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Straight Guys that Rub your Back in public
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:19 am
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:19 am
I'm a guy. There's a male department head that I do work for that has a very annoying habit of rubbing my back, not quite in a gay way, but more as a gesture of encouragement or endearment. However, it is definitely the "slow hand" variety. He's married with kids; very smart and otherwise pleasant to be around. Sometimes it's my bicep while we're shaking hands. It's always in public and in plain sight of other people. He also does it to other men in his department and he seems to be comfortable with it. The others don't object but I'm guessing they're having the same thoughts as me. He did it again to me yesterday. I made up my mind that if he does it again, I'm calling a time-out, pull him aside and politely tell him I would prefer he not do that.
I know some people grow up in families that could be described as "huggers" or "touchers" and develop these habits in their formative years, but I think it's very inappropriate simply because 1) he doesn't have my permission and 2) it's a major invasion of my personal space. I also think this is a classic trait of con artists and/or a method of manipulation.
This ever happen to you? What do you think his motives are? What would you do?
I know some people grow up in families that could be described as "huggers" or "touchers" and develop these habits in their formative years, but I think it's very inappropriate simply because 1) he doesn't have my permission and 2) it's a major invasion of my personal space. I also think this is a classic trait of con artists and/or a method of manipulation.
This ever happen to you? What do you think his motives are? What would you do?
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:21 am to tigerpawl
Next time he does it jump back and remark loudly, "Quit rubbing me ya queer!"
That'll set him straight.
That'll set him straight.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:23 am to tigerpawl
After reading this, I think you are the closet fig
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:24 am to tigerpawl
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because 1) he doesn't have my permission
This is funny to me bc what's the opposite? Signing an agreement to touch?
You're a grown arse man. Tell him you don't like it.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:25 am to tigerpawl
quote:
Sometimes it's my bicep while we're shaking hands
This is a power thing. He has now established dominance over you beta.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:26 am to tigerpawl
quote:
, I'm calling a time-out, .
He's gonna put his weiner in you and a 30 second time out is all he needs.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:26 am to tigerpawl
find a different job,quick.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:27 am to zmanthetigerfan
quote:Bingo. That was my first thought.
This is a power thing. He has now established dominance over you beta.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:28 am to tigerpawl
"Hey, while I have you in my personal space and everything, let me tell you to back to frick off"
Fun fact: Matt Hoffman holds his own forearm when shaking people's hands to prevent anyone from pulling his elbow out of socket. He's done so much damage to his arm over the years that it can be pulled out just from the slightest bit of strain
Fun fact: Matt Hoffman holds his own forearm when shaking people's hands to prevent anyone from pulling his elbow out of socket. He's done so much damage to his arm over the years that it can be pulled out just from the slightest bit of strain
This post was edited on 11/30/15 at 6:31 am
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:47 am to Ed Osteen
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Fun fact: Matt Hoffman holds his own forearm when shaking people's hands to prevent anyone from pulling his elbow out of socket
Fun fact: I have no idea who Matt Hoffman is
Posted on 11/30/15 at 6:50 am to tigerpawl
I bet he'll give you a raise if
you show him your stink hole
you show him your stink hole
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:25 am to Mizzoufan26
You should take some time and read up on him, he's the man
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:40 am to Ed Osteen
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he's the man
Then why don't we know who he is?
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:40 am to tigerpawl
You should start moaning and groaning when he does it to you. Say stuff like "oh my God, that's the spot" and "oh yeah, don't stop". Say it loud and in a very sexual way and see how he reacts.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 7:45 am to upgrayedd
quote:I have my limits.
You should start moaning and groaning when he does it to you. Say stuff like "oh my God, that's the spot" and "oh yeah, don't stop". Say it loud and in a very sexual way and see how he reacts.
Posted on 11/30/15 at 8:04 am to tigerpawl
Send him my way, I enjoy a good back rub...I don't care who it comes from
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