unstable and desperate as she thinks something is wrong with her because she is not married yet. Too much baggage, avoid.

I would never marry a woman 30 or older. Already hit the wall and is past it. Why commit to a woman for life who has already hit her prime and you didn't get to spend any of her prime years with her. That would be like buying a 5 year old rental car that had been driven by dozens of people at full price and you are stuck with that car for the rest of your life. No thanks.
Posted by chillygentilly
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Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 3/31/17 at 2:35 pm to
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A social drinker is one who regularly goes out to drink and get drunk as you pointed out


A social drinker is someone who drinks occasionally, and in moderation. People that go out and get plastered regularly are alcoholics.

Everyone's ragging you because you have no idea what a social drinker is.
Posted by Azranod
The Land of crooked letters and I's
Member since Oct 2013
1154 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 2:36 pm to
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A man with options wouldnt have to roll the dice to find out


A multi-millionaire divorced single mom(who got tired of being cheated on)seems like a pretty good option to me.
Posted by sweetwaterbilly
Member since Mar 2017
19351 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:19 pm to
Exactly. I don't have anything against kids, I just have heard horror stories about step-parenting if/when the other parent is still in the picture. Fortunately my stepdad was given free reign to discipline me, etc. But I know it's not like that in all cases.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:29 pm to
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Smoking


Smoking means she trashy

Trashy is a plus in my book

Drinking and daddy issues are even better.

I can live without the tats and piercings, but again tells me they're trashy

Don't really care for girls that like and wanna do anal

Bad teeth, bad hygiene, bad hair, potty mouth, know it alls,! liberal, loudmouth think they're one of the guys are all turn offs for me.

This post was edited on 3/31/17 at 6:30 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:30 pm to
You're leaving out an entire category of girls (and the best one IMHO). These are the ones who went and lived somewhere after getting their bachelor's, or got a degree, worked, and are back getting another one. Basically, delayed adulthood without them acting like a child.

Those girls are normally chill, come from the same tax bracket, look good because of that tax bracket, have their own place, no crazy ex or baby daddy issues, etc.

24-30 is the sweet spot


I think your problem is that you are too insecure to handle anyone worth a damn. Your insecurity also shows when you say you wouldn't date a chick who has been with a lot of guys.
This post was edited on 3/31/17 at 6:33 pm
Posted by HoustonTyger
Member since Jun 2015
18 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:41 pm to
What kind of job do you have that you think you're in the top 10% of men? Education level?
Posted by BayouBengals03
lsu14always
Member since Nov 2007
99999 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:44 pm to
quote:

Lift and stay in shape. Get into the top 10% of men and you won't have to settle. Give yourself standards. By the time you are in your mid 30s and you are in the Top 10% of men and take care of yourself you will have your pick of women 25 or younger.

This is GOAT advice
Posted by HoustonTyger
Member since Jun 2015
18 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:48 pm to
He can't handle a woman of that caliber, and she certainly wouldn't lower herself to be with him. He wants an insecure mouse girl from a sheltered background that he can manipulate into having weekly scheduled vanilla sex with
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 6:56 pm to
BREAKING it up into two catagbories

wouldn't hit dealbreakers

-ugly feet
-multiple kids
-lets me in too fast.. there is a certain way a hook up --should work i should not be putting it in the butt within 2 hours of meeting you
-no job...becasue when we are done she's going to hit me up for money
-asks me to do something for her within hours of meeting her
-is married.. i'm a god fearing dude and i don't mess around like that, anymore at least
-thin skinned, can't take a joke
- doesn't take personal hygine seriously.


won't date

- doesn't go to church
- has ugly or not amazing looking feet
- is a prude
- in general, does not add value to my life
- hates animals, i love pets and have plenty
- doesn't have unique hobbies or / and says what you think she wants to hear.
- is on the marrige time table
- has kids.. sorry i was raised by a single mother but as someone who doesn't have a child (yet i'm about to) i want the first child i raise to be my own
- no job
- likes drama too much
- isn't funny or can't make me laugh
- has no sense of style.. i'm a classic metrosexual and i love to dress / can dress my arse off i take style seriously
- at the very least, will go to the horse track with me
- texas longhorn fan
- won't date a woman who was not raised in a strong nuclear family
- can't cook
Posted by Sody Cracker
Distemper Ward
Member since May 2016
3409 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 7:03 pm to
Farting
Coughing
Excessive throat clearing
Jewish
Muslim
Murder conviction
Always losing something
Scared of horses
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 3/31/17 at 7:08 pm to
quote:

What kind of job do you have that you think you're in the top 10% of men? Education level?
you get to the top by eveyrone else disqualfying themselves

by the time you are 35 most men are out of shape, married, in jail, have a record and can't get a job, on dope, whatever. keep your shite together, stay in shape, stay out of jail, stay off dope too bad lol, have a decent arse job with good credit and you have your pick of the litter. my fiancee would not give me the time of fricking day 10 years ago
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