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re: Baton Rouge 8 month old dies in hot car

Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:27 pm to
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63576 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:27 pm to
In most cases, at least one of the parents is certainly a victim.
Posted by Wermanium
Member since Apr 2016
756 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:27 pm to
quote:

This, my son is 5 months old now, and even when he's not in the car with me I'm constantly checking in the back. It's quickly becoming my number 1 fear. I've even had nightmares over it.


Same here.
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
11317 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:29 pm to
People have complicated lives with distractions and stresses. I can't imagine forgetting my child in the car but I won't ever say it couldn't happen to me. It's a terrible thing but terrible things happen.
Posted by LSUMJ
BR
Member since Sep 2004
19942 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:29 pm to
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but what kind of hospital doesn't have an ER?


the kind that was losing $2 miilion a month because people treated it like a regular doctors office
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263366 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:30 pm to
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how common this is


Its not.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63576 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:31 pm to
quote:

This, my son is 5 months old now, and even when he's not in the car with me I'm constantly checking in the back. It's quickly becoming my number 1 fear. I've even had nightmares over it.


Same here.


My favorite part of these threads (and they seem to happen about once a quarter) are the people who say worrying about this or taking precautions to prevent it makes you a lesser parent because you're admitting that it's possible, and dammit it just isn't possible if you love your kid.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85493 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:37 pm to
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the kind that was losing $2 miilion a month because people treated it like a regular doctors office


I'm not familiar with the BR health scene and I assumed it was something like that, but an ER seems like a staple for a hospital, which was my only point. What good is a hospital that cannot treat emergency patients? If is losing money, shutter the hospital.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85493 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:40 pm to
quote:

the people who say worrying about this or taking precautions to prevent it makes you a lesser parent because you're admitting that it's possible, and dammit it just isn't possible if you love your kid.


I could be wrong, but I don't know anyone nor do I recall anyone in the previous thread about the Mississippi woman who said something like this.

The only similar belief I can imagine is people who genuinely don't think it could happen to them so they don't take extra precaution. As you can tell from this thread, there are many people who think this is impossible if you give a shite about your kid, but I've never seen someone called out for taking extra precaution.
Posted by TigerOnTheMountain
Higher Elevation
Member since Oct 2014
41773 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:42 pm to
I have an 8 month old son. This is inexcusable. Murder, is what it is. You will never convince me you can just forget your kid was in the car with you.
Posted by Mad_Mardigan
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
1925 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:42 pm to
quote:

My favorite part of these threads (and they seem to happen about once a quarter) are the people who say worrying about this or taking precautions to prevent it makes you a lesser parent because you're admitting that it's possible, and dammit it just isn't possible if you love your kid.


I couldn't agree more. You don't forget your kid(s), you can't. They depend on you to survive. Anyone justifying forgetting a child ANYWHERE is insane. Worrying about this or that, work shite, blah blah blah...gimme a break.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
204357 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:44 pm to
frick, frick........... I was having a good day until I saw this... I hope I NEVER meet the person who did this or I may find a way to put THEM in a locked car for two fricking hours.............. frick.............
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101940 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:45 pm to
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What good is a hospital that cannot treat emergency patients? If is losing money, shutter the hospital.


If you ran a company that had 10 divisions, and 9 were effective and profitable while the 10th was hemorrhaging cash at the tune of $2M per month, would you shut down all 10? Or just the one?
Posted by cwil177
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2011
28655 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

What a terrible situation altogether, but what kind of hospital doesn't have an ER?


Probably one in a state where the previous governor insisted on cutting funding to hospitals and refused the medicare expansion that would have kept the ER open. I'm an ER doc FWIW and have worked at mid city ER (when it was open), the BR general, and OLOL. The fact that mid city ER closed is terrible due to the fact that so many violent crimes occur in that part of the city. Time is blood (and life), so that extra 15 minutes getting to the Lake can make all the difference.

quote:

I'm not familiar with the BR health scene and I assumed it was something like that, but an ER seems like a staple for a hospital, which was my only point. What good is a hospital that cannot treat emergency patients? If is losing money, shutter the hospital.

Because of the patient population around the general (ie, poor medicare/medicaid patients or uninsured), it's not surprising that the hospital was losing a lot of money with their ER, since the hospital won't end up seeing a penny for a lot of those patients. Places like OLOL and BR general see more insured patients who pay their bills.
This post was edited on 6/8/16 at 4:50 pm
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61442 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:48 pm to
Childs father has been arrested per wafb
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:51 pm to
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It happens because these children that die in a hot vehicle are not a priority for their parents. Everything else is, but not them.



anyone who downvoted deserves an arse kicking
Posted by Mad_Mardigan
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
1925 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 4:55 pm to
quote:

anyone who downvoted deserves an arse kicking


More than that.
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
9451 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 5:16 pm to
quote:

what kind of hospital doesn't have an ER?


The kind who had to close the doors of their ER because of indigents using the ER as a clinic instead for emergencies. Thus the hospital had to close the ER because of budget.

You asked.
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
36242 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 5:22 pm to


No words for this.....
Posted by tigerfootball10
Member since Sep 2005
9510 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 5:28 pm to
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I've never once forgotten I had my child with me. Not once.

There is no excuse. If my kids are with me that is all I'm thinking about. I'm not thinking of work or morning routines. I will never understand this. It's your frickin kids not your damn cell phone or sunglasses. How do you "forget"
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18692 posts
Posted on 6/8/16 at 5:28 pm to
quote:

If your kids are your priority. It will never happen. Judgemental? Call it what you want. There is a reason it's relatively rare.


It's not about priorities in accidental cases. This happens because of how our brain processes routines. If you study neuroscience at all you would see that our brain does many things in the background that directly affects our conscience stream of thought.

The post below my OP is a fantastic yet grim article that talks about the research behind why this can happen to anyone.
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