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re: Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:14 am to goldennugget
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:14 am to goldennugget
Pictures?
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:14 am to 50_Tiger
To me, that says "I want to be in a relationship", not "I want to be in a relationship with you". Our target market is just different
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:15 am to USMCTiger03
Nah, you can't have that home toilet waiting in the wings for emergencies. Gotta go cold turkey and let loose under the same roof before the marriage has a good chance at success.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:35 am to goldennugget
man this is one of the saddest posts I've ever read. Sorry this happened to you. Sounds like a really shitty relationship.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:36 am to goldennugget
You and your worldview are dumb.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:49 am to goldennugget
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Is there anything dumber than living with a woman you arent married to
yes, knocking up a woman you arent married to
Posted on 1/16/17 at 10:55 am to goldennugget
I would think considering the terms leverage and power when discussing your relationships says more about you than any woman, or man, you will ever be with.
If you don't want to live someone then don't.
If you don't want to live someone then don't.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:02 am to goldennugget
I want a (pretty) girl roommate so she can do the dishes and I can bang her friends. Does anyone have any experience with this?
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:04 am to goldennugget
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you have no options,
I'm pretty sure you still have options when you live someone else, when you live apart and when you're married. The commitment part comes in when choosing whether or not to exercise those options and risk what you currently have. If you don't want to be in a committed relationship, then don't be in one. Be single and always ready to mingle. Chicks dig guys like that.
This post was edited on 1/16/17 at 11:05 am
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:05 am to NoHoTiger
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I would think considering the terms leverage and power when discussing your relationships says more about you than any woman, or man, you will ever be with
Understatement
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:06 am to GreatLakesTiger24
I'm an ugly chick but I have hot friends. Does that work for you?
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:13 am to goldennugget
What the frick? I lived with a woman i was't married to and she was the best roommate possible. The house was always clean, she cooked for us, and even hooked me with several of her friends
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:17 am to goldennugget
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The number one way to have leverage over a woman is for her to fear and dread that you have other options than her, which you lose.
I can't tell who is crazier, you or the woman that fricked all of your friends.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:17 am to Sevendust912
I have never dated a girl who didn't hoard empty conditioner bottles or leave black rubber band things all over the house
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:26 am to goldennugget
I don't really frequent the OT much, but just wanted to let you know that I've never down-voted every post in a thread by the OP before.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:46 am to LSU6262
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My wife moved in with me before we were married. I love her and want to spend every moment with her. Sorry you haven't found that
Divorce rate is about 60%.
People who live together prior to marrying have a divorce rate higher than 80%.
People who have no sex prior to marriage divorce rate is less than 5%.
Sex before marriage prevents couples from getting to know each other. Instead of discovering what is inside of each other often the couples (especially the male) are primarily thinking of how soon can we have sex instead of what are their thoughts on raising children. Many conversations are shallow because the mind is on sex.
Once ex enters the equation it makes it more difficult to get out of the relationship. Sex creates certain emotional bonds that are difficult to break and take a lot of time to heal once they are broken. When this healing does not take place, then these wounds enter the next relationship. This causes problems in the next relationship. When there was no sex in the relationship it is much easier to leave a relationship that is not workable.
Couples need to have deep conversations prior to marriage. Their minds need to be thinking of additional deep conversations. These lead to discovering the person sooner, thus living together is not necessary.
Years ago people did not "need" to live together prior to marriage. The divorce rate was far lower than 60%, 30%, 20%. It was around 5%. Why were those "uneducated" people so much smarter than we are today? They must have known something.
If you truly love someone you wait to have sex after marriage.
There is no room for selfishness in a marriage. Both people should evaluate their selfishness prior to marriage. This will lead them to NOT living together.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:48 am to djmicrobe
quote:link?
People who have no sex prior to marriage divorce rate is less than 5%.
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:52 am to djmicrobe
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People who live together prior to marrying have a divorce rate higher than 80%.
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Kuperberg found that individuals who committed to cohabitation or marriage at the age of 18 saw a 60 percent rate of divorce. Whereas individuals who waited until 23 to commit saw a divorce rate that hovered more around 30 percent. “For so long, the link between cohabitation and divorce was one of these great mysteries in research,” Kuperberg says. “What I found was that it was the age you settled down with someone, not whether you had a marriage license, that was the biggest indicator of a relationship's future success.”
It goes much deeper than some random stats thrown around...
Posted on 1/16/17 at 11:59 am to djmicrobe
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People who live together prior to marrying have a divorce rate higher than 80%.
People who have no sex prior to marriage divorce rate is less than 5%.
You're really going to try and pass off those 100% bullshite numbers and expect not to be called on it? Really?
This post was edited on 1/16/17 at 12:01 pm
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